Buy massage oils and a few towels then practice massaging your boyfriend to get confident in your technique and put adverts up (online? or in newspapers?) for 'sensual/erotic massage', I think that's discreet enough to only attract the right attention. They ask if it's a 'normal' massage or one with a 'happy ending' though.
For music, try searching for a CD album of relaxing music without words, I'm sure there'll be loads on the internet that you can have a preview listen to first. Just some background music so it's not totally silent
I think you should say you're pregnant by however many months but I don't think it'll put men off if it's a little bump and you can wear something low cut so they look at your cleavage instead.
Good luck with it! I hope this was somewhat helpful (I stopped doing massage because no one was interested where I live). I'm sure you'll do great
xxx