Well I've received posative feedback on here from fellow sex
Workers ! Excuse the sarcasm. Apparently this is a female only Site
am I'm not welcome !

I apologise for my post causing angst; this was not my intent.

• I'm not being sarcastic; your post is listed under the "Straight male escorts" topic. My reply was a thoughtful, accurate reply.  You did ask, after all.
• You are welcome. All escorts are welcome. The only criteria is they sell sexual services for coin.
• Your gender is irrelevant.  On SAAFE, we have male, female and trans sex workers. All of who are made very welcome. Having a willy is irrelevant to this. (Trust me on that one (http://www.freesmileys.org/smileys/smiley-basic/wink.gif)) Anecdotal comments over the years from all hues of Provider, suggest my last posting is a prerequisite for any sex worker.  Please read through the rest of this thread for detail.
  
  If you read through the different threads, you'll see this is a great resource for sex workers and I imagine very boring for anyone else. It's well worth hanging around if you are or are considering becoming a sex worker.  If you want to be a straight male sex worker, again I would recommend an 'in depth' read of this thread, as it will show the reality.
  

Jace, you are aware that the only way you will make any money is by offering sexual services to men, aren't you? There is no market for 'social only' or straight male escorting anywhere and your location really won't make any difference to that. Anyone who tells you otherwise is lying and likely to want you to give them money (which is why they are lying).

I'm sure someone will be along soon enough to point you in the direction for the SME myth thread...

He hasn't said he's straight, so far at least. The bit about non-sex escorting and not being able to find genuine sites would suggest it, admittedly, but I won't merge his posts until we're clear. There'll be as many gay/straight-men-who-have-occasional-sex-with-other-men in NI as anywhere else, and if he's anywhere near Belfast there's probably loads.

And *merge*

The best thing I can suggest you do if you don't believe us is read the rest of this thread. Doing so for ten minutes will earn you as much money as you would in a month of being a straight male escort, and ditto a non-sexual escort - none, in other words.

We're not trying to be harsh on you personally, but there are a lot of people 'recruiting' out there who will tell you otherwise and it's important you know not to believe them. And I think what Danae means is that working as a prostitute is probably far harder work than you thought, just in case you do decide to go the gay-for-pay route.

Hi everyone,

Thanks for the replies.

I am straight, the reason why I choose non sexual was to see how it goes first of all not to just jump straight in head first if that makes sense.

Your right that I do nothing, I was made redunant from my job just doing casual work hedge cutting etc.

Hope I dont come across as a mong 

Hmmm, of all the times I've been asked by males (sometimes clients even) how to get into male escorting, no-one has ever come back to tell me they (a) got anywhere with it, or (b) have given up their day job.

Last guy has had to revert to a job really unsuitable for him, and one before that well last time I looked he'd reduced his rates to offering freebies.

Regards Adultwork a rippling young man once asked me to take a look at his profile, largest startling thing about it was that his views were around 10% of those a straight female in his area would receive in the same timespan he'd been online (about 3 years I seem to recall), and in that time he'd gathered substantial feedback from ladies he'd been hiring - so I guessed many of those 10% views were females he himself had been hiring.

Your OP states you've been reading the site, I think you've missed a very important section!

Quote from: amy on 07 May 2012, 10:42:27 pm

And I think what Danae means is that working as a prostitute is probably far harder work than you thought, just in case you do decide to go the gay-for-pay route.

Basically yeah, too many people (not just male escorts), seem to think that escorting is a piece of piss and a license to print money. It?s definitely not the first and the latter can only be achieved by having brains and putting in a LOT of hard work. I didn?t mean to come across as harsh, I just find such naive views a bit insulting. Anyway best of luck x

I understand what you mean, I read about advertising websites looking money and that you shouldn't have to pay money. I put a few searches into the bogus ones.

Thanks for your fast replies it has been helpful.

Hi C4W,

I've merged your post with this thread because it sounds like you're a man trying to get into "straight male escorting".

If you read this thread from the beginning, you'll see that:

1) There is an absolutely minuscule market for straight male escorts. Most male escorts service men in order to make a living; very few women pay for sex (and most of those are hiring a female escort to please their male partner anyway) so if you want to make money, you will need to either service men or look into a different job.

2) There are a LOT of scam agencies that target naive sillies who think that they are Mr Studly and that hundreds of women would fling cash their way in exchange for exciting opportunity to fellate a strange man (something that millions of women around the world actually get paid to do).

3) These scam agencies will always tell you that they have at least one female client waiting for you as soon as you pay their fee. But when you pay their fee, they simply disappear. This is because there are NO lady clients - or, if there are, they aren't using shady scammy fake agency websites to find their gigolos. Perhaps consider setting yourself up independently if you want to try to attract one or two female clients per year. You'll have to invest more money into getting yourself a slick website, professional photos and loads of exposure marketing-wise than you'll actually earn from those lady clients, I'm afraid.

I actually read an article yesterday which highlights why women seeking casual sex are pretty much never paying for it, in quite a straight-forward way.

If you're determined to try to set yourself up as a straight male escort despite all the overwhelming evidence that shows it's a terrible idea, check out our main SAAFE site (http://www.saafe.info/) for all sorts of handy information. I'm afraid, however, that these forums are for sex workers who service a predominantly male clientele so you may only post in this thread.

I really don't know anything about agencies - esp for guys - but if you use the 'search' button up on the right corner you should find quite a few scam agencies.

And you are right.  Any agency that asks for money up front is a scammer.

Good Luck.