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bodunchar

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #510 on: 14 September 2015, 04:36:32 pm »
What women don't generally want is to pay men for sex, which is why this thread is so long. And men who book male escorts don't do so in order to take them out for dinner - non-sexual escorting is another lie which scam operators feed you because they want your money. I'd strongly suggest reading the rest.

OK thanks thats a fair comment and I will read on as per your advice. 

You say that women dont generally want to pay men for sex.  However you go on to say that non-sexual escorting is a lie.  PS physical intimacy is not required for sexual exploration and many women know this!  I am confused!   

Males who book male escorts want to get horny, thats quite clear.

Thanks for your reply.


amy

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« Reply #511 on: 14 September 2015, 04:44:00 pm »
You say that women dont generally want to pay men for sex.  However you go on to say that non-sexual escorting is a lie.  PS physical intimacy is not required for sexual exploration and many women know this!  I am confused!

Then I'll try to be clearer. Anybody who tells you that any number of lone heterosexual women want to pay male escorts either to have sex of any kind or to do anything else with them, is lying. In other words, straight male escorting (that is, prostitution that doesn't involve being sexual with men) as a potential career is a myth. Ditto non-sexual or 'companionship' escorting.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #512 on: 14 September 2015, 05:42:44 pm »
You say that women dont generally want to pay men for sex.  However you go on to say that non-sexual escorting is a lie.  PS physical intimacy is not required for sexual exploration and many women know this!  I am confused!

Then I'll try to be clearer. Anybody who tells you that any number of lone heterosexual women want to pay male escorts either to have sex of any kind or to do anything else with them, is lying. In other words, straight male escorting (that is, prostitution that doesn't involve being sexual with men) as a potential career is a myth. Ditto non-sexual or 'companionship' escorting.

Basically what Amy said.

There's no such thing as companionship escorting.  We aren't being paid three figures per hour to go for dinner, it's sex.  Sometimes we might go for dinner too, but in the end it's normally sex or some form of sexual contact.

My understanding is that the only way you can really make money as a male escort is by going gay for pay.  But again, it's going to involve sexual contact, so your 'hey no touching' will lead to problems, as your clients would be expecting sexual contact.

Nobody pays large sums of cash just for company, despite what the scam agencies and some sections of the media would have you believe.


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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #513 on: 24 September 2015, 07:32:58 pm »
Had another email from a guy who has a "Production company" usually would block without replying but didn't this time, I'm so sick of these guys thinking they're doing us a favour and thinking we are thick! He got quite annoyed when I said my rates apply to him taking pictures of me and him filming a session,  :FF
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #514 on: 14 October 2015, 02:29:25 am »
I am a london born sri lanakn and currently out of work, considering very hard to become a escort and looked at the site just4dates and might signup. i currently live with my parents and will not tell them

my question is do you have any advice and if its a good idea as i need extra money. im a bit anxious and a bit introvert but this escort job might make me better

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« Reply #515 on: 14 October 2015, 02:38:35 am »
Hi LM - you need to read the main SAAFE site thoroughly, for a start. Personally, I'm sceptical about Just4Dates... Plus, I don't see how your personality would be particularly well-suited to social escorting?

If you decided to go for full service escorting, how/where would you work? If you only do out-calls, what will you tell your parents? Ditto if you work from hotels? I would think about that sort of practicality first.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #516 on: 14 October 2015, 02:43:15 am »
Thanks for the quick reply, will read thou the site, i havent signed up yet as it looks kind of odd site.
if i go for full service escort i would still be doing london and south east a i live in south london. if i do out calls, i will just say im going out for a drink or going shopping. might not work from hotels. yep i need to think carefully about it.

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« Reply #517 on: 14 October 2015, 08:27:57 am »
Just4Dates looks 'odd' because it's a scam site, albeit not one of the worst ones in that it won't cost you quite as much money to get no work :).

If you do a forum search (or even just Google it), it's come up before but the usual maxim applies; if you want to make money as an 'escort', you need to understand that this involves being sexual with men. It's a euphemism for 'prostitute', and not a particularly useful one for reasons like the posts above.

There's far more information on the main SAAFE site, but the number one advice at the moment is to not give anybody any money.

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« Reply #518 on: 14 October 2015, 06:43:55 pm »
ok new here, so hi all:)

quick question regarding Legitimate escort agencies for males...there's loads out there, and trying to find if one or another is legit (non scam) is proving a minefield

Cheers

ps: found out the hard way (cavendish knights) with scams.

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« Reply #519 on: 14 October 2015, 07:02:31 pm »
I just want to mention, i am also a virgin which i know aint a big deal but i am not by choice, just because i studied and my parents worry of getting a girl pregnant or getting aids. thank again for all the help. this is such a useful forum. i am a IT grad with exp in web design,networking and general maintenance

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #520 on: 14 October 2015, 07:08:08 pm »
From your post it's pretty clear that this thread is the one you need, but I could also have merged your post with this one.

Unless you're happy to be sexual with men there's no work for you - as you're finding, the 'agencies' claiming otherwise are making money from lying to you about this, not from all the female clients beating a path to your door which is why there aren't any legit ones of these, either.

There's plenty to read if you've got time on your hands, but the message is the same all the way through; start working on your plan B.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #521 on: 14 October 2015, 07:13:21 pm »
LM, if (as I suspected, hence my post above) you're a straight man without any intention of seeing male clients then the only thread you need here is this one.

Either way, how were you expecting to have sex for a living when you've never done so before and haven't got a clue about sexual health (you can't 'catch' AIDS, for example). Would you offer to rewire somebody's house just because you'd seen a picture of a screwdriver?

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #522 on: 14 October 2015, 08:03:46 pm »
Blimey, I missed that piece of minor information! And yes, you need to think about alternative ways of making an income...
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #523 on: 15 October 2015, 06:17:34 pm »
LM, if (as I suspected, hence my post above) you're a straight man without any intention of seeing male clients then the only thread you need here is this one.

Either way, how were you expecting to have sex for a living when you've never done so before and haven't got a clue about sexual health (you can't 'catch' AIDS, for example). Would you offer to rewire somebody's house just because you'd seen a picture of a screwdriver?
true, i just thought i could do escorting due to my lack of luck in the current job market.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #524 on: 15 October 2015, 06:18:26 pm »
Blimey, I missed that piece of minor information! And yes, you need to think about alternative ways of making an income...

yes i do, i have applied for for many IT jobs but i always get lack of exp excuse and they dont call me for interview