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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #45 on: 14 January 2010, 08:40:15 am »
Even if you do do men, you may have to move.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #46 on: 14 January 2010, 08:49:31 am »
If you don't want to do men, go to the jobcentre.

Spot on. Fortunently, I'd rather swallow c*ck and get f*cked at the same time than to step foot inside any job centre...Or at the very least I'd rather search online  :P

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #47 on: 11 February 2010, 09:48:24 pm »
HELLO i am looking for work as a male escort. but every one who has contacted me is asking for money of some kind. i am a pastry chef by trade, lost my job and looking for a career change. i live in Colchester and looking for work in Colchester or London. dose anyone know of any agency's i have to pay no fees. please get back to me soon as possible thanks madman20091
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #48 on: 11 February 2010, 09:52:09 pm »
HELLO i am looking for work as a male escort. but every one who has contacted me is asking for money of some kind. i am a pastry chef by trade, lost my job and looking for a career change. i live in Colchester and looking for work in Colchester or London. dose anyone know of any agency's i have to pay no fees. please get back to me soon as possible thanks madman20091

Since this is the first time we have had one of these posts in well over 24 hours, I'm going to take a deep breath and give you the benefit of the doubt; in other words, I am assuming that you have read through the main site and the relevant threads on this forum and are therefore fully aware that the prospects of a straight man hoping to escort women are zero, and the idea is a complete non-starter.

As a gay or bi man wanting to become an escort providing services to other men, I think your options agency-wise are limited; most guys work independently AFAIK (although there may be something if you are in or near London). There are a few advertising sites you could try, and getting a website organised isn't too difficult - probably less expensive than you think too! You could also have a go at building one yourself - some of the ladies on here have done that and I'm sure will be happy to help if you get stuck.

We do have a couple of guys posting on here who could assist you with any bloke-specific queries, but the job is pretty much of a muchness gender-wise and if there is anything you want advice about, just post your questions on the main board and we'll all do our best to help. The articles on the main site about law, tax, STDs and so on apply to everyone and should be your first stop if you haven't looked already.

Hope this is helpful, and welcome to SAAFE!
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #49 on: 12 February 2010, 04:48:06 pm »
HELLO i am looking for work as a male escort. but every one who has contacted me is asking for money of some kind. i am a pastry chef by trade, lost my job and looking for a career change. i live in Colchester and looking for work in Colchester or London. dose anyone know of any agency's i have to pay no fees. please get back to me soon as possible thanks madman20091

Since this is the first time we have had one of these posts in well over 24 hours, I'm going to take a deep breath and give you the benefit of the doubt; in other words, I am assuming that you have read through the main site and the relevant threads on this forum and are therefore fully aware that the prospects of a straight man hoping to escort women are zero, and the idea is a complete non-starter.

As a gay or bi man wanting to become an escort providing services to other men, I think your options agency-wise are limited; most guys work independently AFAIK (although there may be something if you are in or near London). There are a few advertising sites you could try, and getting a website organised isn't too difficult - probably less expensive than you think too! You could also have a go at building one yourself - some of the ladies on here have done that and I'm sure will be happy to help if you get stuck.

We do have a couple of guys posting on here who could assist you with any bloke-specific queries, but the job is pretty much of a muchness gender-wise and if there is anything you want advice about, just post your questions on the main board and we'll all do our best to help. The articles on the main site about law, tax, STDs and so on apply to everyone and should be your first stop if you haven't looked already.

Hope this is helpful, and welcome to SAAFE!

Who wants to bet that Amy's optimism is unfounded?  :P
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #50 on: 12 February 2010, 04:56:11 pm »
Who wants to bet that Amy's optimism is unfounded?  :P

I know ;D

I'm hoping this thread stays on the front page just so it gives us somewhere for all these sort of bloody posts to go, tbh. I've a feeling I'll still be moving most of them myself, mind  ::).
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #51 on: 12 February 2010, 06:04:06 pm »
Since this is the first time we have had one of these posts in well over 24 hours,

ROFL.

