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« Reply #450 on: 30 May 2014, 11:17:42 am »
I am new to this any advice

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« Reply #451 on: 30 May 2014, 11:37:26 am »
I am a newbie to this site and I have been contemplating escorting and/or cam work as a straight male. Would it be possible to earn money as a straight male in the sex industry?

I have heard that "gay for pay" is probably the best way to earn money as a "straight" guy, as most women in today's society can get sex reasonably easy through online dating/hook up sites etc. The only thing is, i'm not sure that I'd be entirely confident going the "gay for pay" route. Don't get me wrong, I am bi-curious but i've only ever kissed a guy and nothing else, but that was just an incident that happened to impress some girls  ::)

There have been times when I've wondered what it would be like to be with a guy. The problem is, if i was to have a sexual experience with a guy, it would have to be by my terms, for e.g. i would want to choose the guy to do it with. I understand female escorts, like many of you on here, would most likely prefer to be visited by young studs all the time, but I also understand that to earn the money, you have to cater to all types of clients.

I would consider myself an open minded person when it comes to sexual relations, but going from a straight male to engaging in sex with the same gender, it would take a strong mindset. Also, with aids being so prevalent amongst the gay community, my concerns are strengthened ever more by this.

I am really just looking for some helpful advice on here. I'm thinking that this would be a short term option for me, as I have other ambitions, so this would be a way of earning extra money on the side.

Any advice would be fantastic, though, thanks.  ;D
The bit in bold tells me you've not thought about this, nor understand what makes many women tick sexually. I am not attracted to 'studs' in  my private life, and when being paid the idea of a 'young stud' coming into the room brandishing a hard cock, wanting to shag me to within an inch of my life isn't something particularly attractive.

It's really interesting that so many men think that a big hard cock, long hard shag is what women find pleasurable and satisfying.
« Last Edit: 30 May 2014, 11:43:52 am by Rosa »

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #452 on: 30 May 2014, 11:45:45 am »
It's really interesting that so many men think that a big hard cock, long hard shag is what women find pleasurable and satisfying.

You think so? I just find it patronising, tedious and stupid, but then I get a lot of those sort of emails ::) :).

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #453 on: 30 May 2014, 12:36:12 pm »
There have been times when I've wondered what it would be like to be with a guy. The problem is, if i was to have a sexual experience with a guy, it would have to be by my terms, for e.g. i would want to choose the guy to do it with. 
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I would consider myself an open minded person when it comes to sexual relations, but going from a straight male to engaging in sex with the same gender, it would take a strong mindset. Also, with aids being so prevalent amongst the gay community, my concerns are strengthened ever more by this.

What they said.

If you read the rest of the thread, you'll discover that there is a definite niche for '"straight" men willing to let other men suck them off', especially if they can do the right look - from scally to sportwears to suited to ones that don't begin with 'S'! Receiving blow jobs for cash may be ok with you.

If you want to go further than that, it's possible to advertise as a 'top', i.e. someone who just fucks clients rather than being fucked by them. Alternative niches exist, especially in the fetish areas, but if you're going to start to be sexual in any way with men, you should start by learning the difference between HIV and Aids, and the actual prevalence and risks. You're not going to catch HIV by being sucked off, for example...

With cam work, you're still going to get far more male viewers than female ones, but that may be more ok with you. I am not sure how much of a market there is though. I suspect it will depend on the look again. Have a browse in a gay sex shop to see what niches there are.
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« Reply #454 on: 30 May 2014, 01:53:47 pm »
It's really interesting that so many men think that a big hard cock, long hard shag is what women find pleasurable and satisfying.

You think so? I just find it patronising, tedious and stupid, but then I get a lot of those sort of emails ::) :).

I was also thinking about clients who apologise for their small penis or lack of 'stud' like prowess. Also seen a few who after a few,  very pleasant meetings, tell me they almost didn't go through with the first booking because they thought they'd not be able to perform in a stud-like manner.

In my profiles and advertising I am very vanilla and nowhere do I suggest, or give the impression  I am looking for or expect such a thing.

I just wonder where these men get this impression from, Porn perhaps or simply not thinking?

Bit off topic maybe, but what is for sure is whilst women are attracted to a range of men, they tend NOT to book male escorts.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #455 on: 30 May 2014, 02:16:50 pm »
I am a newbie to this site and I have been contemplating escorting and/or cam work as a straight male. Would it be possible to earn money as a straight male in the sex industry?

