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Author Topic: Client turns up and he's the guy been prowling my neighborhood for the past week  (Read 1405 times)

Ieaio

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Same guy, same numberplate, I noticed it first and thought nothing of it at the start of the week, While I was doing my washing up, this guy made eye contact with me rolling around the neighbourhood in his car not looking purposeful but then he caught my eye and he panicked & drove out of the culdesac. Repeat throughout the week (5 times god knows how many times he actually did this because those are the only times I spotted it looking out the window) and i realize this isn't just some chap who has gotten lost or has a friend in the neighborhood. Same situation, every time I would spot him he'd look like i'd caught him out and back away in his car literally backwards in a panic and sometimes come back, He would just stare at my house I . Today it happened loads, 2 hours before I had a booking due so I was super freaked out, then my client turns up & it's the guy that's been prowling my neighbourhood the past week and most of the day. I didn't open the door and I told him his behaviour made me uncomfortable, that he needs to leave. What do I do? Leave it and hope me telling his behavoir was out of line makes him stop.
« Last Edit: 16 March 2017, 03:30:06 pm by Ieaio »

lillith

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Hi Ieaio, sorry that it caused you to panick, just throwing a throught out there to think about so could it be that this is one of those first time guys, nervous and new to escorting, and wanted to make sure you were genuine and was trying to muster up the courage. It's a big psychological hurdle for some, he could've been married, just broke up with girlfriend, bereaved and was giving it a trial run, mentally rehearsing, the fact that he came to your door with an appointment in his car with registration in broad daylight suggests he wouldn't be up to no good

Everybody knows that several people in any given street have those CCTV cameras and his car reg would have been clocked, so could have been something relatively innocent that just looked creepy and sinister? Just thought that different scenario might ease your mind a bit!
xx

mature helen

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Many years ago I had a guy who would drive into my cul de sac and sit outside my working flat and occasionally stare at my kitchen window in a way I knew he was there just to look at me or my flat, I didn't know who he was from Adam so I called the police with his registration number and they come back to that that reg number didn't exist.
It creeped me out as this was pre internet and pre photo advertising so he couldn't have tracked me down or recognised me through my advertising. I agree you shouldn't open the door to him as his behaviour was very odd.
All men have nerves when they come for the first time but its very rare to have one act in this way.
Stay safe.

MissBehaving

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How did he know where you to find you? Had he placed the booking several days ago ?

sweetmilf

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Sounds like some form of stalking.  :-\

Wailing Banshee

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Well someone must have told him where you lived and he has been checking it/you out- how else would he know unless you have seen him before.

I'd leave it for now- you told him you felt uncomfortable so hopefully he'll take note- if he contacts you again tell him his behaviour is creepy and if you hear from him again you'll call the police. Then leave it. If he appears again or sends messages get the police involved if you can.

Chances are he is an idiot who has been told about you by a well meaning (but stupid) mate and just hasn't thought of the implications- he is more likely to be a bit thoughtless than be an actual nutter statistically.

Jessiegirl

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My thoughts are he may be a nervous first timer. If he was dodgy I don't think he would have showed for the booking.
But better to be safe than sorry so just block him. If you see him again confront him and tell him you will report him to the police if you see him loitering again.