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the prospects of a straight man hoping to escort women are zero, and the idea is a complete non-starter.

To be fair, I would say 'hoping to escort women as a career are zero', but yes, this is why there are no real straight male agencies.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #52 on: 13 February 2010, 09:08:34 pm »
Just had another client today that reckons that he should sign up as a male escort! Sure that there is a market for "a good looking guy who would escort ladies to dinner and show them a good time".  And they also think they are hot stuff in bed as I "obviously" was overwhelmed with orgasms from their efforts - LMAO!

If only I had a ?100 for every client under 40, (who is half way decent), that says that, I would not need to work.  Dream on.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #53 on: 14 February 2010, 02:32:24 am »
I'm hoping this thread stays on the front page just so it gives us somewhere for all these sort of bloody posts to go, tbh. I've a feeling I'll still be moving most of them myself, mind  ::).


Does SMF (the forum software) not allow you to sticky threads so that they stay at the top?
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #54 on: 14 February 2010, 08:18:32 am »
Does SMF (the forum software) not allow you to sticky threads so that they stay at the top?

Of course it does, for topics that are important enough for everyone to need to read, or that serve a particular purpose as in here. I'm surprised it didn't occur to you to look.

This thread, lets not kid ourselves, is a repository - if we're lucky some might read it before posting but as stated before, it would be supremely optimistic to think it will make much difference to those it's aimed at. After all, blind optimism and a total absence of self awareness and common sense is what keeps the scammers in business.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #55 on: 14 February 2010, 10:11:59 am »
I'm surprised it didn't occur to you to look.

Right, right, blonde moment...  ;D
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #56 on: 15 February 2010, 12:49:24 am »
I dont know...now that Heidi Fleiss is coming out with that male brothel in Nevada...serving women, we might just be wrong...

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #57 on: 15 February 2010, 08:15:31 am »
Have there been any non-journo female customers at that place yet?

Also, there do seem to be a few self-styled straight male prostitutes about, although naturally no one can vouch for their realness as all their clients are sooo 'upscale and discreet'. I suspect the faux-ho explanation but if they really are what they say? They probably get one or two clients per month, which is nice pocket money but not livable. And they'd have to be perfect male specimins, not creeps or douchebags cos women are already tired of fending them off, but intelligent and hilarious and good to talk to so they can create chemistry with anyone. 

I'm still really interested in seeing what happens to that poor man in Nevada. Has he got any cowokers yet? I always picture him sitting in that brothel alone. :(
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #58 on: 15 February 2010, 08:23:49 am »
Have there been any non-journo female customers at that place yet?

Also, there do seem to be a few self-styled straight male prostitutes about, although naturally no one can vouch for their realness as all their clients are sooo 'upscale and discreet'. I suspect the faux-ho explanation but if they really are what they say? They probably get one or two clients per month, which is nice pocket money but not livable. And they'd have to be perfect male specimins, not creeps or douchebags cos women are already tired of fending them off, but intelligent and hilarious and good to talk to so they can create chemistry with anyone. 

I'm still really interested in seeing what happens to that poor man in Nevada. Has he got any cowokers yet? I always picture him sitting in that brothel alone. :(

They probably take it up the bum to make ends meet, and see the odd female client from time to time...
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And - which is more - you'll be a Man, my son!
"if" - Rudyard Kipling

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #59 on: 15 February 2010, 09:23:15 am »
They probably take it up the bum to make ends meet, and see the odd female client from time to time...

LOL, Effing hilarious...

Has anyone ever gone on craigslist and seen the men who post for women? Some of them show pics of their cocks lol. I feel sorry for them though because I deal with enough timewasters and idiots from craigslist advertising for men...Its like doing something in the back of newspapers. I cant imagine paying $10 everytime I want to post just to be made a fool out of.

But I will say (not to brag) last night I was totally awestruck when a girl at the bar (may have been a trans, but I doubt it!) told me flat out, "you're beautiful". Women do go crazy over male strippers though LOL!
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