I have heard that "gay for pay" is probably the best way to earn money as a "straight" guy, as most women in today's society can get sex reasonably easy through online dating/hook up sites etc. The only thing is, i'm not sure that I'd be entirely confident going the "gay for pay" route. Don't get me wrong, I am bi-curious but i've only ever kissed a guy and nothing else, but that was just an incident that happened to impress some girls  ::)

There have been times when I've wondered what it would be like to be with a guy. The problem is, if i was to have a sexual experience with a guy, it would have to be by my terms, for e.g. i would want to choose the guy to do it with. I understand female escorts, like many of you on here, would most likely prefer to be visited by young studs all the time, but I also understand that to earn the money, you have to cater to all types of clients.

I would consider myself an open minded person when it comes to sexual relations, but going from a straight male to engaging in sex with the same gender, it would take a strong mindset. Also, with aids being so prevalent amongst the gay community, my concerns are strengthened ever more by this.

I am really just looking for some helpful advice on here. I'm thinking that this would be a short term option for me, as I have other ambitions, so this would be a way of earning extra money on the side.

Any advice would be fantastic, though, thanks.  ;D
The bit in bold tells me you've not thought about this, nor understand what makes many women tick sexually. I am not attracted to 'studs' in  my private life, and when being paid the idea of a 'young stud' coming into the room brandishing a hard cock, wanting to shag me to within an inch of my life isn't something particularly attractive.

It's really interesting that so many men think that a big hard cock, long hard shag is what women find pleasurable and satisfying.

I was under the assumption that most female escorts would prefer their clients to be good looking, well groomed with good bodies, rather than an old guy who is out of shape and not well groomed. I didn't particularly mean some guy who just wanted to bang you until you were sore.  ::)

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #456 on: 30 May 2014, 02:36:47 pm »

I was under the assumption that most female escorts would prefer their clients to be good looking, well groomed with good bodies, rather than an old guy who is out of shape and not well groomed. I didn't particularly mean some guy who just wanted to bang you until you were sore.  ::)

No, just clean and respectful would top most of our lists. A sense of humour and a pleasant personality would be my runners-ups.


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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #457 on: 30 May 2014, 02:38:56 pm »
I was under the assumption that most female escorts would prefer their clients to be good looking, well groomed with good bodies, rather than an old guy who is out of shape and not well groomed. I didn't particularly mean some guy who just wanted to bang you until you were sore.  ::)

I've never met a prossie who gave a toss what their clients looked like provided they were clean, hygienic, polite & respectful - it's work, and a punter's physical appearance doesn't even cross my mind when I'm doing my job than it would if I was a nurse, a tattooist or a care assistant.

Provided somebody meets the above criteria (and I could personally throw in a few more like being punctual, intelligent and in possession of a sense of humour) they'll get the best standard of service I can give, and I'll both enjoy providing it and look forward to seeing them again.

One of the 'self-tests' we often recommend here for newbies is to go into a cafe or shop, or just walk down the street and ask yourself if you could have sex with every one of the men you see, provided he was clean and polite. Related to this is realising that you can have very successful sex with people you don't fancy, find remotely physically appealing or even like.



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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #458 on: 30 May 2014, 05:24:53 pm »

I was under the assumption that most female escorts would prefer their clients to be good looking, well groomed with good bodies, rather than an old guy who is out of shape and not well groomed. I didn't particularly mean some guy who just wanted to bang you until you were sore.  ::)

No, just clean and respectful would top most of our lists. A sense of humour and a pleasant personality would be my runners-ups.

Buff body is not in my tick list for men I tend to be attracted to, and I'm quite 'in-shape' myself.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #459 on: 30 May 2014, 07:34:42 pm »
Turns up on time after reading my profile and with the minimum of fuss in communications beforehand,clean,nice breath,good attitude and my fee thats all I want.
I couldn't care less if they are good looking.In fact the best sex I tend to have in bookings is with the more mature experienced gent.

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« Reply #460 on: 30 May 2014, 07:40:25 pm »
I was under the assumption that most female escorts would prefer their clients to be good looking, well groomed with good bodies, rather than an old guy who is out of shape and not well groomed. I didn't particularly mean some guy who just wanted to bang you until you were sore.  ::)

totally wrong, the clean polite guy who comes in all shapes and sizes/ages will do
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #461 on: 06 June 2014, 10:39:16 pm »
If you look in The Star newspaper you will see Escorts adverts for male escorts
BEWARE they are are just after your money

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« Reply #462 on: 06 June 2014, 10:57:14 pm »
.. and the rest of the thread I've moved this too is about why.
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« Reply #463 on: 31 July 2014, 04:18:56 pm »
I would pay for sex if I would be 60! But only recommended escort, with big cock and viagra of course!
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« Reply #464 on: 31 July 2014, 04:55:28 pm »
If I would be straight male escort I would print 1000 of visitation cards and leave them in public places/giving to older ladies if is not illegal. That can save you time and money to spent on advertise. You make free website and for small amount the v cards and you go, at least you have a chance.
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