I had my first booking yesterday... Hundred times easier than I thought. He was clean, polite, considerate and charming. I actually found it hard to stop myself laughing halfway through as I was so happy at how easy it was and that I was getting paid so well for it!

Anyway, this guy is lovely, took me for dinner first etc. He told me after we'd finished that basically he's looking for a regular arrangement, to see me once a week and in return he'll clear my debts for me, pay me ?500 a month, plus take me shopping if i need new clothes, food, anything like that.

Has anyone got any experience of this? It sounds pretty good to me - obviously the ?500 is low for four meetings a month, but to clear my debts and take me food shopping when I need it too?

He is really really lovely - he wants to meet for a couple of hours each week, which, as a student, I can give easily. I just dont want him to make false promises although he doesn't seem like that?

Well done on your first booking.  Its a good feeling to get it out of the way.

As for the client, thats a sugar daddy and you would be his sugar babe.  Its great that he seemed lovely but even the worst people can seem lovely for a few hours at a time.  Its a great offer if its the sort of thing you want but keep in mind that you have only met him once and he could be full of shit.  I think its pretty common for guys to think we need 'saving' and that they can be the one to do it and we will be amazingly gratefull forever.  You would really have to be able to make yourself available to him or come to some kind of arrangement about how he and the escorting would fit around each other.

I have a similar sort of thing going on.  I needed a large amount of money recently and a client offered to help me out.  I didnt like the idea of that whole 'sugar daddy' kind of thing because i dont want to feel like i owe anyone anything so in the end we came to another arrangement, just a monthly payment.  Turned out i didnt need the money in the end so our arrangement will start after new year but if it does im going to think of it as a bonus rather than counting on receiving it every month.  I dont want to feel like i'm relying on just one person and i certainly dont want anyone thinking i rely on them and getting some power trip from it.  I think it would be very easy to start relying on that one client and then if it suddenly stopped id be stuck.  Does that make sense?

Anyway, my point is if its the kind of arrangement that you want then take it slow, get to know him a bit, dont jump in to it and work out if you mind getting that kind of financial help from one person because if you get used to it too quickly it could be hard to turn him away when you realise you dont like him.  and make sure you both know the ins and outs of the deal down to the last detail so there is no confusion at any point, write it down even so you can go back to it if you feel the boundries are being pushed.  

Or tell him to go on sugardaddy.com to find someone who is looking for that kind of thing.

Just be carefull with offers that sound too good to be true.... they usually are (i'm a bit synical, I know!)



xx

Just be carefull with offers that sound too good to be true.... they usually are

That's my first reaction too. To have such a sweet deal come out of a first booking seems a little unusual (or maybe you're just really lucky, in which case, I'm jealous :p)

This is probably a stupid question but, does he know your debt situation?

As Anika Mae already said, make certain you work out every detail beforehand - schedules for payment, meetings, etc. - my concern would be that he would try to take advantage of you some way and you'd end up getting the short end of the stick.

Hope it works out for you though!  Good luck.

I would believe nothing until it happened.
I would not listen to anything past the handover of cash at the start of each booking and treat each booking as if it's all your going to get from him.
Guys will say all the time they are coming back, they will book you again, they want to be a regular - for the majority of the time, this does not happen.
It does  at times, don't get me wrong.

ooo...say it girlfriend. Its happened quite a bit where someone will say, "would like to do this every week if it goes well". I even had one guy in my early days actually tell me he hires escorts all the time, and that he'd be my sugar daddy. Again, these are all people I have met, but didnt turn out to become regulars.

I remember Brandy said something awhile back about how clients also told her the same thing, but usually its a ploy to get a discount of sorts.

On the flip side, that's just what happens the majority of the time, not ALL the time. I had a sugar daddy before also before I left home. Would see me about 2-3 times a week. He didnt promise to pay my debts, or use the word 'sugar daddy'...So I know its possible, but on a first booking with a client I would also take like a grain of salt.

Its just like on a 1st date when a guy makes vague plans for down the line with no day set. Its called 'bookmarking'.

Has anyone got any experience of this? It sounds pretty good to me

And may I add...Maybe Im just superstitious (ok very)    but I sometimes think it's best to just wait and see and not tell anyone. There's things in the woodwork that I am just so afraid to mention for fear it may become jinxed!