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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #600 on: 20 August 2018, 06:58:38 am »
No mate, they're really not. The only people who will tell you that are the scam sites you've already found, who want to take your money and laugh at how gullible you are. That's also why there aren't any genuine advertising sites.

So does this article come from a scam site, Amy?

[link to crap Fail article removed]

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Partly because you're a new member and mostly because you are not a sex worker.

I'm not? Who told you? [link to free profile on free advertising site removed]

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but unless you're interacting sexually with other men (or at least planning to), your forum permissions are limited.

Hum, strange rule, I have to interact with men to have larger access, uhm, ok. These are the rules, let's abide to them.

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« Reply #601 on: 20 August 2018, 07:00:46 am »
You are a gentleman, we just take your word for it?

Let's meet up for a drink/walk/whatever and realize it by yourself. My pictures are here anyway: [and removed again...]
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« Reply #602 on: 20 August 2018, 07:04:44 am »
It's funny though because when I was married I spent forever trying to find a straight male escort ( could of picked up a guy easy) but I wasn't after sex I wanted an evening out with really no strings but prepared to pay to keep it professional.

Couldn't find one anywhere !

No way would I have gone for one showing his dick etc , but hey I would of been quite prepared to be wined , dined and more at my leisure / choice.

I personally think their is a market but no way if it's based on sex only , I didn't want that, I wanted to be made a fuss of ???

Bit Random but an alternative contribution .

Here is why the market has changed Amy. Still you don't believe it? Unless you believe the author of this post is a scam too...

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #603 on: 20 August 2018, 08:40:03 am »
Here is why the market has changed Amy. Still you don't believe it? Unless you believe the author of this post is a scam too...

Kisses,
Joy

The writer of this post is another sex worker like the rest of us, and one I know personally. As far as I know she never found anyone she wanted to book and from your posts it isn't hard to see why; still, if you think you can make a living on one or two bookings a year and from women who aren't already prostitutes themselves, you crack on. I expect to have done that many by lunchtime.

The article you posted a link to is from possibly the shittest newspaper available, and one which knows nothing whatsoever about the sex industry. Are you saying you think we and all the other people who have posted here over the years know less about it than then a scuzzy journalist whose only remit is to sell more papers to stupid people?

Oh and incidentally, you don't get to sleaze around here trying to proposition members. If either I or Mirror are.going to allow you anywhere near us, you'll be paying our normal hourly rates, 'kisses' (boak) or otherwise. And read the posting rules, for fucks sake. I have better things to do than edit every post you make while you mansplain my job to me.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #604 on: 20 August 2018, 08:45:13 am »
If that's true, the nice people who want your money will be happy to not have any of it until you've got cash in your hand from a client you've found via them?

No? I thought not.

The basic problem is supply and demand. A single site that's free to advertise on has (looks) 6,828 very optimistic men. The vast majority will never ever get a booking, even the ones who are treating it as an alternative to some hook-up site and offering to do all sorts of things with women for free.

If you're determined to try, it's not difficult to stand out from the crowd..

.. but it probably still won't get you work, because as Amy says, the demand isn't there.

Oh, and I see you skipped right past Ian's post. Did you miss it?

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« Reply #605 on: 20 August 2018, 11:03:23 am »
My FWB advertises on AW as a straight male escort. In 10 years he's had two bookings, and both were from couples who wanted to try MMF. Good luck making a living off that...

But if you want to waste your money and time against the advice of hundreds of sex workers who know the industry, knock yourself out.
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« Reply #606 on: 20 August 2018, 11:39:54 am »
My FWB advertises on AW as a straight male escort. In 10 years he's had two bookings, and both were from couples who wanted to try MMF. Good luck making a living off that...

The UK Adultzone profile our pal tried to post up had had eleven views. Two of those were me (after I pressed refresh by mistake), one was likely Ian, a couple will have been Sharon when she put the thing up on the site and I daresay at least four or five will have been the the man himself. He's not exactly beating them off with a stick, regardless of what the Fail think about it.

I notice the article he linked to wasn't the interview with the man who said he markets directly to women and his customers are still virtually all men. Since he's a member here, maybe he'll pop along :).

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« Reply #607 on: 20 August 2018, 07:25:54 pm »
Since he's a member here, maybe he'll pop along :).

There is a shadenfruede version of me which hopes he does :D
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« Reply #608 on: 20 August 2018, 11:26:49 pm »
I have met with a male escort , arranged and paid for by a client . He markets himself as an erotic masseur ( my guess is that he trained as a masseur as he's very good ) . Anyway in the 6 years he's been a member of AW , he's only racked up 5 feedbacks , all for mmf threesomes ( 2 are from my client) , despite being handsome , well endowed, tall blah blah blah .
My point is that it's such a niche market that it's practically nonexistent... surely Joy , your own research shows that you have been unable to source a reputable website/agency that actually provided you with appointments hence you ended up asking on here ...

