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samp

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Strange Client
« on: 15 October 2019, 08:03:18 pm »
Hi just wandered if anyone had the same thing happen to them.  Now, I don't profess to be Britain's Next Top Model and I'm certainly not Quasimodo's sister.

Client has been on at me for ages for a meet.  I agreed last minute.  He asks me to wear a nice sexy dress which I have an put on.

He arrives, looks me up and down, says lovely dress, you look nice.  Lead him further into my flat to a designated area, suddenly he says, actually I'm sorry, you aren't who I thought you were' and says he is cancelling the booking before walking to the door and leaving.  I didn't even have the chance to tell him that he had wasted my time or anything else before he disappeared. ??? ???

Who knows why he did a bunk, has anyone had anything like that happen to them before and should I have tried to get the payment from him still?

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #1 on: 21 October 2019, 05:13:35 am »
It's only happened once, but I did get half the booking fee from him.

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #2 on: 21 October 2019, 10:31:36 am »
I have had 3 walk outs in the many years I have done this, it’s not nice but it happens, one guy gave me the £50 fee anyway and the other 2 didn’t.

Some men just want to look at you and he possibly got off on the fact you dressed up for him specifically (when really it was the cash you got dressed up for) and some lose the bottle and some just don’t fancy you.

The worst walk out I had was a guy that said “I can’t do this as I have a girlfriend”, surely he knew that beforehand? Imo he just didn’t fancy me, and this is a horrible feeling but if there is one thing this job gives you then it’s confidence, even the most beautifulest of women don’t have every man fancying them and so it’s not so bad that they won’t always fancy me who is not beautiful, except maybe very pretty at a push with a Snapchat filter! ;D

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #3 on: 21 October 2019, 10:33:04 am »
Happened to me once and I was really pissed off as my photos are crystal clear of what I look like. It was a 2 hour booking so I demanded he give me some money. He literally threw £40 on the floor and ran out. Could hear his car screeching away down the street.

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #4 on: 21 October 2019, 10:39:38 am »
I believe these “clients” are walkers/walk outs/look and go’s.
Happens a fair amount, you’ll probably encounter one or two or more in your whole time working.
As long as you know your profile represents you perfectly clearly. Then you have nothing to worry about. It’s just a ridiculous hobby of his.
Try asking for the money at the door.
If I worked from home / a work flat by myself - there’s no chance I’d be walking them through the place before having a handful of paper 🧻 haha.
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samp

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #5 on: 21 October 2019, 10:53:36 am »
Thank you guys, I felt a bit funny after that like everyone would do that but its been ok. ;D

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #6 on: 21 October 2019, 12:23:51 pm »
Very common...walkers, runners, sprinters, look & go, they have no intention. It's all a wind up to wank at home at your expense, humiliate you or cock-block your legit bookings. On the darker side ocassionally it's a gang who send a member to scope your set-up, then book in a mate to rob at a later date.

I agree with Eve cash at the door. Keep all other doors shut so 'clients' can't scope out your flat.

Also if anyone makes a specific dress request I don't allow them to see me for free in the gear before they pay. I either cover up or change once I'm paid.

Same goes for body parts. eg if someones interested in feet, they'll be covered up completely in socks and lace-up shoes like a victorian lady. I won't be wearing strappy stilettoes till I'm paid.

I'll demand £20-50 cancellation fee, but go for it, whatever amount you like. I demanded the full £250 from one guy who thought he could send me away on an outcall as I threatened to scream and wake up his neighbours.

Probably worth a warning so he doesn't waste others time? :)
« Last Edit: 21 October 2019, 04:44:55 pm by saltysweet »

samp

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #7 on: 22 October 2019, 01:10:32 pm »
Thank you.  Yes I always keep all doors shut.  I have no idea what he thought or who he thought I would be.  Having looked at all the other ladies he has been with I think I was the wrong shade.  I am mixed race and I have it clear in my profile who I am, so they know who they will be with, although because I am fair, my photographs may come up a bit light.  It isnt really my fault he couldnt read and just looked at the pictures and i not bothered about that.  I have even had one person tell me I was posting pictures of a caucasian woman and I was a liar which i ignore obviously.

I'll have a scout around for the details, but he is Asian, he states that he is British but not the case, (not a problem with me necessarily) and confident but not cocky,

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #8 on: 23 October 2019, 12:21:28 pm »
Sounds like he's out and out messing, or isn't serious about punting.

I don't demand anything and certainly wouldn't threaten to scream, however I do have a deposit for all new clients and  anyone I've not seen for a while. Although I have the occasional cancel or no confirm I haven't had a walk out since before I took deposits.

Back then I had 4 or 5 in 8 years, half of which left some or all of the booking fee without me asking.

samp

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #9 on: 23 October 2019, 09:01:41 pm »
Oh thank you great Mirror  How do you get a deposit  I couldn't figure that out>

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #10 on: 23 October 2019, 10:22:56 pm »
Oh thank you great Mirror  How do you get a deposit  I couldn't figure that out>

Try doing a Search for deposits using the Search box for many, many threads on the subject :)

Here's one for starters: https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/deposits-info/

he states that he is British but not the case

What nationality do you believe he was if not British? If you're certain this was a premeditated look and go then please do post on the Warnings board; if he was clearly Irish, French, American or whatever it would make it a lot easier for others to avoid him.
« Last Edit: 23 October 2019, 10:26:20 pm by amy »

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #11 on: 23 October 2019, 11:07:13 pm »
You get this sort. He will get off that you dressed up for him. Silly man. If he paid he'd have had good better time!

samp

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Re: Strange Client
« Reply #12 on: 24 October 2019, 07:24:09 pm »
Try doing a Search for deposits using the Search box for many, many threads on the subject :)

Here's one for starters: https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/deposits-info/

What nationality do you believe he was if not British? If you're certain this was a premeditated look and go then please do post on the Warnings board; if he was clearly Irish, French, American or whatever it would make it a lot easier for others to avoid him.


Thank you Amy i will.

Definitely Indian with a heavy accent.  Looking for the profile