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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #15 on: 16 June 2014, 07:56:10 pm »
Some leave early, some leave late. It balances out eventually.

I have a timed playlist from as soon as they walk in the door though  ;) No obvious clock watching.

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #16 on: 16 June 2014, 08:26:54 pm »
I start the time when they arrive, and stop it according to how they behave during the booking. Any hint of pisstaking, 15 minute showers, obvious holding back or showing no signs of wanting to wrap things up with 5 minutes to go (I had one of these the other week on tour who wanted to discuss other positions we could try at the 57 minute mark) or otherwise deliberate twattery and they're done no more than a minute after their time's up.

Otherwise I'm not that bothered about overruns, although like others here I'm strict with 30 and 45 minute bookings and I don't see why somebody should get an hour for thirty quid less than somebody else just because he thinks it's OK to faff about chatting for 15 minutes rather than getting up and starting to get dressed or go for a shower. I have a regular who always tries this, and it drives me nuts.

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #17 on: 17 June 2014, 12:05:42 am »
...obvious holding back or showing no signs of wanting to wrap things up with 5 minutes to go (I had one of these the other week on tour who wanted to discuss other positions we could try at the 57 minute mark) or otherwise deliberate twattery and they're done no more than a minute after their time's up.

Oh how I loathe this. Just had one of those today. Just come already you greedy fu*k...

Personally I have always, since day one (been at it two years) timed it from as soon as they walk through the door.
Saying that, I have always worked for agencies, so, especially regarding incalls, I have no other choice, as it's their apartment, and if one person runs over it can unfairly screw up potentially another 15 ladies days.
 However, I wouldn't do any different if I were to ever actually get a none time wasting AW booking after 3 months & 70+shitty messages go independent.
 I provide a very vanilla service though, and I find due to my age (20) that I tend to get a lot of boundary pushers. It has got to the sorry point where I have to repeat myself to a lot to clients when they try and force me into services I don't provide (OWO, A levels etc.) that they are paying for my time not my what happens within it.
 Don't get me wrong- I have no problem staying for longer with outcall clients who I actually enjoy the company of. I have stayed for a good 4 hours extra with some clients (just talking) who I actually really 'click' with- but they're never first time clients & they know me well enough not to try anything beyond the paid time. But that is very rare.
 When I enjoy someone's company & conversation & have nothing better to do with my day I will stay as long as I want to unpaid (again, no sex involved beyond the paid time) but I always make it very clear that is my choice on this occasion and it may not happen again.
 However, as most people on this forum will be aware of by now, I am constantly struggling for money due to terrible bad luck with attempts at going indie and every agency I have worked for being heavily bent on favouritism, so if I do stay with a client for longer than what they've paid for it's mostly because I am so bored/lonely that I actually crave the company...

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #18 on: 17 June 2014, 02:03:59 am »
I start from when I've been paid as I won't do anything beforehand. I hate when clients lean in for a kiss or something before the session has started. I do the hello, how are you, you want half an hour, don't you, oh, thanks, I will put that away, what's the time?

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #19 on: 17 June 2014, 06:27:07 am »
I do outcalls only at the moment and I start the clock (my internal clock) from the time I walk in the door. An hour is more than enough to include pleasantries and chatting, and they're already showered when I arrive. Sometimes I will stay a little longer.

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #20 on: 17 June 2014, 08:46:00 am »
Thank you all. I love the idea of a timed play list that is very subtle. Checking the time and reminding him if his booking when taking the money is good as well. My advert is going in today so I want to be fully armed with as much info as possible.
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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #21 on: 18 June 2014, 02:35:26 am »
From the time I open the door, the time starts. I'm fairly lenient with time and not a clock watcher (I don't own a watch and never have my phone out), but guys are usually very respectful of time. I've never had it run over by more than about 5/10 minutes.

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #22 on: 18 June 2014, 01:18:03 pm »
I start the time when they arrive, and stop it according to how they behave during the booking. Any hint of pisstaking, 15 minute showers, obvious holding back or showing no signs of wanting to wrap things up with 5 minutes to go (I had one of these the other week on tour who wanted to discuss other positions we could try at the 57 minute mark) or otherwise deliberate twattery and they're done no more than a minute after their time's up.

