Hi Everyone

I'm new here. I've done webcam and phone chat on and off for the past 8 years. I've decided to take the plunge and want to start offering meets but I'm mainly a domme. The meets would include stuff like :

- Strap on
- Humiliation
- Cash point meets/findom
- Tease and denial
- Ball and torture play
- Hypnosis
- Spanking

Does anyone offer this and do well? - I'm just trying to work out if it's worth the time or hassle. I make approx £1000 a week on a good week, but finding myself so tired because I'm working probably 10-12 hours a day. I want to also break the barrier, and hit into the 2000-3000 a week range if possible combining the two.

I live in a smallish town and I would travel to a larger city (Birmingham). Is anyone has any feedback on B'ham that would be awesome.

I would probably get a hotel room Monday-Friday and come home Friday evening. [removed]

TIA X

Hi Everyone

I'm new here. I've done webcam and phone chat on and off for the past 8 years. I've decided to take the plunge and want to start offering meets but I'm mainly a domme. The meets would include stuff like :

- Strap on
- Humiliation
- Cash point meets/findom
- Tease and denial
- Ball and torture play
- Hypnosis
- Spanking

Does anyone offer this and do well? - I'm just trying to work out if it's worth the time or hassle. I make approx £1000 a week on a good week, but finding myself so tired because I'm working probably 10-12 hours a day. I want to also break the barrier, and hit into the 2000-3000 a week range if possible combining the two.

I live in a smallish town and I would travel to a larger city (Birmingham). Is anyone has any feedback on B'ham that would be awesome.

I would probably get a hotel room Monday-Friday and come home Friday evening. [removed]

TIA X

As discussed on a similiar post on here recently, domme meets entail more potentially expensive equipment to buy and lug about and take more time to prep and clear up after. They also mean more prep time with the client making sure you've understood what the client specifically wants from an in person session.

I offer both GFE and domme services but have had to limit the range of domme services on offer for practical reasons. If you're planning on offering domme sessions solely from hotels, any activity involving much pain, noise or mess isn't really an option. The sounds associated with cock and ball torture and spanking can be awkwardly loud so unless you're in a hotel with pretty well soundproofed walls and doorways you might not be able to do so.

Have you thought about hiring a local dungeon? They're very well set up with harness points for restraints and are mostly located in places where the moaning, screaming, whip swishing and bum spanking noises are well disguised 

Also, you'll find a huge difference between the clients who enjoy a spot of online domination (often very spontaneous depending on what porn they've been watching) and the ones who are into actual physical / emotional sessional  domination. You'll need to be very clear about your personal limits and about safety i.e. you'll get a lot of requests for 'body worshipping' and you'll need to be sure your clients understand the principles of Safe Sane and Consensual domination.

Re the income potential, that will depend on how / where you market your sessions to get the genuine clients. My recommendation if you want to stick to pure domination is that you consider advertising on one of the dedicated 'Mistress' sites, and also follow a few Mistresses on Twitter to get a feel for how they approach their marketing and brand development. Not sure if I'm allowed to mention any by name on here but if you DM me I can give you the names of a few I found very inspirational.

Also re income, despite the longer prep / equipment and clear up efforts, most effective in person domme sessions are usually at least 1.5 hours which is always a bonus.

Those are my rambling thoughts anyway, hope they help!