Quote from: amy on 23 January 2014, 12:04:32 pm

Well if I'm right (and I'm not in a position to look at their site now) the main thing would be not giving them any more money - if you have a Direct Debit or similar, call the bank and stop it.

As far as the site goes, I would imagine that if you use whatever contact details they provide and ask that your ad be removed that ought to do it, but if they get arsy just threaten to report them to both their hosting company and Google. They don't have to know that you've finally cottoned on to them - you could be leaving the country and no longer available to their non-existent female punters .

To their credit, they've removed my profile quickly and there's no Direct Debit; I only made one small payment at the beginning. That's what still puzzles me: how is it worth running a scam to get such tiny amounts. It'll have to remain a mystery, I guess.

Well it's not such a mystery really - if you can con ?17 out of 100 people a month most months you're not doing too badly considering you need to do absolutely nothing in order to get it bar set up a crap website with a pack of lies on it and swap a few emails, which anybody could do on their phone without even getting out of bed. Given the number of hopeful 'straight male escorts' on sites like Adultwork, the term 'shooting fish in a barrel' springs to mind.

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Hi Guys,

I have consider becoming an male escort for some time now and i have finally decided to take the plunge. Has anyone got any advice to help me get off to the best start? I am a straight male, mid 40's and will travel. Is it best to be an independent or sign to an agency?

Any advice would be very much welcomed. 

Many Thanks xx

Hi Anthony,

As you must know the market for straight male escorts is very very small. You will find many agencies stating they have females clients waiting for you and  will ask for a joining fee, and that's because they're a SCAM (in fact: ANY agency asking for an upfront fee is a scam). If I were you I would market myself right away as an independent. Build a nice website were you come off as a very sweet and handsome straight guy and advertise in adultwork, Eros, backpage etc... Keep in mind that 85% of the people contacting you are going to be men (gay men have very strong fantasies about having sex with a straight man). If you fancy men you'll be quite busy, but if you don't ...getting business is going to be quite tough. I know all the posters here will totally disencourage you, but I think the best way to find out if you have business is trying it out for yourself. There's a few reputed male escorts for women out there (with very professional websites) who have been around for a while. How much business they get I have no idea. But if they've been around all this time they must be getting business. I personally know a straight male escort who only sees women and he's very busy, but he has a very "special" way of marketing himself which totally works for him. My advice: Be creative, think "out of the box" and don't advertise yourself "sleazy".

Hi, I'm new on this site. I wanna become a male escort. How should I go for it? can u suggest me please.

Hi guys, can you tell me the way I should star my escorting with an agency.As a male how, where and what  should I do really ?

Provided you're prepared to do men, the advice is pretty much the same as for anybody else. Read the main SAAFE site first and foremost, plus you can do searches here for 'new male escort' and so on.

If you're not prepared to do men and think you'll get female clients, we can always merge your post in with all the other optimists in this thread later on .

Welcome to SAAFE Prince of Dorne. Love the username! Can't wait to see The red viper vs the mountain next week.

You're right, there's almost no work for straight male escorts and agencies who offer you this kind of work are all scams.

You can advertise independently but you won't make a living from it. If you google male escort for women in London, my site is always in the top 10 and is the first independent site plus listed high up on all the directories returned in that search but I only see a few women per year.

I see a few men per day though so business can be good if you can see men.

I'm bi but only ever see men who are paying. More into women and TS. I see sex with men the same way I see massage with men. It's just part of the service, I take pride in doing it well and I enjoy doing something that makes people feel good. I get plenty of compliments on what I do and lots of regulars so I must be doing something right and I enjoy my interactions with my clients and I think this shows (plus blue pills help). But for intimacy and my own sexual pleasure, that all happens with people other than my clients. Keeping work and everything else separate works for me, I still enjoy sex outside of work as much now as I did before I started escorting but how you go about things is up to you. Everyone's different.

CDC says the HIV rate for men who have sex with men is about 60 times higher than average but a lot of this is from the party and play subset ie those who get high and have unsafe sex. I don't use drugs and don't see anyone who mentions drugs. I used to come across drug users more when my rates were lower but since raising my rates I hardly ever meet them. The rest of the community without this subset can't be much more at risk than average, especially male escorts who always use condoms.

Good luck and msg me if you need help re advertising etc