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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #585 on: 27 March 2018, 12:16:15 pm »
I've actually met a straight male escort but he was working when they still had d?butante balls and young ladies needed to be seen in the company of attractive young men by the end of the season to avoid social humiliation. No sex allowed, just company. Any hint of impropriety and the man would be sacked. Apparently the money was very good.


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« Reply #586 on: 27 March 2018, 12:16:29 pm »
It's taking advantage in many ways.  A couple of friends have had male business mentors who they initally thought would help them with business plans etc but it was all a ploy to bed them.  End of the day: a man's goal in all situations is to shag.  They will go to any means to do this

Depending on who these 'business mentors' were employed by and what the terms of their contracts were, I'm pretty sure that could be reported to whoever is responsible for them, even if it's just wherever they advertise.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #587 on: 05 May 2018, 12:30:13 am »
Need some advice or mentoring on being the ideal male escort, with a profile that will generate traffic.

Anyone here genuinely help?? Please, thank you

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #588 on: 05 May 2018, 12:42:33 am »
Most male escorts work independently; try Gaydar, Sleepyboy, even Loot? You might get the odd booking from Adultwork (and more than you will from it's sister site GaySwap) but it's not going to generate much.

I'm working on the assumption that you've done enough research to know that the customers of male escorts are overwhelmingly men, obviously. If you are intending to try for female clients we can't help you and nor can anybody else; the best advice we can give you is not to hand over money to anyone who tells you otherwise.
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« Reply #589 on: 07 May 2018, 12:19:53 am »
Thank you for the advice. I am aiming more towards women, currently on adult work and always researching

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« Reply #590 on: 07 May 2018, 02:57:29 pm »
Thank you for the advice. I am aiming more towards women, currently on adult work and always researching

Then as I said above, the best advice we can give you is to stop aiming towards women and start researching ways to attract actual paying punters. I've merged the thread I linked to to make your 'researching' even easier.

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« Reply #591 on: 08 May 2018, 02:28:29 pm »
Thank you for the advice. I am aiming more towards women, currently on adult work and always researching

As Amy said.....there is little to no work for men looking to escort women. At the very least you have to be willing to escort

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« Reply #592 on: 19 August 2018, 06:17:20 pm »
Hello girls and ladies,

this is my first post. I'm a gigolo, Italian gigolo and I would like to know where can I post apart than the usual gigolo web site agency which asks money upfront and then the profile is placed in the hundreds of the other ones.

I read most of the post at this link: https://saafe.info/main/questions-and-answers/where-to-advertise/ but as far as I understood the links given there are for female escorts only.

Can you help? I would greatly appreciate. X

Joy

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #593 on: 19 August 2018, 07:06:51 pm »
God, we haven't had one of these for ages...

Fortunately there's forty pages of advice and information here from all the previous times when we did.

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« Reply #594 on: 19 August 2018, 07:59:26 pm »
I think it's been mentioned in several other posts that the market for straight male escorts is tiny, if not non-existent, sorry if thats not what you want to hear

Would you explain why please?

Thanks x
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« Reply #595 on: 19 August 2018, 08:09:46 pm »
God, we haven't had one of these for ages...

Fortunately there's forty pages of advice and information here from all the previous times when we did.

Yep I see the thread is quite old but the market has changed since then. Women are paying for being accompanied by a man to events, not only for sex.

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« Reply #596 on: 19 August 2018, 08:34:01 pm »
Would you tell me, Amy, why I'm restricted and some boards are off limits for me? I'm a gentleman. x

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« Reply #597 on: 19 August 2018, 09:36:10 pm »
Yep I see the thread is quite old but the market has changed since then. Women are paying for being accompanied by a man to events, not only for sex.

No mate, they're really not. The only people who will tell you that are the scam sites you've already found, who want to take your money and laugh at how gullible you are. That's also why there aren't any genuine advertising sites.

Would you tell me, Amy, why I'm restricted and some boards are off limits for me? I'm a gentleman. x

Partly because you're a new member and mostly because you are not a sex worker. I already know you're a man, but unless you're interacting sexually with other men (or at least planning to), your forum permissions are limited. That said, the restriction doean't affect your board access, only your access to other members.

Hopefully we don't have any members under the age of 18?

I hope not too, but since he doesn't seem too bright I thought it was easier to concentrate on the main parts :).

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #598 on: 19 August 2018, 09:59:49 pm »
Would you tell me, Amy, why I'm restricted and some boards are off limits for me? I'm a gentleman. x

You are a gentleman, we just take your word for it?

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #599 on: 19 August 2018, 10:00:30 pm »
Yep I see the thread is quite old but the market has changed since then. Women are paying for being accompanied by a man to events, not only for sex.

If that's true, the nice people who want your money will be happy to not have any of it until you've got cash in your hand from a client you've found via them?

No? I thought not.

The basic problem is supply and demand. A single site that's free to advertise on has (looks) 6,828 very optimistic men. The vast majority will never ever get a booking, even the ones who are treating it as an alternative to some hook-up site and offering to do all sorts of things with women for free.

If you're determined to try, it's not difficult to stand out from the crowd..

.. but it probably still won't get you work, because as Amy says, the demand isn't there.
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