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amy

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #240 on: 12 July 2011, 05:24:06 pm »
Every time we get another one of these jokers, I wonder if it's possible for them to be any more insufferable. And it is! :D

I'm bloody glad I slept through this, to be honest  ;D.

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« Reply #241 on: 10 August 2011, 11:20:54 am »
i'm a guy that's just been suckered by MEN AT WORK. It's crap, but i should've done my homework first, lesson learnt, but i really do want to do escorting. Does anyone know of any agencies that they can recommend which are real genuine agencies that aren't going to scam me that i can contact please?

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« Reply #242 on: 10 August 2011, 11:28:55 am »
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« Reply #243 on: 10 August 2011, 11:33:43 am »
i'm a guy that's just been suckered by MEN AT WORK. It's crap, but i should've done my homework first, lesson learnt, but i really do want to do escorting. Does anyone know of any agencies that they can recommend which are real genuine agencies that aren't going to scam me that i can contact please?

Hi Daniel,

I've merged your post with the most relevant thread on the topic. Straight male escorting is mostly a myth. You could get perhaps 1-5 bookings per year, but you'd need to spend more than you earned from that on marketing yourself in order to get the jobs in the first place.

Most "straight male escorts" are either scammers themselves (trying to persuade unfortunate souls to pay for his advice or to join his fake agency), or they have a regular day job and just hunt for women who pay for sex in their spare time, or they also suck plenty of willies for cash just like the vast majority of prostitutes do.

Read the entire of this thread for more information.
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« Reply #244 on: 28 October 2011, 12:12:00 am »
Sorry to dig up an old thread.

Is it true then that straight male escorts are not making money, and there is no real demand for them? I keep hearing word of mouth that there is a demand, and decided to try and take the plunge into this as I've thought about doing this for quite a while now. cam sites have hinded progress but just got into contact with some legit agencies so waiting to see how it goes from there. Could be word of mouth trying to get me to convert from being straight though...lol
----HI THERE DID YOU MANAGE TO FIND ANY NON CON MALE ESCORT WEBSITE . ICARNT SEEM TO FIND ANY THAT DONT WANT MONEY OFF ME IM NOT PAYING THEM A PENNY.

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« Reply #245 on: 28 October 2011, 12:21:23 am »
HI every 1 hope some can pont me in the right way . im wanting to become a male escort its something that i would be realy good at but every site i seem to go on wants money off me . if any 1 can help please do thanks all.

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« Reply #246 on: 28 October 2011, 12:23:58 am »
Checkinyou, please don't post in all caps - we don't need you shouting at us.

I have moved your post into this thread as it is more current than the ancient one you originally posted in. I could just as easily have put it in this one, and I suggest you read them both.

If you can't be bothered, the short answer is no he didn't, no you won't and no you shouldn't. Unless I've misunderstood and you're planning on doing men, in which case independence beckons and you should have a good read through the main site.


EDIT: Second post also moved. Please don't post in the Warnings section unless you are posting a warning.
« Last Edit: 28 October 2011, 12:40:01 am by amy »

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« Reply #247 on: 28 October 2011, 03:05:12 am »
I met with some sucessful male escorts last week, who confirmed that there is no business for straight guys.  There is a limited market for bi/gay male escorts, which is what they are.

I now have a couple of gay male escort buddys on www.escortbuddys.com.  Please contact me via there if you would find this useful.

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« Reply #248 on: 30 October 2011, 07:35:24 pm »
Gidday, I m thinking of becoming a male escort, but having done a bit of research there appears to be alot of scams out there!
Does anybody have any advice for me please.
I am Milton Keynes based.

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« Reply #249 on: 30 October 2011, 07:57:23 pm »
Elvis, have you read any of this thread at all, even the post directly above yours? There is more advice here than you can shake a stick at, after all. No pun intended.

