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laurennorthwest

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« on: 02 September 2011, 10:01:30 pm »
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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #1 on: 02 September 2011, 10:45:46 pm »
In this climate if you have that many bookings you are doing amazingly well.  I would take the half hour fee and enjoy a cup of tea in your break.

I would not take a shortened appointment personally.

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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #2 on: 02 September 2011, 11:04:08 pm »
I hate it when people do this. I usually get people book 30 mins, and then they arrive and declare they want 1 hour or 2 hours instead. Usually I can work around it, but sometimes it's an issue and I just have to say 'no.'  :-\ I now state on the phone that I get booked up pretty quickly, so if they want longer than I need to know in advance...

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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #3 on: 02 September 2011, 11:40:37 pm »
Do you actually offer half hour outcalls? If anyone tried that to get something that I wouldn't have agreed to in advance, I'd leave. You might not always feel able to walk away from the money though.

I think it would be reasonable to charge for part of the unused portion of the session they booked (might make them remember that they have a bit more time or money than they thought), but you need to be able to stick with it and send them packing if they don't go along with it, otherwise you'll invite further boundary pushing.

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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #4 on: 03 September 2011, 02:39:55 am »
If they want shorter than booked, they pay the fee for what they've booked or they leave with nothing - I'm strict on that, they want me more than I need their cash. Not that I'm minted and never have money troubles but it's not worth doing this job if it makes you feel taken advantage of or that your boundaries are pushed.

If they want longer then I'm happy to extend as long as I don't have anything else of course, some clients seem genuinely surprised if I say "no, someone else is coming shortly after and I need the time I've left between to get ready". They're surprised that I see more than one person a day, and those that aren't surprised by that are surprised that I don't have someone literally straight after and leave some time to have a wash and change the bedding (and make sure they don't run into each other on the stairs... could be awkward). Basically - some guys just don't use their brains at all!

Oh, I'm also strict on extensions. I don't let them pay for 'an extra five minutes' or whatever because I know that they'll probably run over by that anyway. I sell time in 15min blocks, thats my minimum booking length so it's my minimum extension. If they don't use the full time, tough.
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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #5 on: 03 September 2011, 10:38:38 am »
No, I wouldn't let them get away with this one.

Even if I did incalls, it would still mean me potentially turning down callers and losing work in the time space afterwards he had *promised* to pay me for.

Outcalls are even more strict. I do occasional half hours myself as I find they are a doddle and a lot less emotional effort. The guys that book them pretty much know they aren't going to be banging away for the full 30 mins anyway and it can be; in-deed done-dressed and out in 20 mins flat. No matter- it still takes the same amount of time to prepare for and travel to..
On my outcalls, I need them to know exactly how long they are booking for ( I get alot of the, " Ill book for the hour and we'll see how it goes.. ::) Just so that I actually turn up I suppose ).

There is a lot of * kidd-ology* in this game of course. From both sides  :)
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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #6 on: 03 September 2011, 12:52:27 pm »
( I get alot of the, " Ill book for the hour and we'll see how it goes.. ::) Just so that I actually turn up I suppose ).

I'm totally ok with clients extending.
Incalls are brill.
"I'll book for half an hour. When I'm with you, would it be ok to extend the appointment?"
I'm fine with that.
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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #7 on: 03 September 2011, 02:33:51 pm »
I also charge ?120 for the half an hour appointments, and most extend after that time. I guess it gives them a taster...

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« Reply #8 on: 05 September 2011, 11:19:08 am »
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« Reply #9 on: 05 September 2011, 11:21:25 am »
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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #10 on: 06 September 2011, 04:38:38 pm »
I'm totally ok with clients extending.
My pricing structure encourages them to extend.
Ohhh that gives me an idea for another thread.

Here we go:
Encouraging longer bookings
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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #11 on: 07 September 2011, 03:56:07 am »
Often clients genuinely don't know how long they do want with you. I offer heavily weighted half-hours because yes they can be fine to slot in, but when I offered them at closer to half my one-hour rate I got terribly messed around - also they often blocked up my day for 1  hour or more bookings which most prefer with myself.

When a prospective client says "I'll decide when I arrive", well sometimes it is genuine - but other times I'm sure some guys know what they are doing. Whilst it's no skin off anyone's nose, to have someone say they want a shorter time, but might extend. You are friendly, it would spoil the GFE to ask or point out the timing, it does run on then they don't have the difference. Well ok it's not harmed you as such however it can leave you feeling a little taken advantage of, plus it's not fair on the guys who do book and pay for the longer time in full. That 'taken advantage' feeling isn't a good one to have in this business, and I do everything I can to avoid it. Because of the guys who are vague, or who do arrive thinking they'll have whatever length suits them but only wanting to pay the minimum, well it means I check specifically with the client exactly the time they want and are able to pay for.  This can be at odds with the fact I only see few clients each day, and I think it does confuse or put some on the spot - but it's to protect both sides and prevent any potential fall outs, or sticky situations!

The best ones for making me smile have been when a chap has asked me to fit him into my plans, for a quick half-hour because he's short of time. Turns up 20 minutes late, and stays 40 minutes. Ahem, I thought he was short of time - also it's hardly 'fitting' in when it's taken up a full hour of time either. I'd prefer it if guys actually just said "Look I only want half an hour, but not sure what time I'll arrive, what can  you do?". Not being upfront like this, using the 'just fit me in' then taking up double the time only means I'm not going to want to do the same again.
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Re: clients changing length of booking on arrival!!
« Reply #12 on: 08 September 2011, 10:07:56 pm »
Strawberry - I HATE when that happens (your last paragraph). I had a guy the other day say when he arrived (10 mins late!) he would have to reduce his hour booking to 45 mins , and how much would that be? So I quoted a 'weighted' 45 min rate (ie-closer to the hour) and he moaned like hell. I thought - I set aside an hour for you you w***!  He said he had a meeting he would really be pushing it to make. Well he had his 45 mins and then spent 15 in the shower and 5 chatting! grrrrrrrrrrrr.

Your quick half-hour guy who turned up 20 mins late would be getting 10 mins if it were me (but I'm evil haha!)

The way I see it is that I do my best. I direct them close by (across road), tell them to call me 5 mins before appt start time and give them address from there. Give them 5 mins to get here. I don't charge for their shower time at all, but more than 5-10 mins in a shower for a man is just too much, so I would start deducting after that. The booking starts getting "wrapped up" at 45 mins after end of shower for an hour or 20 ims for a 30 min (ie - please orgasm if you haven't already, I up the ante, more sexual etc to encourage orgasms). I don't mind the time showering afterwards since I will getting the room ready and myself ready whilst they are in there!

If they are late, I don't tell them their time will be shortened accordingly, as if you tell they may well not stay or try to pay a lower price. I set out that amount of my time for you - therefore it's only fair I'm paid for it. I just finish on time anyway without saying a word.

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