See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

Author Topic: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth  (Read 181550 times)

Midsstudent

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 1,162
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #525 on: 15 October 2015, 06:59:03 pm »
LM, if (as I suspected, hence my post above) you're a straight man without any intention of seeing male clients then the only thread you need here is this one.

Either way, how were you expecting to have sex for a living when you've never done so before and haven't got a clue about sexual health (you can't 'catch' AIDS, for example). Would you offer to rewire somebody's house just because you'd seen a picture of a screwdriver?
true, i just thought i could do escorting due to my lack of luck in the current job market.

You could if you would be willing to do men. All of us have to do men we would never otherwise have sex with in this job. It's no different for males offering gay for pay in my opinion... if you can bring youself to do it (the same way we women have to be able to).

londonmade15

  • New Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #526 on: 16 October 2015, 02:34:48 am »


You could if you would be willing to do men. All of us have to do men we would never otherwise have sex with in this job. It's no different for males offering gay for pay in my opinion... if you can bring youself to do it (the same way we women have to be able to).

 :o no way, i have nothing against gays but i know im stright, i just hate the sight of another pennis.

elevensies

  • Restricted
  • New Member
  • *
  • Posts: 1
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #527 on: 16 October 2015, 10:45:37 am »
i think this thread was what i needed to read

straight and no female work (seemingly impossible)
lots of scam companies who know this and play on those who dont

if you dont do guys, and your fairly good looking......stripping/ private lap dancing, but this is something you have to do on your own, from your own initiative
but you need rules if this isnt anything more.
its a path, one well trodden.


Midsstudent

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 1,162
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #528 on: 16 October 2015, 08:54:45 pm »


You could if you would be willing to do men. All of us have to do men we would never otherwise have sex with in this job. It's no different for males offering gay for pay in my opinion... if you can bring youself to do it (the same way we women have to be able to).

 :o no way, i have nothing against gays but i know im stright, i just hate the sight of another pennis.

I wasn't suggesting you were gay. And it's your choice what you do with your body 100%. But do you think we like the penises we see even if we sleep with men outside of work?  ;D

JR01

  • Restricted
  • New Member
  • *
  • Posts: 2
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #529 on: 26 October 2015, 09:43:17 am »
Read this thread quite a bit and thought I would join and put in a few comments.

I have "worked" on and off for several years as a straight male escort. For anyone looking to do it full time forget it, it's nothing more than occasional pocket money with the amount of booking you get.

People saying it's impossible sorry I dispute that. Yes I don't get a flood of bookings but I certainly get bookings. Majority are with couples who want to introduce another person into they're relationship as a one off to spice things up, a few businesswomen and literally a couple of women who have agree with partners to allow each other to meet an escort as way of something different.

One way to be a lot busier is to work as a "couple" I have worked with 3 different girls now and there is very much demand for single guys wanting to meet a couple or couples wanting to meet couples. Strangely the most popular was voyeur service where guys would pay to sit and play with themselves whilst we had sex.

Being able to do work with others means I have built up a few videos and pictures to sell so again a few quid comes from there. Although size isn't the be all and end all I'm very very well endowed which is quite an attraction as I have found out through feedback plus I look after myself so look in good shape.

So to those saying it is impossible no it certainly is not but treat it as extra money now and again and don't expect to be making a fortune unless you can hook up with a decent looking female escort and work with her.

foxy roxy

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 259
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #530 on: 28 October 2015, 10:52:16 am »
Decent looking?  Looks are very subjective.  I'm older and larger,  my clients think I'm good looking with a great body, the guys who are interested in younger thinner escorts wouldn't want me,  and my clients wouldn't want the younger thinner ones.

I get offers from guys wanting to do shared pics vids etc, I always say no.  I'm just not interested.

Nia Hope

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 2,401
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #531 on: 28 October 2015, 12:56:26 pm »
If I get an email from a straight male escort I always view it with suspicion, usually that they are interested in free sessions effectively. I get asked if any of my clients are female! I wish, would make a bloody change and I'm not even bi sexual!

The post by jr01 was a good one, the reaction from Londonmale was typical, I agree that does he think all the men that book us girls appeal to us? Oh god no! Does Londonmale have the impression that sexy, well kept, rich, bored, horny, older women would have him out on the town every night and pay him for it! Yes that's what he and shit loads of others think. That doesn't even happen to the female escorts, you'll be sucking a wrinkling ball bag for money with the rest of us Londonmale and probably worse if you're a pretty young thing. X

If something is not perceived it doesn't exist.

Richard

  • Jr. Member
  • **
  • Posts: 20
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #532 on: 28 October 2015, 01:34:15 pm »
I don't think that I ever said it was impossible. The obvious reason is that I had female clients.

I am bisexual, but all but one of the dozen or so of the straight male escorts I know do/did men. Sometimes nothing but. Money is money.

I didn't do threesomes with female escorts. Partly this was not wanting to take home less than they did ;D but having three non-partners in the bed didn't seem that great an idea.

The female client market is very small. A series of niches. Only a few in each will ever get any clients. I used to laugh at some of the attempts.


Mirror

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 6,991
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #533 on: 28 October 2015, 02:39:17 pm »
If I get an email from a straight male escort I always view it with suspicion, usually that they are interested in free sessions effectively. I get asked if any of my clients are female! I wish, would make a bloody change and I'm not even bi sexual!

