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« Reply #555 on: 19 January 2017, 02:16:20 pm »
Thanks for the straight to the point answer  :)
Great site by the way, love the brutal honesty.
Kinda confirms my thoughts. The reason I asked is that it was suggested to me by a "friend" after I gave her a long massage.
There's no business plan ;D

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« Reply #556 on: 19 January 2017, 03:57:52 pm »
Well that was very kind of your friend, but she was hardly going to say 'wow, that was really tedious, but at least I got to have a lie down and think about what to have for dinner for a bit', now was she?

If the inverted commas are meant to indicate that this woman was a prossie you booked, then it's our job to tell any old bollocks you clearly want to hear about your imagined prowess at everything you do, and if she wasn't then she knows nothing about the sex industry and is in as much of a position to tell you you ought to be working in it as I am to suggest you get into steel fabrication. Is this how you normally plan a career change?

If you're genuinely interested in massage there are plenty of courses and nothing to stop you doing one, although refusing to massage men is going to make you look creepy and weird a bit odd.

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« Reply #557 on: 19 January 2017, 05:20:36 pm »
 ;D ;D ;D

Sorry, couldnt stop myself. I love you ami.  :-*

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« Reply #558 on: 19 January 2017, 05:25:30 pm »
Regards to the massage, im a qualified swedish massage therapist and I trained as I have an interest in holistic therapies, I maybe wrong but I would guess your motivation is sexual, personally me and I know a few friends when we go for a massage its to relax not to think oh is his hands wandering? his hands are wandering? omg is he getting turned on? ect ect I really cant see any woman paying for a massage from a man it just would not be relaxing  :FF And with regards to women paying for sex.......well I cant add to whats already been said

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« Reply #559 on: 19 January 2017, 11:29:24 pm »
Lol, no my friend is exactly that. A friend. Not an escort/prostitute. My motivation isn't totally sexual, it was just something that was suggested to me that got me thinking. I do actually enjoy marking people relax, and I don't see anything wrong with a straight man not wanting to massage another man... as we all know how men can get aroused when receiving a massage. If a therapist that didn't offer extras was put in that situation in a salon, they'd ask the client to leave (my ex ran a salon hence my abilities). As I said in my first post, I think it's mythical in terms of male escorting, or so rare it's not worth exploring further. This forum is full of people involved within certain parts of the industry so I appreciate the comments. Made me smile and even chuckle.  :D

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« Reply #560 on: 25 February 2017, 10:21:23 pm »
I'm a 6'7" (204cm) fairly well built guy looking to become a male escort here in the UK but every site seems so shady how do i know which one to trust? Also are male escorts even in demand? I really like the sound of the job, not for the sex that tends to go hand in hand with the business but for the conversations and different people i'll meet. However i dont even know if there's a market for male escorts at this point.

Please send some advice my way <3

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« Reply #561 on: 26 February 2017, 04:59:02 pm »
See the rest of this thread...
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #562 on: 26 February 2017, 05:00:29 pm »
.. in short, if you're not prepared to be sexual with other men, no there isn't.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #563 on: 10 October 2017, 09:24:22 pm »
Hi Folks, I'm a 40 year old guy, new to the Uk, but not to the industry. I live in London and I'd really appreciate some guidance as to where to advertise please. I've been taken for a ride by Dukes of Daisy and the like and I'd just like to advertise on some sites where I might enjoy some success. Appreciate your time..

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« Reply #564 on: 10 October 2017, 09:57:39 pm »
Hi Folks, I'm a 40 year old guy, new to the Uk, but not to the industry. I live in London and I'd really appreciate some guidance as to where to advertise please. I've been taken for a ride by Dukes of Daisy and the like and I'd just like to advertise on some sites where I might enjoy some success. Appreciate your time..
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« Reply #565 on: 10 October 2017, 10:09:05 pm »
My partner offers escort services. He is also bisexual. We do work together but it is mostly men interested. If your straight and looking to escort to just see women unless you look like brad Pitt and don't have a hint of wanker in you you just won't make the cut  ;D

Just a hint: please don't message us ladies on adultwork advising us to look at profiles with pictures of your dick saying how great it would be to work with us. Unless your paying us or look like brad Pitt or tom hardy we are not interested. And some of us wouldn't care what you looked like we would still want you to piss off  :-*

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« Reply #566 on: 11 October 2017, 01:32:57 am »
Hi Folks, I'm a 40 year old guy, new to the Uk, but not to the industry. I live in London and I'd really appreciate some guidance as to where to advertise please. I've been taken for a ride by Dukes of Daisy and the like and I'd just like to advertise on some sites where I might enjoy some success. Appreciate your time..

Have a read through this thread, but I think where you advertise will rest a lot on whether you're only prepared to see women, or if you're happy to see men.
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« Reply #567 on: 15 October 2017, 10:47:25 am »
Hi, looking to use several channels for drumming up business, own website and AdultWork, but also considering an agency. Any recommendations? Easy xx

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« Reply #568 on: 15 October 2017, 11:03:48 pm »
Just to clarify, you're expecting to have male clients right?
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« Reply #569 on: 15 October 2017, 11:10:35 pm »
Yes, I haven't merged it with the SME thread since I was giving the OP the benefit of the doubt, so unless he says otherwise we may as well try to give useful answers :).

I doubt anybody will be able to recommend agencies since most male.escorts work independently; most of these advice I've seen given here is fairly London-centric but there's Sleepyboy, Gaydar and a host of smaller sites as well as the likes of Grindr (I have no idea what that is, but if you do a search it's recommended on a few of the existing threads).

You'll get more from Adultwork than you ever will from its parallel site Gayswap; just make sure your profile is clear and doesn't get buried amongst the optimistic numpties and their dick pics who inexplicably think that they'll get female clients. Have you tried Googling your town/area as a prospective punter might if he were hoping to find you? Whichever sites come up, get on them.