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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: laurennorthwest on 30 January 2012, 01:01:14 pm
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When I had a terrible irritation problem downunder which I've now found is most likely to be due to latex irritation I started offering Massage + HR, why don't you consider that? At least it would bring some money in.
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Oh Lauren sorry to hear this :-\ I had to have surgery last year which put me out of action for 6 weeks and it was a nightmare! Since then I always try to keep some money to one side (easier said than done) but that doesn't really help you now. Could you take phone calls to help out?
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Ah you poor thing. If it's not bad enough going through what you are at the moment you have the work dilemma also. I too normally have money put by/savings but it's not always easy in these difficult times. I too would suggest massage and HR also instead and advertise in your local online classified sections like Freeads, Viva Street and Gumtree as well as your usual places where you should get a decent amount of work. Have a look around to see what others are charging. [suspicious][/suspicious] Good luck and hope you're better soon :) :)
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I'm sorry to hear you're going through it at the moment. I was out of work for most of June last year, as I kept getting re-occuring BV. As others have suggested massage (with a happy ending) could be the route to go down for the time being. I really hope your treatment goes well and that you make a full recovery in no time.
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Going through the same thing, have inboxed you.
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Oh no huney! So sorry to hear that! Have you considered webcam work? x
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Dont forget if you're self employed and pay your NI contributions you're entitled to claim sick pay. Its not much, I think about ?50 a week, but at times like this it ALL helps!!
Look after yourself and get well soon!
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Sorry to hear this ............ as well as offering hr you can offer covered oral as well ......reverse massage .......and a bit of bdsm ( no sex ) there are plenty of alternatives to penetration ( i find lots of clients dont even want full sex they are happy with covered oral and finish off on my boobs )
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Nuru massage seems to very popular - why not look into that. Also camming doesn't necessarily mean toys. I very rarely use toys myself. Hope your treatment goes well.
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Try not to panic too much and well done for managing to put money away for a 'rainy day'.
TBH I hope you will be 100% ok, thats the real issue here. I had this ( a while ago, about 9 years ago) its a bit uncomfortable but the relief of an all-clear is what you are really striving for!!
By the way, I had sex after a week, Dr was a bit cross when I ended up getting an infection (not an STI, I wasn't escorting then, and with OH, but we hadn't been together long and still at that stage of wanting 'it' all the time) oooops ::)
I think the 6 week thing is just to be safe but it may not be as long as that.
Anyway, rambling here, good luck and enjoy your holiday. Hope you are going somewhere nice and hot! xxx
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Well firstly I really hope all goes well for you hunni. I was diagnosed with breast cancer in Oct 2009 & had a double mastectomy in Dec 09. I didn't work for 7months. Good job we have savings luvvie.
Even now I don't take my bra off in the room or on webcam either. I vary rare use toys on cam. You have to adapt babe & guys can be quite understanding when you explain things. Massage with HR etc is quite fine.
Good luck babe let us all know how it goes.
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thanks every1, i do have lots in my savings but just hate dipping into it but i spose thats whats its for... ::)
and thanks for the suggestion for hr!! it never even crossed my mind!! :o
ill put that on my profile now!!
cheers all and at least this post is on here now for other girls! :-*
It's so good of you to think of others when you are in your predicament. Many girls would probably just think of themselves and say 'Woe is me' ...................... well done. Hope you are feeling better soon - and are fit for work ;)
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Hi. I am sorry to hear you have to undergo Lletz. I myself had this last year for CIN 3. Hope it all works out for you. It is hard when you rely on your income at least you have some savings.xx
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I had a similar thing just literally a week after I started working, I had to go in for an op and could not have sex for that long, I simply switched to rub and tug, there might not be the same money in it but I made a decent living still more than enough to get by on.
Some of my rub and tug clients switched to fps after I was fully functional so that was a bargain, do not be surprised if you get offers of silly money to be your first when you get back! I got several times my usual hourly rate, was a bit like being a virgin again! haha