I would advise you to pop along and see your doc asap. Any pain during or after intercourse needs to be checked by a doctor immediately.  It could be many things, from a simple womb or cervical infection right through to a prolapse or tilted womb or endometryitis (sp) like me.  I stupidly ignored it for a few months though which just made things much worse so I do advise you to go to the doctor before seeing any more clients.

As for the difficulty becoming aroused, I have had a lot of problems with this since the endo and it seems to be a mental problem rather then a physical one.  It seems physical pain during intercourse is a great way for your body to say" stuff that I am not getting ready for you to put me through that again" but it could also be that you do have an internal infection and your body is reacting to it.

A lot of docs will just fob you off so insist on being sent for a scan as well as blood tests and swabs taken.  Its better to get it all sorted now rather than being fobbed off for months and the problem getting worse (speaking from experience here as it took 7 months of different treatments before I was finally sent to gynacologist and got my scan to find out what was wrong).

It's that sort of pain when the muscles tighten to oppose entry, I think it's only caused by the lack of arousal, not by some medical condition. And yes, pain in the abdomen, yes I had that too.

Pain in the lower abdomen in some positions also indicate insufficient arousal, as normally the vagina elongates when aroused, but if it's not then you'll be too short and hence tummy pain if penetration is deep.

No, I haven't taken medication of any sort and I'm not of menopause age either.

I've always had problems down there, but this is mainly due to my diet rather than anything else.  I find if I eat too many sugary foods or dairy this affects me (as I'm intolerant to these foods).  As soon as a man enters me I'm sore and the soreness increases during intercourse due to the friction.  It finally took an alternative practitioner to realise that my body cannot control it's sugar levels and the dairy messes with my ph balance after years of trips to the GP trying to figure out what was wrong with me.  I'm supposed to avoid these foods now so I don't get sore, but sometimes you just can't say no to treats.
I'm not saying that this maybe your problem (but you can develop intolerancies/allergies over the years as your body changes), but it is something else to ask your GP about if s/he cannot find anything else wrong.

I hope you get sorted soon
xx

I had meant the topic to be more about the difficulty to get aroused than about the pain.

Edit to say I looked at the website above and is seems to describe what I experience, saying that causes can be phychological, which I had suspected. Maybe I need a holiday away from escorting.