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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #615 on: 01 February 2019, 04:22:14 pm »
Let's put it this way: there are currently 5,082 straight men wanting to escort women on AW and in getting one booking from a woman you're ahead of at least five thousand of them.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #616 on: 01 February 2019, 04:52:38 pm »
2 that have gone through with it (one single woman, one couple booked by the husband).
Purely for feedback, no money exchanged hands. We met, had some fun, and then exchanged honest reviews.
That's the conclusion I'm coming too. I had hoped there would have been the need of a service for women who can't/won't go out and get it for free becasue they have commitments/ties and need discretion. This must be a very limited limited market though.

Thanks for clarifying.

Did the review mention that payment didn't change hands, if it didn't it may not be quite 'honest'.

Yes there's very little market.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #617 on: 03 February 2019, 12:05:47 pm »
It's a massive myth that the country is full of bored housewives looking to pay for sex! If a woman wants to get laid it's super easy if they join a swingers site. Equally, if someone is looking for a companion/date type service then they are going to go a bit more upscale than Adultwork!

Unless you are willing to see men you won't make a lot (if any) money.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #618 on: 03 February 2019, 12:13:55 pm »
I've had my AW profile up since the start of this year and in that month I've only had 5 'real' bookings. 2 from other escorts exchanging services FOC to get their ratings up (all good fun, but I'm doing this for money not for the fun), 1 from a single women, 1 from a single women who hasn't gone through with anything yet, and one from a husband who booked me to join him and his wife. Profile views are around 35-50 a day, but I'm assuming this is gay/bi men looking for men rather than women?!?

Maybe put a link to your aw profile here and we can take a look to see if theres anything off putting on your ad. Please dont say you have cock shots on there as thats a big no no
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #619 on: 03 February 2019, 12:56:04 pm »
Maybe put a link to your aw profile here

Or maybe not, since we don't allow links on the forum and nor do we ask or expect posters here to identify themselves :)

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #620 on: 03 February 2019, 01:53:41 pm »
I thought we put links on our profile here. I have mine to my website. Do i need to take it off
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #621 on: 03 February 2019, 01:59:48 pm »
Or maybe not, since we don't allow links on the forum and nor do we ask or expect posters here to identify themselves :)

Ive just re read what i originally wrote, sorry :) it was confusing. I meant put a link on his profile here  :)
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #622 on: 03 February 2019, 02:44:15 pm »
Ive just re read what i originally wrote, sorry :) it was confusing. I meant put a link on his profile here  :)

We can link to our own websites via our profile information here, but there's a rule we can't post external links in actual posts.

As I understand it one reason is to prevent a big search engine from picking it up (and lost of other reasons).

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #623 on: 03 February 2019, 03:13:11 pm »
I didnt explain properly. I meant a link on his profile here like i have. I didnt mean to suggest posting a link on the thread itself and i fully understand the reasons why it isnt allowed x
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #624 on: 03 February 2019, 06:44:44 pm »
I think there's a very small market and at least you've had 2 paid bookings. Not many women outside of escorts know what Adultwork is. I'd say continue but don't make it your main focus. Maybe a twitter but stay professional. No cock shots or flirting with escorts as you'll come across as a chancer.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #625 on: 03 February 2019, 07:45:22 pm »
I didnt explain properly. I meant a link on his profile here like i have. I didnt mean to suggest posting a link on the thread itself and i fully understand the reasons why it isnt allowed x

Sorry I went a bit over the top.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #626 on: 03 February 2019, 08:14:46 pm »
Sorry I went a bit over the top.
No you didnt. I should double check before i press post lol x
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #627 on: 04 February 2019, 09:33:10 am »
I didnt explain properly. I meant a link on his profile here like i have. I didnt mean to suggest posting a link on the thread itself and i fully understand the reasons why it isnt allowed x
Thanks, I've done that. Awaits the "feedback"... 

stay professional. No cock shots or flirting with escorts as you'll come across as a chancer.
That's what I've tried to do. I found out very quickly that a lot of the time-waster messages and chancer bookings were when I had a cock-shot on show, having said that one of the actual bookings I had was because of the picture because they liked what they saw (I'm apparently VWE which is what some people are looking for, or so I'm told!), so perhaps I need to put it back up?!? ???

I need to get some new pics of me up, but apart from that I think the wording is ok, hopefully?

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #628 on: 04 February 2019, 11:50:47 am »
Thanks, I've done that. Awaits the "feedback"...

Which will be given via PM, since we're not here to pick people's ads to pieces in detail on the forum. Apart from anything else, the people are sex workers and not able to give useful feedback as lone female punters. I don't think any of us know where where they hang out, online or anywhere else.

That's what I've tried to do. I (I'm apparently VWE which is what some people are looking for, or so I'm told!)

They are, but the vast majority of those people will be men. I suspect most women find a bloke constantly banging on about how massive his dick is extremely tedious, especially when it's no indicator whatsoever that he'll have any idea what to do with it; I get enough of this twaddle in emails and texts from punters.

Why didn't you get the woman/couple who booked you to leave you feedback? All there is at the moment is some spectacularly unconvincing-looking rapid fire stuff from a couple of other prossies.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #629 on: 20 February 2019, 12:43:06 pm »
It's a massive myth that the country is full of bored housewives looking to pay for sex! If a woman wants to get laid it's super easy if they join a swingers site. Equally, if someone is looking for a companion/date type service then they are going to go a bit more upscale than Adultwork!

Unless you are willing to see men you won't make a lot (if any) money.

This is what I was going to say, women I think are more likely to use dating sites like tinder for more casual or match etc for something more like companionship, I don’t think adultwork is at all appealing for women.
I also think the whole horny bored housewife is just a fantasy, a male fantasy.women in unhappy marriages I imagine are more inclined to have affairs/even just casual affairs rather than scouring   the internet searching prostitute sites, I don’t  mean to be offensive it’s just when you say it like that you can see how it just doesn’t ring true.
I can’t speak for others but as a woman I believe women want to feel desired and sexy when getting intimate with someone, and if there’s money changing hands then that isn’t possible
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