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Annabella

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Starting out - your help needed!
« on: 05 June 2011, 11:02:31 pm »
Good Evening Ladies,

I am fairly new to this site, have spent the last couple of weeks reading as much as is possible to prepare me for what lay ahead which has proven very useful indeed  : D

I have a couple of questions if you don't mind...

Firstly, I am hoping to charge around 250p/h mark (I am in London and independant doing outcalls only) but am having difficulties in choosing where to advertise as I believe that choosing the right sites will be more likely to attract to kind of customers who are willing to pay this amount. 

Most of the directories I have seen work by linking to your own website, which I do not have.  I was only planning on seeing a couple of clients each week (I already have a full time job) so was not planning on setting one up either.

Is this the wrong decision? Do you think I need to have my own site in order to attract the kind of affluent/business customer I would like? 

Your thoughts would be very much appreciated : )

Anna

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Re: Starting out - your help needed!
« Reply #1 on: 05 June 2011, 11:45:08 pm »
Need? No.

But it's going to be much easier with one, especially given your pricing decision. Even though you're only looking for a couple of bookings a week, you need some way to stand out from the crowd, and that's hard to do in a small ad. On your own site, you can put more of your escorting persona across, and it's this as much as what you look like which will attract clients.

Cue a chorus of people saying that 'affluent' does not mean 'good client' :)
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Re: Starting out - your help needed!
« Reply #2 on: 07 June 2011, 08:35:51 am »
Thank you very much XW5.  I think I will keep my own site in mind for future but for now I think I will just try and have some decent photographs taken for some of the directories - hopefully this will be enough for now!

Annabella

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Re: Starting out - your help needed!
« Reply #3 on: 07 June 2011, 10:07:43 am »
Thank you very much XW5.  I think I will keep my own site in mind for future but for now I think I will just try and have some decent photographs taken for some of the directories - hopefully this will be enough for now!

Annabella

For higher rates and outcalls and things, you really do need to focus on building a "brand" for yourself, which includes stuff like blogging, tweeting and keeping your site consistently updated with new and interesting content. None of that is essential - there are lots of successful escorts who don't do all of them - but they really do help.

You can get yourself a blog (Wordpress.com, Blogger.com et al) & Twitter account for free in about two minutes tops so if time or money are your concern, then you're worrying needlessly. Also, if you're concerned about getting ripped off or having to have an unprofessional-looking site, talk to xw5 for answers to that!

The main directories that I know of that create a full profile for you are Adultwork and Cherrygirls. Lots of people only use AW (you can blog on there if you don't mind their draconian rules and persistent refusal to respond to help requests with anything but template auto-responses) but then you are at that site's mercy so if it goes down, you lose your entire source of income. That might not matter when you're established and have regulars, but when you're new and if you're not doing much else to stand out above the competition, it could be much worse.

I found Cherrygirls to be absolutely useless for anything but obvious timewaster callers, and the owner tried to solicit me into joining a special "agency" wherein he would pimp me out to any random guy who paid a subscription to another site he ran and I'd then have to provide Mr Random with a discount, so I unfortunately can't personally recommend them. You need to charge ?350+ to even get into the "high class" section of their site, and you need to pay hundreds per month if you want to be shown in any additional sections like "blonde" or "student" or whatever. But again, I think others have had some success - I'm just not sure if it would be worth it if you're planning to be part-time.

So really, xw5's advice makes the most sense overall because having control over your own marketing is extremely important in this business. Leaving the promotion of yourself to others is never going to be as effective as doing it yourself. And if you're looking to make a good independent living, you want to appeal to a broad client base, so ruling out getting a website (when they can be free, or almost-free + effort-free) limits yourself unnecessarily.

I think all of us prossie-bloggers have stories about lots of clients who said they made their appointment based on something they've read that we've written - as well as our pictures, of course! ;) It really is a good way to reach out to them and let them know who you are and what you can offer them beyond the usual "I'm a sensual beautiful educated classy companion" profile text.
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