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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #90 on: 21 June 2010, 08:39:38 pm »
Well thanks for everyones constructive advice..........I think??? Amy was probably the only nice feedback I got and as for doubting the website, it was a joke, I was just stating that there is so much confusion on the net that it's hard to know what to believe, like I said, i'm new to this, you guys are obviously veterans and think im just stupid, it's easy to look stupid when you know absolutally nothing about a subject, which is why im here in the first place, to enlighten myself, thanks  :'(
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« Reply #91 on: 21 June 2010, 08:48:13 pm »
Well thanks for everyones constructive advice..........I think??? Amy was probably the only nice feedback I got and as for doubting the website, it was a joke, I was just stating that there is so much confusion on the net that it's hard to know what to believe, like I said, i'm new to this, you guys are obviously veterans and think im just stupid, it's easy to look stupid when you know absolutally nothing about a subject, which is why im here in the first place, to enlighten myself, thanks  :'(

We don't think you're stupid as such, but it was clear you hadn't made any effort whatsoever to search through the forum or read the main site, and bearing in mind that we get this a lot (you're not even the first today and I could cut and paste you two dozen similar threads, but this one is by far the funniest  ;D), it does get extremely frustrating for the ladies here when all of this information is right there in front of you.

If you need a job badly, PM me - I might be able to think of some places that could help. It's summer, for Gawds sake.
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« Reply #92 on: 21 June 2010, 08:54:44 pm »
Yes Amy got it,

as for the joke, sorry but I didnt agree with your sence of humour, now advice I always offer for those looking for work, with little outlay, is set up a window cleaning round, pays cash and people always need clean windows.

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« Reply #93 on: 21 June 2010, 09:06:27 pm »
Does this forum link people from the same areas, im completely lost ha ha.

Cos I just clicked on Amy's link and shes from the same area as me, yes im being dumb again probably, which im sure you will point out, I didn't read the site properly, just thought i'd jump straight in and start asking questions.

I wanted to get into escorting because the money seems too good to be true.

Amy I can't believe you parade it so openly on your website, no offence ment, but it was a bit of a shock when I clicked on your link  :)

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #94 on: 21 June 2010, 09:10:48 pm »
Jonny, I'm a working prostitute based in Scarborough, and have been for a good few years. I operate responsibly, legitimately and entirely within the law and work hard running a very successful business. Hopefully the fact that I am still doing so and that you were completely unaware of this ought to give you some indication that I do know what I'm talking about.

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« Reply #95 on: 21 June 2010, 09:13:05 pm »
Jonny, I'm a working prostitute based in Scarborough, and have been for a good few years. I operate responsibly, legitimately and entirely within the law and work hard running a very successful business. Hopefully the fact that I am still doing so and that you were completely unaware of this ought to give you some indication that I do know what I'm talking about.

And I'm by no means the only one in Scarborough - it might surprise you to know that virtually every tinpot town from Lands End to John O'Groats has it's resident prossie. They are all providing services to MEN.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #96 on: 21 June 2010, 09:15:22 pm »
My girlfriend decided to sign me up to all these escort agencies online and gave out my number and e mail etc

I don't suppose your girlfriend is a Coronation street fan is she?



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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #97 on: 21 June 2010, 09:17:15 pm »
I don't doubt that for a second, im just a little shocked, i've never seen anything like this before, especially didn't have any idea there was anything like this on my own doorstep.

I say if you enjoy your work and it's paying the bills and then some, then good on ya.

I am very greatfull for the advice  :o lol
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« Reply #98 on: 21 June 2010, 11:02:58 pm »
Johnny

Yes those who live in certain, more rural areas are usually quite surprised. Me?Well I had an inkling for years there were prossies around even in my small place. Just didn't know how to start up until I finally ran a search on the internet.

Funnily enough a lot of guys still presume it's illegal  - when it never has been in this country and I have even been asked on the phone if it's all a police set up. ::)

No it's not and a lot of us actually pay tax and NI(I do for a start), and yes I do tell the tax people exactly what I do as do thousands of other women around the country.

Back onto the topic the number of times chaps ask re straight male escorting is pretty shocking considering there is virtually no market. Even better those I do explain this to think I'm just being a spoil sport. No-one has come back yet and proved me wrong. There is a tiny demand and then I'm told it's mostly in London.


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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #99 on: 01 July 2010, 12:16:59 am »
Hey Guys

I could do with a little bit of advice, I have wanted to pursue a lifestyle as a male companion, but understand the risks involved in signing up to agencies. I therefore have set up a web address advertising my services this afternoon. So far I only had one call which was just an inquiry (no booking).  I would appreciate some feedback on my website and the best way to promote my site...

 http://enriquesuarez.moonfruit.com

Cheers

Enrique

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #100 on: 01 July 2010, 12:21:23 am »
Enrique, please read the rest of this thread, and then congratulate yourself that the Moonfruit site didn't cost anything.

