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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #390 on: 02 May 2013, 09:03:08 pm »
Hi, I am a gentleman ladies only escort, now, before I hear cries of oh no not another one, I know it?s not exactly an area of business where clients are going to be plentiful yet the competition the exact opposite ? but, being 35, well groomed, well spoken and a fun loving guy who likes to make ladies happy, rather than play with hearts and minds I?d thought being a paid escort/companion might be the way to go.

So, new to the business, I thought, do the right thing, sign up with an agency and see how it goes . . so that?s what I did ? I will at this point name no names, the agency I signed up with I?ve been with now for close to 11 weeks now, have given them ?1800 and received from them no work, promises of work, sure, but no work - it normally goes along the lines of ?we have this client/job, its going to pay (insert four figure sum here) but, we need some more money from you!?

For those out there who work for agencies, is this normal practice?
I?m a high class guy, but starting to feel like a low down chump.

Any advice, also, is there a list of agencies out there that need to be avoided as they are scamming or just plain dangerous?

Any advice, is gratefully received, with many thanks

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #391 on: 03 May 2013, 03:29:40 pm »
Hi, I am a gentleman ladies only escort, now, before I hear cries of oh no not another one, I know it?s not exactly an area of business where clients are going to be plentiful yet the competition the exact opposite ? but, being 35, well groomed, well spoken and a fun loving guy who likes to make ladies happy, rather than play with hearts and minds I?d thought being a paid escort/companion might be the way to go.

So, new to the business, I thought, do the right thing, sign up with an agency and see how it goes . . so that?s what I did ? I will at this point name no names, the agency I signed up with I?ve been with now for close to 11 weeks now, have given them ?1800 and received from them no work, promises of work, sure, but no work - it normally goes along the lines of ?we have this client/job, its going to pay (insert four figure sum here) but, we need some more money from you!?

For those out there who work for agencies, is this normal practice?
I?m a high class guy, but starting to feel like a low down chump.

Any advice, also, is there a list of agencies out there that need to be avoided as they are scamming or just plain dangerous?

Any advice, is gratefully received, with many thanks



?1,800!!!!????? Grief I need to set up a fake agency.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #392 on: 03 May 2013, 08:24:35 pm »
Hi, I am a gentleman ladies only escort, now, before I hear cries of oh no not another one, I know it?s not exactly an area of business where clients are going to be plentiful yet the competition the exact opposite ? but, being 35, well groomed, well spoken and a fun loving guy who likes to make ladies happy, rather than play with hearts and minds I?d thought being a paid escort/companion might be the way to go.

So, new to the business, I thought, do the right thing, sign up with an agency and see how it goes . . so that?s what I did ? I will at this point name no names, the agency I signed up with I?ve been with now for close to 11 weeks now, have given them ?1800 and received from them no work, promises of work, sure, but no work - it normally goes along the lines of ?we have this client/job, its going to pay (insert four figure sum here) but, we need some more money from you!?

For those out there who work for agencies, is this normal practice?
I?m a high class guy, but starting to feel like a low down chump.

Any advice, also, is there a list of agencies out there that need to be avoided as they are scamming or just plain dangerous?

Any advice, is gratefully received, with many thanks


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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #393 on: 01 July 2013, 10:24:43 am »
can anyone recommend any escort sites or agency's  for men please?

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« Reply #394 on: 01 July 2013, 11:27:25 am »
I am starting out as a male escort could anyone give me any advice and links to any free sites I could join. I am based in the Doncaster south Yorkshire area any help would be great thanks.

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« Reply #395 on: 01 July 2013, 11:46:42 am »
Paris where is the best place for me to advertise as a straight male escort in the south Yorkshire area free would be best as ive spent money already and don't no if this is going to take off I hope it does any help would be great thanks.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #396 on: 01 July 2013, 11:47:37 am »
Welcome to SAAFE.

Your first steps should be to read the Main Site (button above) two, three and four times.  Then do searches for anything that has popped into your mind and then ask any questions that you cant find answers too.

There is far too much to cover to go into it all.

Best bit of advice would be : Don't expect a lot of work as a M for F bookings, if you get any at all however M for M is another story that some of the guys may be able to help you with.

Good Luck and Happy Reading !
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« Reply #397 on: 01 July 2013, 12:06:16 pm »
I have merged your post with this thread, because it's the best one for hopeful straight male escorts who won't do men. Sadly, the basic advice is 'give up now', but it explains why, and why the straight male agencies out there are scams... as I think you have discovered.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #398 on: 10 August 2013, 02:46:29 am »
Hello Guys and Girls... i need advice / help to sort this out.
I want to work like Male Escort in London but the information is so... how to say it like TABOO for the Males Escort services... there are several sites that they claim they are Male Escort company but they look so terrible and so scam that i think they are really scam some of them asking for Yearly membership some of them monthly i don`t mind to be a member do not understand me wrong.. but i guess nobody ever visiting this sites and they are made for fishes like me to PAY membership and to wait.

Few words for me im 30 years old Master Teacher of fitness and many other sports i don`t want to become Escort just because of MONEY or something i like the general idea of this kind of business.
And just don`t know from where to start i mean how to do it properly and right.

So if any of you know legit place from where to start will be awesome.

Thanks in advance :)




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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #399 on: 10 August 2013, 07:00:53 am »
Sadly I don't think there is anyone on the forum that could give you the name of a REAL male escort site for all the ones we know are ALL scams.

There is a thread about re this here : http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=506.msg110838#msg110838   Have a read, it is very informative even if its not what you are wanting to see.
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« Reply #400 on: 10 August 2013, 08:17:36 am »
I've moved this here - there are genuine male escort agencies, but they are for the gay market. If you are looking to escort women, the best advice is give up now, but there is more about why and what you could do here. It still is very unlikely to get you any female clients though...
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #401 on: 14 October 2013, 12:53:53 am »
Hi guys and gals!

So, after much thought, I've decided to try and get work as a male escort. I should state, straight out, I have zero experience at this! I registered on AdultWork and had a message looking to book me within 45 minutes from a pleasant-enough seeming bi-curious local guy who wants to meet up. Nothing too strenuous, he just wants to try out giving oral, which I'm fine with. I wasn't specifically looking for gay work, but I'm pretty open-minded so... whatever.

Anyway, just thought I'd seek out some tips just to make sure I'm working smart and staying safe; I've no concerns for my physical safety (I've fought professionally and I have a decent martial arts background, so I'm certain I won't be physically harmed) but I just wanted to see what else I need to be aware of!

While I'm on the subject, what's the best way of attracting female clients? As much as I have no problem with doing gay work (up to a point), I much prefer the company of women as a general rule, both in a sexual and non-sexual context.

Anyway, any advice?

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #402 on: 14 October 2013, 01:00:26 am »
You have a 1% chance of getting a female client and that's being generous
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« Reply #403 on: 14 October 2013, 01:34:26 am »
I've put this in here (and Veronica, don't get the poor blokes's hopes up :)) because of your closing question, and because finding female clients is the thing you need to understand you are almost certainly never going to do. Read the rest of this thread to find out why - there's plenty of it.

As for attracting male punters, there is a thread further down the page here which ought to be helpful (and a few more dotted about if you use the Search box - try things like Gaydar) :).

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« Reply #404 on: 14 October 2013, 03:57:09 pm »
Hmm, it depends on where you are, but 1% is probably in the right area, ignoring all those who think that sticking a picture of their genitals on AW is the way to go.

Think, think, and think again about what to offer and where.
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