Why would you lower your rate? You're not offering less of a service, just a different one (and plenty of girlfriends a) don't do blow jobs at all, and b) don't use condoms for shagging - we've had threads posted by newbies who have had boundary pushing punters insist that GFE=bareback). There are no 'types' of punters (or at least none that can be defined by the services they want/don't want) at least in my experience, and I stopped offering OWO over ten years ago and RO in 2013, I think.

You only think that 'most' punters want OWO because you offer it. If you don't then you get the ones who don't (for reasons you've given as well as others) plus the vast majority who don't really care .

If I remember rightly, a few regulars sulked disappeared for varying lengths of time but virtually of them all came back. The ones who didn't weren't people I missed - your regulars visit because they want to see you, and it's unlikely that one service is the be all and end all. And as you've predicted you'll get a whole new set who are more safety conscious (or just plain squeamish).

I also remember it took me roughly three weeks to get used to doing oral with a condom and putting it on with my mouth, and it's so ingrained now I don't think I could do it without one any more than I'd do unprotected shagging. The most important benefit was how much more relaxed I was and bookings were far more pleasant as a result .

Amy your positive outcome with switching to ow is encouraging. I think there's always a element of worry in this game with not offering certain services and a dusty phone. But I had a really hard time going up with my rates for fear of losing clients and I did lose most of them and when they commented on my new rates I just told them that if they felt I was not worth X amount then they could shop around to suit their budget. And I was thinking what have I done lol But being proud I just stuck at it and I got new and better bookings. But it's rare in my area to not offer owo at all. I don't want to put at discretion because guys need things made clear or they think they can get it.

So I will make it clear that it's a decision based on my sexual health and those that visit me and it's the level of risk I'm prepared to not take for my own health. And that it not negotiable. But I will get comments on it and loads of messages asking if I offer OWO. This happened when I took anal of my list, Everyone wanted it lol Even had regulars try and say that one day I might let them, Long wait.


I'd like to come back and add in so many months that it's not had a negative effect but now with educating myself more I will not feel comfortable offering owo and I don't want to escort and feel it's a risk that I'm not ok with.

it's rare in my area to not offer owo at all.

Well that's even better! You'll be a niche

I'd like to come back and add in so many months that it's not had a negative effect but now with educating myself more I will not feel comfortable offering owo and I don't want to escort and feel it's a risk that I'm not ok with.

Well the next few months are going to be so unpredictable anyway that there probably isn't any way of telling, but as I posted it made me so much happier that my bookings went better and more punters returned because I was far less stressed and uncomfortable, and that made work so much easier which in turn meant I could do more bookings. And like everything else, if you change your mind you change your mind .

Hi lottie , I feel doing ow now would make me feel less stressed before a booking especially since I had the experience with the guy putting some substance on his penis that was unexpected and made me panic as my lips went numb. Guys ruin for themselves and others really.

Questions for you Amy or anyone who's skilled at ow, Is there a technique? I can't use latex as I'm allergic to it and I've practically no experience except I have put a condom on with my mouth and the condom tastes horrible. Maybe a good oral edible lube? Obviously guys won't get the benefits of feeling my tongue so is there a technique to giving a good oral with a condom on? I though about practicing on a ripe banana lol

Thanks all for advice

I would like to start OW but I am struggling to find non-latex flavoured condoms. Has anyone come across them x

Skyn do a range called "Cocktail Club", they're a bit pricey though. Mates flavoured are a lot cheaper but I guess it depends why you want non-latex? If it's because latex upsets your vaginal pH (I've had this in the past) but you're not actually allergic then I'd personally use a Mates for oral, then switch to a non-flavoured Skyn for penetration.

 I always use super skinny flavoured condoms but unfortunately I have no idea how to put one on with my mouth. My technique is plenty of eye contact while rolling it on then licking slowly from the base up until the tip and rimming the head. Don't want want to get too graphic but clients seem to enjoy it and forget about the 'hardship' of wearing a condom.
Edited to say, always change the condoms. Sorry if it seems obvious! For me it's thin flavoured condom for oral then change over for sex.