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« Reply #101 on: 01 July 2010, 05:30:28 am »
Me and my girlfriend have been really struggling recently and she came up with the idea that I do male escorting as long as there was no sex involved,

My God...where have I been? I totally lost track of this thread. I wish I had caught it earlier...

Anyhow, in no way does this offend the professional ladies here on the forum (and please spare the stoning but..) I'm sorry your girlfriend is trying to REVERSE THE ROLES! How the hell is she going to try and pimp YOU out? I would tell that ho to dress up and SHE do the escorting. She has a much better chance of making money than you do selling to other women. What brillant idea of her to come up with turning you into a prostitute. She should be thinking of that herself  >:( And she is a stupid woman anyhow to say "as long as sex isn't involved". Well how the hell are you supposed to make money? Was she referring you to be having sex with other women, or men? Because you damn sure wont get far not having sex with other men  >:(

Enrique, please read the rest of this thread, and then congratulate yourself that the Moonfruit site didn't cost anything.

Awww, Enrique is such a cutie  :-[

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #102 on: 01 July 2010, 08:48:17 am »
Hey Guys

I could do with a little bit of advice, I have wanted to pursue a lifestyle as a male companion, but understand the risks involved in signing up to agencies. I therefore have set up a web address advertising my services this afternoon. So far I only had one call which was just an inquiry (no booking).  I would appreciate some feedback on my website and the best way to promote my site...

 http://enriquesuarez.moonfruit.com

Cheers

Enrique

I hope you follow Amys advice and read the thread. When it comes to escorting women its a different kettle of fish entirely.
As Joey said you are cute but still I doubt you will make money. The reason being women do NOT pay for sex or dates. If I was a wealthy business woman I would get a new frock and simply walk past a building site!
Tis men who hire escorts both male and female which is why Joey is successful ie he sees guys.
Men have basically two options if not for us. Some internet porn or risk the town slapper turning into a bunny boiler. With women you are competing with retail therapy, beauty treatments, new shoes/handbag, sex toys, a tub of icecream and a good book, or pick up a man in a bar, and yes in that order!
Please take heed. Right im off to do one of Emilys "head desks" lol.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #103 on: 01 July 2010, 09:04:09 am »
The reason being women do NOT pay for sex or dates. If I was a wealthy business woman I would get a new frock and simply walk past a building site!
Tis men who hire escorts both male and female which is why Joey is successful ie he sees guys.
Men have basically two options if not for us. Some internet porn or risk the town slapper turning into a bunny boiler. With women you are competing with retail therapy, beauty treatments, new shoes/handbag, sex toys, or pick up a man in a bar, and yes in that order!

Well, I don't know if getting my hair cut or buying useless crap I don't need is QUITE the same as an orgasm, thank you Ms Cindy LadyStereotypes ;) but I think the main problem is that I can (and sometimes do) approach any one of my male friends (wot are intelligent and not in the habit of harassing women on the street) and request some casual sex and 75% of the time he'll say yes (the ones that don't tend to mistakenly think I've asked for their hand in marriage, or are gay and I make a right pillock of myself, or are just in lurrrrve with a girl crush, bless 'em). So when men stop believing that they ought to be doin' secks 24/7 (and therefore agreeing to do it with just about anybody) is when straight male prostitutes might start to make money.

Please take heed. Right im off to do one of Emilys "head desks" lol.

Ha. I've given myself some brain damage from all my headdesking these past few days so watch your skull. ;D
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #104 on: 01 July 2010, 11:05:12 am »
Hey Guys,

 Thank you Cindy and Emily for your comments. Firstly I would like to point out that I do have a job and only considering escorting as an extra bit of pocket money on the side (compared to some of the other posts I have seen).

 After viewing the threads I do understand that there are a lot of of men which including myself assume that women would pay the services for a companion. But who can blame our simple-minded assumption when they are so called agencies around claiming to be a legitimate business stating the opposite, and viewing testimonials from other independent male companions who are promoting themselves solely. 

 Out of the thousands of websites claiming to be agencies I am sure there is probably at least one legitimate agency, and out of the thousands of male companions profile, there has to be at least 2 or 3 successful  ones.  Thousands of men if not more deny paying for the services of a female companion in fear of what people may think. I do however feel that some women (correct me if I am wrong) would feel the same as it is viewed as inappropriate behaviour (which I don't think it is).

 Cindy I am aware that there are's various ways a women can make herself feel appreciated, such as handbags, shoes and therapeutic goodies but isn't that more of an everyday or weekend hobby/therapy...??

Anyway the point I am trying to come across is that although its a niche market for women, I feel that there is a gap in the market for males to promote themselves independently but would probably be approached in a discreet
manner, and that like men no women would admit paying for the services of a male companion and therefore being branded as an unsuccessful and non lucrative market to venture in.

Lastly I would like to apologise if I have said anything to offend anyone, but do feel free to comment.

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