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« Reply #609 on: 21 August 2018, 08:05:14 am »
I did a mmf with a client and he booked the other guy who was also a sex worker but he is paying for sex normally and said he had only got 3 bookings in the 4 years since starting to advertise. This same guy booked me around 4 weeks ago and said he is still not getting any interest and while his profile is not brilliant I do not think his lack of bookings is the reason for the lack of interest. I think the main point is not many women would think about paying for a man to either accompany her to events or for sex.
I could be wrong but that seems to be what the male escort I met said

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« Reply #610 on: 22 August 2018, 07:52:47 am »
I did a mmf with a client and he booked the other guy who was also a sex worker but he is paying for sex normally and said he had only got 3 bookings in the 4 years since starting to advertise. This same guy booked me around 4 weeks ago and said he is still not getting any interest and while his profile is not brilliant I do not think his lack of bookings is the reason for the lack of interest. I think the main point is not many women would think about paying for a man to either accompany her to events or for sex.
I could be wrong but that seems to be what the male escort I met said

Yeah I've had a few contact me asking how to improve their business, comparing views of their profile to mine over a similar or proportionate time revealed a lot. I also find most don't know how to screen or keep aware of safety.

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« Reply #611 on: 01 February 2019, 02:41:40 pm »
Hi all

New to this site, after searching I thought I'd post here rather than clog up the main forum with a new thread.

I'm brand new to the game; a straight Male Escort covering South London & Surrey. I'm tall, VWE etc etc

I've had my AW profile up since the start of this year and in that month I've only had 5 'real' bookings. 2 from other escorts exchanging services FOC to get their ratings up (all good fun, but I'm doing this for money not for the fun), 1 from a single women, 1 from a single women who hasn't gone through with anything yet, and one from a husband who booked me to join him and his wife. Profile views are around 35-50 a day, but I'm assuming this is gay/bi men looking for men rather than women?!?

After reading this thread it would appear there just isn't a market for straight male escorts?!? Is it really the case that women don't want sex/companionship services from men, or do they just not go to AW? I had the idea in my head there would be bored/married women looking for some daytime fun and/or busy/business looking for dinner/event/companionship dates?

All the women I've met have liked what they have received, but before I commit anymore into this, am I kidding myself?

Any tips and pointers from you ladies (and male escorts if you're reading this!) around what I should charge, profile content, and where to advertise etc would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

BF


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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #612 on: 01 February 2019, 03:06:36 pm »
Hi all

New to this site, after searching I thought I'd post here rather than clog up the main forum with a new thread.

I'm brand new to the game; a straight Male Escort covering South London & Surrey. I'm tall, VWE etc etc

I've had my AW profile up since the start of this year and in that month I've only had 5 'real' bookings. 2 from other escorts exchanging services FOC to get their ratings up (all good fun, but I'm doing this for money not for the fun), 1 from a single women, 1 from a single women who hasn't gone through with anything yet, and one from a husband who booked me to join him and his wife. Profile views are around 35-50 a day, but I'm assuming this is gay/bi men looking for men rather than women?!?

After reading this thread it would appear there just isn't a market for straight male escorts?!? Is it really the case that women don't want sex/companionship services from men, or do they just not go to AW? I had the idea in my head there would be bored/married women looking for some daytime fun and/or busy/business looking for dinner/event/companionship dates?

All the women I've met have liked what they have received, but before I commit anymore into this, am I kidding myself?

Any tips and pointers from you ladies (and male escorts if you're reading this!) around what I should charge, profile content, and where to advertise etc would be much appreciated.

Thanks in advance.

BF

So you've actually only had 1 real booking?

The swapping services for feedback is very enlightening, did you pay the women anything or was it purely feed back exchanged?

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« Reply #613 on: 01 February 2019, 03:09:08 pm »
No there isn’t a market for straight male escorts.

Largely because women can find sex anywhere (if they really wanted to) for free, and the same isn’t true for men.

Just the way it is I’m afraid. Unless you want to be gay for pay there’s not much you can do about it, as this massive long thread proves.

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« Reply #614 on: 01 February 2019, 03:21:09 pm »
So you've actually only had 1 real booking?
2 that have gone through with it (one single woman, one couple booked by the husband).

The swapping services for feedback is very enlightening, did you pay the women anything or was it purely feed back exchanged?
Purely for feedback, no money exchanged hands. We met, had some fun, and then exchanged honest reviews.

No there isn’t a market for straight male escorts.

Largely because women can find sex anywhere (if they really wanted to) for free, and the same isn’t true for men.

Just the way it is I’m afraid. Unless you want to be gay for pay there’s not much you can do about it, as this massive long thread proves.
That's the conclusion I'm coming too. I had hoped there would have been the need of a service for women who can't/won't go out and get it for free becasue they have commitments/ties and need discretion. This must be a very limited limited market though.