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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #570 on: 15 October 2017, 11:46:01 pm »
The other place to look is the local gay scene press...
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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« Reply #571 on: 16 October 2017, 11:12:53 am »
Just to clarify, you're expecting to have male clients right?

No, I'm looking for female clients. Easy

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« Reply #572 on: 16 October 2017, 11:18:52 am »
"The Male Escort Agency" make a lot out of their TrustPilot reviews, just want to now how genuine they are? Easy

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #573 on: 16 October 2017, 01:16:37 pm »
No, I'm looking for female clients. Easy

Then you're wasting your time and ours. Getting women to pay you to have sex with them is possibly the least easy thing you'll ever attempt.

Merged with the only thread on the forum there's any point in you reading.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #574 on: 16 October 2017, 01:18:40 pm »
No, I'm looking for female clients. Easy

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #575 on: 16 October 2017, 08:40:35 pm »
I think someone has been watching Eastenders ha ha! 😂

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« Reply #576 on: 16 October 2017, 08:55:04 pm »
"The Male Escort Agency" make a lot out of their TrustPilot reviews, just want to now how genuine they are? Easy

Ugly truth is that there's no real agency that will get you in touch with female clients. But... you could try for yourself. It's quite a difficult market, but nothing is impossible as women have sexual needs to and if you look appealing enough you may get some business. The best thing is to try it out (otherwise you'll never find out). Get a nice website full of very good looking photos of you were you come out as a really nice guy. Post ads in the main directories and see how it goes. I do know for a fact an independent male escort in New York who only sees women and does really well. Good luck!
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #577 on: 16 October 2017, 09:07:54 pm »
... And I know the author of the best male 'whorelit' book, which is full of stories about female clients, but only at the end does he admit that the vast majority were men. It's not what publishers want to hear, including those of a couple women's magazines which have published 'men make ?1,000 a night shagging women' stories.

Well, they might, but they very probably made much more selling their stories to some gullible journalists than they ever did selling sex to women...

Oh, worth saying one more time: if those trustable agencies want any money whatsoever from you before you have cash in your hand from a client, they are a scam.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #578 on: 16 October 2017, 11:31:07 pm »
I recently had a close friend who went on a few dates with a gorgeous guy she met via Fet. She sent me his details for safety so of course I immediately googled him :D

He was advertising as a male escort, but in another country. I texted her (whilst on the date) and said she needed to ask him about this, regarding condom use and testing etc.

(I was worried I had pissed on her chips but she has health anxiety so things like this are a big deal for her.)

She asked him - he laughed and said he'd spent fucking MONTHS creating his website and getting photos done and he had a grand total of ONE client in 12 months.

This guy certainly hit all the generically attractive male points and had a great personality too.

ONE booking. In 12 months.

Unless you have an extremely unique USP (yes tautology, I know) and/or a solid gold cock that can create a literal pearl necklace, you are not going to make a living as a straight male escort.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #579 on: 16 October 2017, 11:55:25 pm »
My ex-therapist (shrink) had sex with his female clients (yes, you read properly), and he wouldn't hide it, in fact it was written on his website clearly (plus his rates etc...) He was a not very attractive 46 year old man with a belly and he was booked left and right. And I know because it was very diffucult to get an appointment with him, he did show me his schedule once and he was very busy. He was also married (wife was a shrink too and she didn't minded).

It's all about the marketing. If you market yourself as a gym type willing to take you out for dinner you may not succeed, but if you market yourself as a therapist curing "female sexual disfunction" , hang all your diplomas on your site and put a plain headshot you may be on to something.

There were a few articles written about him and he admited to being a prostitute in the interviews. Nobody blinked an eye. Had she been a woman he would have been teared into pieces. Oh the irony.

My point is: It's all about marketing. And no, I never had sex with him (although he did tried it  ;D)


Anyone wants his phone number pm me. ;D (although I would not reccomend him).
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #580 on: 17 October 2017, 10:51:56 pm »
My ex-therapist (shrink) had sex with his female clients (yes, you read properly), and he wouldn't hide it, in fact it was written on his website clearly (plus his rates etc...) He was a not very attractive 46 year old man with a belly and he was booked left and right. And I know because it was very diffucult to get an appointment with him, he did show me his schedule once and he was very busy. He was also married (wife was a shrink too and she didn't minded).

It's all about the marketing. If you market yourself as a gym type willing to take you out for dinner you may not succeed, but if you market yourself as a therapist curing "female sexual disfunction" , hang all your diplomas on your site and put a plain headshot you may be on to something.

There were a few articles written about him and he admited to being a prostitute in the interviews. Nobody blinked an eye. Had she been a woman he would have been teared into pieces. Oh the irony.

My point is: It's all about marketing. And no, I never had sex with him (although he did tried it  ;D)


Anyone wants his phone number pm me. ;D (although I would not reccomend him).

Holy shit, that's actually really awful. In a multitude of ways.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #581 on: 20 October 2017, 09:18:56 pm »
It's funny though because when I was married I spent forever trying to find a straight male escort ( could of picked up a guy easy) but I wasn't after sex I wanted an evening out with really no strings but prepared to pay to keep it professional.

Couldn't find one anywhere !

No way would I have gone for one showing his dick etc , but hey I would of been quite prepared to be wined , dined and more at my leisure / choice.

I personally think their is a market but no way if it's based on sex only , I didn't want that, I wanted to be made a fuss of ???

Bit Random but an alternative contribution .

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #582 on: 26 March 2018, 11:50:10 pm »
Funny I've often thought the same GP.. also for things like family events if you have no boyfriend or date to take with you. 

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #583 on: 27 March 2018, 12:22:11 am »
I have the best story about this. i recently did jury service and a guy was on trial for possession of crack with intent to supply. He claimed that all of the money going into his account via bank transfers was from escorting (for women) on adultwork. He also tried to claim that the drugs slang on his phone was slang for sex. Kept on mentioning the size of his cock. . I had to go and speak to the judge to ensure I could continue on the case

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #584 on: 27 March 2018, 11:16:18 am »
Holy shit, that's actually really awful. In a multitude of ways.

It's taking advantage in many ways.  A couple of friends have had male business mentors who they initally thought would help them with business plans etc but it was all a ploy to bed them.  End of the day: a man's goal in all situations is to shag.  They will go to any means to do this