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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: BethElizabeth on 01 July 2019, 02:08:13 pm
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Hi all,
I have recently taken the step of going from an agency to independent, a few days ago I saw a client that I had seen while I was working for the agency and I would allow cim (for extra) however would never swallow. At the recent booking, he said ‘why don’t you swallow? It’s already in your mouth, it’s such a turn on’. I told him I don’t offer it blah blah blah, he then says most other girls swallow when they do cim.
However every time I saw him through the agency he never pushed like that, so I’m thinking he’s trying to push the boundaries now I’m indy, or do other girls include this??
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Not a service I offer because of catching gonorrhoea in your throat. It’s the one disease which is becoming resistant to the antibiotics. I offer Cum on body instead.
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Some sex workers offer this,some don't.It doesn't really matter though what others offer,if you don't then he is clearly your classic boundary pusher.We have all had them.Stick to your guns and if he continues to natter for things you don't offer,ditch him.
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I don't do CIM at all, even with partners. However, if you can tolerate having it in your mouth, it might be safer to swallow anyway as it's held in your mouth for less time if you do it straight away - plus the punter gets off on it.
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Clients lie and wind you up with any old flannel especially if they think you're new. SW have freedom to provide and enjoy lots of services including swallow...their choice. If he's saying it's standard he probably thinks you're a fool.
If you're uncomfortable with being pressurised dump him. If he's tolerable you can charge him £50 more for swallow and see how quickly he'll loose interest.
From what you say, you're Indy. Hopefully you're not still attached to the agency so he can't blab on you moonlighting.
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I offer Cum on body instead.
This I do too, no CIM or swallow.
I have big boobs and guys seem to like tit wank and cum on them.
I have a few guys who are really turned on and like to suck their own cum off my nipples.
It takes all kinds
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You can catch Sti’s in your mouth through Owo, I wouldn’t risk it x
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You can still catch an STD from OWO ...my friend caught an sti in her mouth from doing OWO/CIM. she’s being off work for sometime now as a result
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Clients lie and wind you up with any old flannel especially if they think you're new. SW have freedom to provide and enjoy lots of services including swallow...their choice. If he's saying it's standard he probably thinks you're a fool.
If you're uncomfortable with being pressurised dump him. If he's tolerable you can charge him £50 more for swallow and see how quickly he'll loose interest.
From what you say, you're Indy. Hopefully you're not still attached to the agency so he can't blab on you moonlighting.
*SNORTS!!*
As usual, scribbling this 1 down in my big book of "quick replies & snappy answers to stupid ??s the clients ask."
Hahahahaha♥️this. So very much.
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I dread the accidental cum in mouth happening :-X
If these guys are so keen to get women to swallow they should taste their own first !
If it tasted like something nice it wouldn't be so bad.
Is it meant to be nutrianal?
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I dread the accidental cum in mouth happening :-X
If these guys are so keen to get women to swallow they should taste their own first !
If it tasted like something nice it wouldn't be so bad.
Is it meant to be nutrianal?
I hate to be the one to break this news to you but there are websites dedicated to giving recipes using semen. Google it at your peril.
::)
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He is just a piss taker he knows if you was fully comfortable with swallowing you would be doing it anyway. Makes no difference to him if you swallow or not they just like pushing you to do things your uncomfortable with it turns them on.
I do not like CIM so would not offer it as it is not my thing do not like the taste or extra risk and some mens cum is quite repulsive and seen blood twice in there cum, but if someone brings up other workers do it and you should etc i would not want to see them again it is unfair to compare or push for these things if there that bothered just only book ones that offer it they should not make you feel bad.
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The £50 makes it taste a lot better lol ;D
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The £50 makes it taste a lot better lol ;D
Lol
You naughty girl
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It sounds like he's just getting off on getting you to go a step beyond the usual. He could quite easily find someone willing to swallow if it's that important to him.
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I offer OWO and CIM but not swallowing because, to be frank, it literally gives me the shits! Like within about an hour of doing it ???
To be honest, we all have different ways of working and different boundaries, and any client who says "All the other girls do X, Y or Z", in an attempt to guilt you into offering something you don't want to, is a boundary pusher. He's seeing what he can get away with and it's something I would blacklist for.
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I offer OWO and CIM but not swallowing because, to be frank, it literally gives me the shits! Like within about an hour of doing it ???
To be honest, we all have different ways of working and different boundaries, and any client who says "All the other girls do X, Y or Z", in an attempt to guilt you into offering something you don't want to, is a boundary pusher. He's seeing what he can get away with and it's something I would blacklist for.
"I KNOW, RIGHT? And the other escorts in all of London are meeting up at The Tower tonight at 9 pm for a mass jump off, I expect you to be there bc, well, every one else will be doing it!"
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Hi all,
I have recently taken the step of going from an agency to independent, a few days ago I saw a client that I had seen while I was working for the agency and I would allow cim (for extra) however would never swallow. At the recent booking, he said ‘why don’t you swallow? It’s already in your mouth, it’s such a turn on’. I told him I don’t offer it blah blah blah, he then says most other girls swallow when they do cim.
However every time I saw him through the agency he never pushed like that, so I’m thinking he’s trying to push the boundaries now I’m indy, or do other girls include this??
I offer OWO but not CIM or swallow.
OWO carries risks although low. Everything carries risks, even kissing carries risks. It’s just a case of weighing up what risks your willing to take.
I was told by my clinic that deepthroat, CIM and swallow carry a much, much higher risk of catching ghonorea etc in your throat as they like to live in areas with mucus.
I wouldn’t offer CIM or swallow cause it would make me absolutely GAG, my stomach couldn’t take it regardless of the risks but that’s just me.
I’ve seen clients with quite interesting cum from being very lumpy, strange in colour (yellow), some with blood in it and I even had one with very dark brown blood (I assume) but it looked like dark diarrhoea so if you did CIM and swallow, you don’t know what your taking in your mouth.
The client sounds like an opportunist boundary pusher taking advantage of you’re indy vulnerability that he thinks you have, personally I wouldn’t see him again.
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