Author Topic: Client cancels last minute (Read 1517 times)

jellib33 · « **on:** 06 March 2020, 05:35:01 pm »

I made a rookie mistake. I've met a client at least 2 or 3 times and he has never caused me any problems. Before I meet with new clients I make them send a deposit, or they can send a gift card if they prefer not to give me their real name. This client cancels 2 hours before our appointment, he also wanted to stop in last-minute yesterday but instead, he changed his mind. I'm kind of pissed, I gave him the benefit of the doubt and of course in this industry you get pissed on.... Would it be appropriate to ask for some type of compensation for cancelling this soon before our meeting? I don't have a policy on my website, I know this is the how escorting is, but the disrespect ..... At the same time, I know that's not how businesses are run. What would you do?

Missyblue · « **Reply #1 on:** 06 March 2020, 06:08:12 pm »

Clients cancel all the time - you can’t ask for compensation unless you have explicitly stated that on ur profile or website

Mirror · « **Reply #2 on:** 06 March 2020, 06:10:10 pm »

I take a deposit for the first and preferably second, after that I stand cancels as long as it's not a pattern.

saltysweet · « **Reply #3 on:** 06 March 2020, 06:22:30 pm »

Just demand a nice deposit as usual each time he books, as he can't be trusted can he?

I block most people after the first short notice cancellation, as too many do it nowadays.
I've fined guys an extra £50 on top of the standard fee if I change my mind and accept them back.

ChloeClouds · « **Reply #4 on:** 06 March 2020, 07:49:03 pm »

I've a client I had seen twice, both bookings went smoothly and there was no issues whatsoever. Now on the third booking he cancelled it last minute but due to him being reliable the first two times, I let him off. A few weeks later he did exactly the same thing and again and cancelled last minute with a silly excuse!! He then contacted me a week later and I explained that due to the previous issues with him cancelling last minute I would now need a deposit paying. I explained that this is my job and I had to turn down other clients for the time he had booked with me. He paid the deposit, no fuss and I now make him pay a deposit every single time he wants to see me

He hasn't cancelled since

denise96 · « **Reply #5 on:** 13 March 2020, 12:30:18 pm »

I had a cancellation in the last minute basically telling me with 30mins before our booking that he can't make it 😡 and in the morning he did confirmed! I can't accept that as i am planning everything in advance and i like reliable people. I blocked his number straight after i saw the text. Not even a sorry from his part. Wtf?! We may be the W word for them but still if i show you respect, show that in return as well...

GucciGang · « **Reply #6 on:** 13 March 2020, 01:21:14 pm »

I have on my profile if you do not compensate me for my time when cancelling no future booking will be taken. The way the economy is at the moment time wasting cannot be tolerated. That could be your only booking that day. Yes they can get a new SIM card but I think they would think twice about messing again if they really wanted to see you.

Justine · « **Reply #7 on:** 13 March 2020, 02:21:35 pm »

While I understand sometimes arrangements need to be cancelled because of life or work situations I also have what I think is a sixth sense when it comes to certain men.

A client I have seen 4 times before but maybe once a year, booked for a fairly short notice meeting today then cancelled 15 minutes later. He had asked in his call would I wear a certain outfit and I said yes. My spidey sense told me he would not be arriving and just wanted some inspirational words from me to have his alone time at home or in the office. Either that or I was planB but I had started preparing for his visit.

I am very suspicious now of anyone at all after my few days of time waster callers,texters and emailers. He is now banned.

English Green · « **Reply #8 on:** 13 March 2020, 03:51:24 pm »

Most clients are very unreliable cancel a lot at short notice or deliberately do not turn up to mess up your earning only way around this to either take a deposit or do not turn down other bookings still take bookings from others near the same time and see which one does actually show. I have tested this out several times you could have 4 in near same time and only 1 is genuine.

I do not trust or rely on a lot keeping there bookings so i have no choice but to operate a bit more like this. It is very rare to get 2 turn up near same time very rare and when it happens i will let other one know i am running late i never ignore any genuine ones as that is rude but equally we have to look out for ourselves like they all do.

There is more messers out there then genuine clients. Thank god for saafe and CE to avoid some of these types.

regieeee · « **Reply #9 on:** 13 March 2020, 04:40:55 pm »

There was this "very reliable client" then all of a sudden,
he started to show up really late, much later than what's acceptable.
Spidery sense, yes, I knew "what was up".

I sensed deep seated bitterness (of paying) and he essentially treated my time as
"unimportant". Would I put up with it?
No. Why should I when he probably wouldn't himself.

Sometimes, men whose life is a pile of shitty mess,
they do it to vent their anger.

Passive aggressive, pure aggression,
different types. I don't need it, to be frank.
They get what they ask for. He got it.

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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