Otherwise I'm not that bothered about overruns, although like others here I'm strict with 30 and 45 minute bookings and I don't see why somebody should get an hour for thirty quid less than somebody else just because he thinks it's OK to faff about chatting for 15 minutes rather than getting up and starting to get dressed or go for a shower. I have a regular who always tries this, and it drives me nuts.

Totally agree, start the clock on the door opening but the way the booking goes dictates whether we over run or not. And tougher on shorter bookings but honestly they tend to finish early anyway.

Although I do have one 30 min regular who I could happily have stay all day!!!! Its all about me and he is gorgeous, but even then it comes to a natural end at about 45 mins.

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #23 on: 18 June 2014, 10:26:27 pm »
I will let sex time overrun 5 mins on half hr bookings and 10 on 1 hour bookings. I do have a visible alarm clock but I don't see why I shouldn't as I need to know what is the time and I don't keep glancing at it, eg  when I get the condom or toys I will check it. Also most guys take their watches off or don't wear one so it gives them an indication of how long they have left and I see them look at it.

I talk too much sometimes so spend too much time chatting even on half hr bookings but I am going to stop  ;D

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #24 on: 30 June 2014, 03:27:44 pm »
When the paperwork is done I'm on paid time thats when the clock starts. Interested to know what you ladies do if a client is late..say he has a one hour booking at 1pm but he is 30mins late which really messes up your later bookings so do you charge him for the 1 hour but give him 30 minutes charge him for 30 minutes or give him the hour and cause problems for the clients booked after him? 

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #25 on: 06 July 2014, 09:51:23 pm »
Clearly charge him for 30 minutes and he has to go after 30 minutes.
Cant charge a client for one hour if he is late and you have another booking right after, you have the option not to take the late client at all or to leave at least  one hour between bookings.

Its how I do it and never had issues.
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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #26 on: 06 July 2014, 10:33:51 pm »
Yeah, I start charging the minute I'm inside their home. And if they're late for whatever reason, they still have to pay for the full session with me :/

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #27 on: 06 July 2014, 11:38:13 pm »
I dont time my bookings anymore, I have an internal clock built in. I dont mind if they stay 10-15 minutes longer, especially if Im enjoying myself. I always take at least one hour break between bookings or more and I dont like to see more then 2-3 guys in a day. I know its shocking, but I preffer to stay sane and dont burn out.
+1 this is exactly the way I work.

I never really "time" the booking, I just kind of know how long it's been. I may check now and again and sometimes the client actually asks me too, but I'd never clock watch. I don't mind going slightly over, I never include the shower in the time. With playlists etc it seems very rigid and parlour like to me, I think some guys actually (excuse the pun) "clock on" if you do that, not wrong but not something I would ever do.

Don't get me wrong, I wouldn't let someone take the piss, but then all my clients are generally very nice and leave pretty much on time. I also never see more than 2-3 max guys in one day and always leave at least an hour (usually much more) between any booking.

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #28 on: 08 July 2014, 12:16:34 pm »
Doing outcalls I start my time from the moment I meet him, usually the arranged time which makes it pretty easy for me to plan my life. I don't mind running over up to 15-30 minutes depending on how long I'm booked for (longer than 3 hours for an extra 30 being OK). I don't see loads of guys a day though so it's alright.

I've recently had a request book to meet at 12pm for 2 hours, then e-mail me asking if I'm happy to meet for a drink beforehand at 11.15am. In lieu of this I asked whether the 2 hours is from 11.15am or 12pm, as 45 minutes on top of a 2 hour booking is really far too long and rather cheeky if you ask me. He said the room is available from 12.15 so "maybe a grey area". I've responded that I think 11.15am is early (I usually meet in evenings) and 2 hours from 12.15 sounds good as 11.15 would make the session 3 hours. I'm awaiting his reply but I won't actually be meeting him. I'm a friendly girl who does enjoy meeting most of the guys I do, I usually have a good time in my meets. But I set my rates for a reason, mulled over them carefully... why do some of these guys think it's OK to try and devalue your time just because you a) may enjoy sex with them or b) they want to have a drink with you for an hour beforehand? It immediately turns me off thinking a guy is cheap too LOL and they know what the score is...

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Re: When do you start timing?
« Reply #29 on: 08 July 2014, 02:12:34 pm »
I start from when they walk in, or whatever time the booking was scheduled to start - so if it was 2-3pm it starts at 2pm. if the client is late then tough, but if I am late then obviously I will run over as it was my fault.