...obvious holding back or showing no signs of wanting to wrap things up with 5 minutes to go (I had one of these the other week on tour who wanted to discuss other positions we could try at the 57 minute mark) or otherwise deliberate twattery and they're done no more than a minute after their time's up.
Oh how I
loathe this. Just had one of those today. Just come already you greedy fu*k...
Personally I have always, since day one (been at it two years) timed it from as soon as they walk through the door.
Saying that, I have always worked for agencies, so, especially regarding incalls, I have no other choice, as it's their apartment, and if one person runs over it can unfairly screw up potentially another 15 ladies days.
However, I wouldn't do any different if I were to
ever actually get a none time wasting AW booking after 3 months & 70+shitty messages go independent.
I provide a very vanilla service though, and I find due to my age (20) that I tend to get a lot of boundary pushers. It has got to the sorry point where I have to repeat myself to a lot to clients when they try and force me into services I don't provide (OWO, A levels etc.) that they are paying for my time not my what happens within it.
Don't get me wrong- I have no problem staying for longer with outcall clients who I actually enjoy the company of. I have stayed for a good 4 hours extra with some clients (just talking) who I actually really 'click' with- but they're never first time clients & they know me well enough not to try anything beyond the paid time. But that is very rare.
When I enjoy someone's company & conversation & have nothing better to do with my day I will stay as long as I want to unpaid (again, no sex involved beyond the paid time) but I always make it very clear that is my choice on this occasion and it may not happen again.
However, as most people on this forum will be aware of by now, I am constantly struggling for money due to terrible bad luck with attempts at going indie and every agency I have worked for being heavily bent on favouritism, so if I do stay with a client for longer than what they've paid for it's mostly because I am so bored/lonely that I actually crave the company...