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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #255 on: 03 January 2012, 03:01:36 am »
I work fulltime so I've only been doing this for a few months in my spare time at weekends and the odd evening! Generally only about once a fortnight or sometimes a little more   , Only problem is that id like  to branch out a little bit and get someone to help manage things a little better! So far I've just been working through female "friends" that  i know who  "suggest" an escort to their friends and out of curiosity some of them have hired me! I only really started as abit of a joke and a laugh but I'm actually quite enjoying it! id like to do it a little more professionally though and I'm not really sure what way to go about it, making a website isn't an option as i cant advertise that way because of my normal job. so far its all been through word of mouth so to speak so any ideas on how to expand on this a little ??? 

PS I'm not wanting this to turn into a fulltime career and i don't need the money as i earn plenty its purely because I've enjoyed it so far and would like to do it a little more maybe a few times a week,
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« Reply #256 on: 03 January 2012, 03:11:35 am »
I have merged your thread here because it is the best place for it - I suggest you go back to the beginning and read it. I also suggest that if you are worried about your full time job, you remove the face picture from your profile since having it in a public forum for prostitutes is unlikely to be a particularly sensible idea.

In a nutshell, if you've had any bookings at all, the friend of a friend stuff is working and the novelty hasn't worn off yet I would say enjoy it while you can. The chance of ordinary civvy women who you don't already know paying you (or any other man) to have sex with them are infinitessimal already, and if you don't want to advertise then it's probably whatever around 1% of that is.

If you want to know why, again, read the thread since glancing at your IP activity indicates you have missed it. It's late, but a few pages ought to do in all honesty as it's pretty much the same thing over and over.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #257 on: 03 January 2012, 06:03:43 pm »
Hi, I would like to become a male escort does anyone know of any agencies. I am from Chelmsford but can travel.
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« Reply #258 on: 03 January 2012, 06:26:19 pm »
I have merged your post with this thread which was just a few topics down, Im afraid on reading this you will find there are no agencys that will offer you any work, but quite a few willing to take your money.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #259 on: 03 January 2012, 06:39:07 pm »
So how do I get into the industry

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« Reply #260 on: 03 January 2012, 06:43:20 pm »
Most working male escorts operate independently - try Gaydar. Have a read of the main SAAFE site too, since much of the advice is gender neutral.

If you don't want to do men, try the Jobcentre. Read the rest of this thread to find out why.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #261 on: 03 January 2012, 07:17:36 pm »
You straight male escort rookies might ask for advice one or several guys listed at Concierge du Monde.  This is the only straight male escort directory I came across. I really, really want to know exactly how busy they are. ;)

And yes, it is much better to invest in your website than spend money on scam agencies entrance fee.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #262 on: 03 January 2012, 08:47:13 pm »
@ Amy .
id read through a few of the threads posted on here before! probably could have worded my question a little better i guess! I'm not really looking for advice on how to advertise so much as advice on how to manage things a little better,  just because with me working fulltime its kind of hard for me to take calls or make arrangements,  sort of wondering how you can do this without someone else IE an agency doing it for you! Ive got enough interest to keep me busy about as much as id like just not sure how best to work things, for example is it easier through email or text or should i get someone to take calls through the day for me that sort of thing! just wondering what works best and easiest !!    oh and the pic was supposed to be a diff one but was late and loaded up the wrong one and went to sleep before id checked but thanks ..
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« Reply #263 on: 03 January 2012, 10:00:05 pm »
You're not going to get calls through the day, so there isn't much of a problem.

In practice, women booking male escorts have thought about this a lot and are not going 'Horny! I wanna an escort, here, now!' in the way that some men are (regardless of the gender of escort they're after). Email will be fine.
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« Reply #264 on: 03 January 2012, 10:04:34 pm »
oh and the pic was supposed to be a diff one but was late and loaded up the wrong one and went to sleep before id checked but thanks ..
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #265 on: 03 January 2012, 10:37:57 pm »
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PS I'm not wanting this to turn into a fulltime career and i don't need the money as i earn plenty its purely because I've enjoyed it so far and would like to do it a little more maybe a few times a week...

Ive got enough interest to keep me busy about as much as id like...

You don't need the money and you're busy enough?  ??? Well if that really IS the case mate, you're a helluva lot better off than some of the wg's on here. You outta be giving US advice! ;D


Tiny edit by Emily: Fixed quotes. PM me if there's anything missing here. :)
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« Reply #266 on: 04 January 2012, 12:48:45 am »
 @ xw5 lol i had thought of email but i hardly get the chance to look at my phone through the day let alone sort my emails! but i get your point about probably getting most of the bookings at night! thanks though! thinking what i might do is make a new email address and set it up so that it replies automatically with a email containing available times like if im only available sat and thurs evening for example then could say that and let them respond with when and where theyd like to meet.   Think that would work ???

@ Jodie im not too worried about people knowing as long as they cant get me into trouble at work! that would be a right pain in the ass lol

@ wiley ive never found money something thats hard to come by if your willing to put the time and effort into obtaining it! the main reason ive found people are broke jobless and generally complaining about not having enough is because they allways expect things to fall into their laps and never actually get up and put proper time and effort into looking for ways to make it! and in regards to being busy enough im not wanting to do it all the time just maybe twice a week or so and the way its worked out so far that hasnt been to hard! fair enough the social circle my female friends are involved in is probably a large factor in why ive got the interest i have but then like i said before i think a large part of peoples problems with never getting things accomplished is attitude and lazyness ,   sorry if that sounded abit like im ranting on because dont mean to lol
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #267 on: 04 January 2012, 01:11:00 am »
im not too worried about people knowing as long as they cant get me into trouble at work! that would be a right pain in the ass lol
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« Reply #268 on: 04 January 2012, 01:42:56 am »
 i changed it to one of the default ones when i realised! although being CIA would be pretty cool if i were American lmao
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« Reply #269 on: 04 January 2012, 02:03:02 am »
I'll keep it brief because the bloody internet in my hotel doesn't work and since I'm not in the UK this is costing me ?3 a minute.

Firstly one minor thing; Dave, there is a 'Quote' button at the top right of each post which you can use when replying to individual posts. This is not Twitter.

If you just want to shag some of your friends' mates and they're stupid enough to pay you I suggest you carry on as you are - it doesn't sound as if you have the time or the organisational skills to run a part time business, and whilst I wouldn't expect anybody to put in the hours I do if it was just a sideline, the fact remains that you are self employed and need to take responsibility for everything that entails.

Your posts don't suggest that you are interested in finding clients outside your usual 'circle' or comfort zone - how would you handle having to perform oral on a probably-slightly-pongy-and-boring lady in her seventies for an hour, for example? Don't forget you have to also look like you're loving every second and make her feel like the most gorgeous woman on earth, because that is your job. It sounds to me as if you just want to have your cake and eat it, and why not? It's unlikely to last, and I can only advise you enjoy it while you can.

In terms of your view on success, it doesn't sound like a rant, rather exactly the sort of na?ve and simplistic arrogance which we would expect from somebody your age. I was exactly like it when I was about 18, but fortunately I learned over the ensuing twenty years that the stories behind people's experiences, circumstances and attitudes are as diverse as they are. That isn't meant to sound patronising, just honest - whilst hard work generally does pay off and laziness rarely does, unfortunately sometimes and for some people, life's just a shithouse.

Well done on the avatar. You might want to improve your profile further by editing the font colour of your signature so that it matches the background, and then I won't have to go sleep with a picture of a roomful of David Brents at some Z-list motivational seminar burned into my consciousness.