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« Reply #250 on: 30 November 2011, 10:05:51 pm »
hi world,i believe i been scamed  from one agency for male escort i paid ?249 AMBER COMPANION and i borrow this amount so please somebody can help me how to get my money back or if somebody knows a genuine  agency please let me now MERRY CHRISTMAS

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« Reply #251 on: 30 November 2011, 10:18:50 pm »
Ah, someone beat me in finding this to merge your post into. As you can see, sadly you are not the first victim of the scammers and, no, there are no real agencies... unless you're willing to be sexual with men.
'The Ian formerly known as SW5'. What they said: "Indispensable", "You are our best resource", and (hours later!) "I'm afraid that you're being made redundant..."

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #252 on: 30 November 2011, 10:23:22 pm »
Ah, someone beat me in finding this to merge your post into. As you can see, sadly you are not the first victim of the scammers and, no, there are no real agencies... unless you're willing to be sexual with men.

It was meee :). But if you're not on a phone it'd be a lot easier for you to post the usual links to the scam agency thread/article/SW5 stuff...

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« Reply #253 on: 06 December 2011, 10:22:26 pm »
Oh dear!  The eternal optimism of man never ceases to totally gobsmack and amaze me!
Who exactly (apart from the scammers) is perpetuating this ridiculous myth that there's a market for straight male escorts?

Has anyone noticed, that all the way through this thread, the gents concerned extol their fantastical attributes by way of justifying their suitability for this rarified role?

When have you seen ANY girl, who's asking for similar start-up advice, justify herself like this?

It reminds me of the Field Reports on AW, and the way guys claim us girls have had the time of our lives , and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves, while they variously mauled, sucked, poked, f****d and  generally "pleasured" us.  I think NOT!!!

I'm left thinking that the average guy, like most of my clients, is seriously delusional.

It's obviously a gender thing.

Oh well, who are we to burst their bubbles?

On a positive note,  in many cases, it's that very arrogance and desperation that supplies the demand for what we offer isn't it?  Long may they continue to seek the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow I say!  ;D

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #254 on: 06 December 2011, 10:37:30 pm »
Oh dear!  The eternal optimism of man never ceases to totally gobsmack and amaze me!
Who exactly (apart from the scammers) is perpetuating this ridiculous myth that there's a market for straight male escorts?

Apart from the scammers, we have the media. Step forward GQ, various crap soap operas, the gutter press et al.

Has anyone noticed, that all the way through this thread, the gents concerned extol their fantastical attributes by way of justifying their suitability for this rarified role?

Not all of them do. Some of them are broke, none too bright and so desperate for money that they fall for the (apparently) extremely well polished sales pitch. The scammers are used to preying on the vulnerable as well as the vain and deluded.

It reminds me of the Field Reports on AW, and the way guys claim us girls have had the time of our lives , and thoroughly enjoyed ourselves, while they variously mauled, sucked, poked, f****d and  generally "pleasured" us.  I think NOT!!!

Well I've had three great bookings today, although I'm completely knackered now. Some FRs are chest-thumping bollocks and some aren't, but if these men believed that the lady they were with had that much of a great time, then she's obviously very good at her job. And provided the paying customer thought it was great, who cares?

I'm left thinking that the average guy, like most of my clients, is seriously delusional.

It sounds very much to me like you need some nicer clients, Cate. This  post smacks of impending burnout and I would seriously think about scaling down a bit if this is how you're feeling about your work and men generally - a bitter old whore isn't a pleasant thing to be.

Oh well, who are we to burst their bubbles?

Well we at SAAFE are a support and advice resource for those who want (or think they can) start a career in the sex industry. 'Bursting their bubbles' keeps money out of the scammers' pockets as well as saving time and false hope for the others.

On a positive note,  in many cases, it's that very arrogance and desperation that supplies the demand for what we offer isn't it?  Long may they continue to seek the pot of gold at the end of the rainbow I say!  ;D

I have to say it, that's possibly the least positive-sounding 'positive note' I've ever read. I'm sorry Cate, but if you've signed up here because you think we'll all be dying to join in a load of mocking, misandry and manhating, I suspect you're going to be sorely disappointed.