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Gina G

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #630 on: 20 February 2019, 01:17:18 pm »
I think as time goes on it will become more 'acceptable for women to use service providers although i doubt it would ever be on the same scale as men and it certainly wont be with guys who have cock shots in their gallery. Maybe if they realised women need more mental stimulation and marketed themselves apropriately they might be on to something x
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #631 on: 18 August 2020, 09:31:01 am »
It has been a hard 6 months for me and my BF. I lost 5 months of income and my BF was on short hours and has now been made redundant.
My income is now a lot lower due to reduced bookings. We have checked state benefit we can get and it is virtually nothing.

We have looked at the idea of him doing some escorting (we already offer a service as a couple - but this rarely gets a booking) and I'd be OK with him doing it (he accepts my job too). He is good looking, would appeal to a lot of women and would be good at the job (ie respectful and understanding to the client neeeds).

We looked on AW to see what the competition is in our area. There are quite a few guys offering services. BUT I'd say that 80% of the straight male service providers have no idea (no pictures or just porn style pics of dicks that won't work with women or just plain ugly and appear to be using the concept to get free sex). Most have no feedback and those that do seem to have feedback from female escorts - so we assume that the male paid. One of the feedbacks was actually written by me for a client who I thought was just a punter and who paid me - I had no idea at the time that they were supposed to be a male escort.

We have looked wider than our local area and have only found 2 with what could be considered genuine feedback from a paying female (even then, could be fake).

Is it that this area of personal service is done via different channels/web sites and not AW (which lets face it is really aimed at sex starved straight and gay men)? Agencies? Personal ad columns? Dating sites? Or is it a fact that straight women just don't pay men for sex?

Any advice or experience shared will be valued.
 
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Sammy

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #632 on: 18 August 2020, 09:53:36 am »
I don’t think there is any women wanting to pay men for sex. Some men pay men for sex.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #633 on: 18 August 2020, 11:54:01 am »
It has been a hard 6 months for me and my BF. I lost 5 months of income and my BF was on short hours and has now been made redundant.
My income is now a lot lower due to reduced bookings. We have checked state benefit we can get and it is virtually nothing.

We have looked at the idea of him doing some escorting (we already offer a service as a couple - but this rarely gets a booking) and I'd be OK with him doing it (he accepts my job too). He is good looking, would appeal to a lot of women and would be good at the job (ie respectful and understanding to the client neeeds).

We looked on AW to see what the competition is in our area. There are quite a few guys offering services. BUT I'd say that 80% of the straight male service providers have no idea (no pictures or just porn style pics of dicks that won't work with women or just plain ugly and appear to be using the concept to get free sex). Most have no feedback and those that do seem to have feedback from female escorts - so we assume that the male paid. One of the feedbacks was actually written by me for a client who I thought was just a punter and who paid me - I had no idea at the time that they were supposed to be a male escort.

We have looked wider than our local area and have only found 2 with what could be considered genuine feedback from a paying female (even then, could be fake).

Is it that this area of personal service is done via different channels/web sites and not AW (which lets face it is really aimed at sex starved straight and gay men)? Agencies? Personal ad columns? Dating sites? Or is it a fact that straight women just don't pay men for sex?

Any advice or experience shared will be valued.
 
Thanks

Sammy

I honestly think you'll only get work if you offer MMF, cuckold meets etc. I do think some straight women pay for both sex and literally being escorted to events, but it is rare.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #634 on: 18 August 2020, 12:32:46 pm »
Yes, women pay for sex, but because our brains are hardwired a bit different than mens we do it in a different way. I've met quite a few older ladies who had "younger male sugar handsome babies" who showered with gifts (sometimes money) in exchange of sex/companionship, couples that hired a guy for the wife were she was "more than happy" to engage in threesome etc... but a woman alone calling a stranger right of the bat from the internet to pay him in exchange for sex hmm.... very difficult. However... if your BF advertises on AW as a straight escort for couples he might have gotten some business in pre-covid times, not sure about now. He looses nothing by giving it a shot  ;)
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #635 on: 18 August 2020, 01:48:29 pm »
Women do pay for sex hire male escorts but rarely use that Aw. It all depends on how you portray yourself market yourself. Look around some other sites and research on forums. It is common that women mature ladies do pay for it. Type male escort... add your area in search engine google see what comes up.
Branch out on other platforms to put your add on once you have seen examples of other male escorts one whom you are trying to target the type of mature client course not to copy them just and idea. Be clear in your content your straight etc if your fine with couple meets but to entertain the lady only etc. There is a market that just got to dig deep know where to place yourself on. Clothed pics, not images dick out etc. Good luck