The post by jr01 was a good one, the reaction from Londonmale was typical, I agree that does he think all the men that book us girls appeal to us? Oh god no! Does Londonmale have the impression that sexy, well kept, rich, bored, horny, older women would have him out on the town every night and pay him for it! Yes that's what he and shit loads of others think. That doesn't even happen to the female escorts, you'll be sucking a wrinkling ball bag for money with the rest of us Londonmale and probably worse if you're a pretty young thing. X

Working as a couple is a nice idea, but if the woman is busy working singly I would say it's unlikely she'd want to team up, especially if it involved sex with an extra male, plus I find dealing with couples much more difficult than one person. That's the main reason I will always say "No", I'm busy enough and without having sex with the man, not a clue whether we'd be compatible.

I also have wondered would some clients be put off by mention of another male?

Nia Hope

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 2,401
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #534 on: 28 October 2015, 03:52:39 pm »
If I get an email from a straight male escort I always view it with suspicion, usually that they are interested in free sessions effectively. I get asked if any of my clients are female! I wish, would make a bloody change and I'm not even bi sexual!

The post by jr01 was a good one, the reaction from Londonmale was typical, I agree that does he think all the men that book us girls appeal to us? Oh god no! Does Londonmale have the impression that sexy, well kept, rich, bored, horny, older women would have him out on the town every night and pay him for it! Yes that's what he and shit loads of others think. That doesn't even happen to the female escorts, you'll be sucking a wrinkling ball bag for money with the rest of us Londonmale and probably worse if you're a pretty young thing. X

Working as a couple is a nice idea, but if the woman is busy working singly I would say it's unlikely she'd want to team up, especially if it involved sex with an extra male, plus I find dealing with couples much more difficult than one person. That's the main reason I will always say "No", I'm busy enough and without having sex with the man, not a clue whether we'd be compatible.

I also have wondered would some clients be put off by mention of another male?
I have a male that sometimes does duo sessions with me but it's for forced bi sessions, so he sucks and fucks my male clients, he is with me probably 3 times a week for gay experience bookings. I probably get a once a month request for me to have sex with him while the client watches and I'm busy enough that I usually turn them down.

If something is not perceived it doesn't exist.

JR01

  • Restricted
  • New Member
  • *
  • Posts: 2
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #535 on: 30 October 2015, 10:21:07 am »
If I get an email from a straight male escort I always view it with suspicion, usually that they are interested in free sessions effectively. I get asked if any of my clients are female! I wish, would make a bloody change and I'm not even bi sexual!

The post by jr01 was a good one, the reaction from Londonmale was typical, I agree that does he think all the men that book us girls appeal to us? Oh god no! Does Londonmale have the impression that sexy, well kept, rich, bored, horny, older women would have him out on the town every night and pay him for it! Yes that's what he and shit loads of others think. That doesn't even happen to the female escorts, you'll be sucking a wrinkling ball bag for money with the rest of us Londonmale and probably worse if you're a pretty young thing. X

Working as a couple is a nice idea, but if the woman is busy working singly I would say it's unlikely she'd want to team up, especially if it involved sex with an extra male, plus I find dealing with couples much more difficult than one person. That's the main reason I will always say "No", I'm busy enough and without having sex with the man, not a clue whether we'd be compatible.

I also have wondered would some clients be put off by mention of another male?

The girls I have worked with have always been busy enough but we either did set days/times where we met as a couple or worked on when they had quieter days.
I always prefer to meet up for a coffee or very minimum a chat on the phone and swap pics as I did with one girl but I prefer to meet first simply to see if we were compatible and if working with that person would be feasible.

A lot of guys were the opposite and intrigued by another male joining in. Lots of guys want to have a 3sum but to a lot of guys it's not something you mention to a mate randomly so the idea of a MMF through meeting an escort couple is greatly appealing.

I have also always done things fairly in that I give the bigger split of money made from bookings to the female as I am realistic to know that without her I wouldn't be getting the bookings! For someone who mentioned male escorts going with guys this is something I have never done nor would I ever do. Really not my thing at all and I have on my profile I am straight. Mind you it doesn't stop guys trying they're luck and mailing me! 

fifilondon

  • Full Member
  • ***
  • Posts: 129
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #536 on: 04 November 2015, 01:22:45 am »
I have a male friend that is on standby for bookings, but they are like many said few and far between, as I don't enjoy MMF threesomes. The ones we have done have been other couples and more increasingly 'cuckhold' experiences. But he takes a lesser % than me and has a 9-5.
"when the going gets weird, the weird turn pro"

Hunter S Thompson

reece78

  • Restricted
  • New Member
  • *
  • Posts: 0
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #537 on: 04 November 2015, 03:42:57 pm »
are people still wanting male escorts. how do i get the best way without agencies wanting 100s before even do a job i went with agencies in past and total rip off said got all my details and pic and sorted me work out. but once i paid fees i was told i was too late or another i was cancelled on and they look for work as it was pouring in but if its pouring in loads work i got no call . feel like i was banging my head on a brick wall  :-\ reece

TheLittleMatchGirl

  • Sr. Member
  • ****
  • Posts: 1,428
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #538 on: 04 November 2015, 04:22:50 pm »
Is it for gay male escorting?
*** I can resist everything but temptation***

xw5

  • Administrator
  • Sr. Member
  • *****
  • Posts: 5,882
    • I should be updating this instead...
Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #539 on: 04 November 2015, 04:51:08 pm »
There don't tend to be advance fee frauds for gay male escorting - there's actual work - so I suggest reading the rest of this thread.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

Winding down YourEscortSite.com