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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #165 on: 19 December 2010, 08:26:29 pm »
For a laugh, (although it is supposed to be a serious forum), try www.maleescort.com

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #166 on: 19 December 2010, 08:42:19 pm »
For a laugh, (although it is supposed to be a serious forum), try www.maleescort.com
It was a laugh when i looked at it a few weeks ago.

A  bigger laugh is:
This domain has recently been listed in the marketplace at domainnamesales.com. Click here to inquire or call 1-800-385-8489.
I guess their business model didn't work out then! 
{Ian XW5 was right after all  :)}

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #167 on: 17 January 2011, 07:58:26 pm »
Okay, so this is totally the wrong place to be posting this, so please be gentle towards me!!

I'm a handsome guy who has had enough of relationships for the moment and wasting my charm.
 
I'm having my time out now and i want to spend that being a very professional male escort.
I'm one of the most genuine guys you'll meet and a great companion.

Any advice from all you ladies on how to get started would be very much appreciated

regards
Sam
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #168 on: 17 January 2011, 08:19:37 pm »
If you are straight and looking to escort women, you are wasting your time - the market is so small as to be non-existent, no matter what the scammers may have told you. There is more information here: http://www.sw5.info/straightmen.htm. Women don't pay men to spend time with them whether it's for sex or not; think about it logically - why on earth would we, when we can get a shag for little more than the cost of a good bra and ten minutes spent laughing at your jokes? Honestly, it's a no-brainer, if you need further evidence there is a gigantic thread on here all about it called 'Straight Male Escorts - the Scammers Favourite Myth' - use the Search box (or if anybody who isn't on a BlackBerry would be good enough to post the link).

If you are gay or bi then I'm no expert, but I think gay male escorts tend to work more often as independents rather than for agencies - I'm sure someone who knows more about it than me will be along at some point! The advice on the main SAAFE site is pretty much gender-neutral too.


EDIT: Found a way http://www.saafe.info/main/index.php?topic=2214.0. You don't have to read all of it or even any particular page, since it's all the same.
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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #169 on: 17 January 2011, 08:28:20 pm »
Okay, so this is totally the wrong place to be posting this, so please be gentle towards me!!

I'm a handsome guy who has had enough of relationships for the moment and wasting my charm.
 
I'm having my time out now and i want to spend that being a very professional male escort.
I'm one of the most genuine guys you'll meet and a great companion.

Any advice from all you ladies on how to get started would be very much appreciated

regards
Sam
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Sam

I usually try to give people the benefit of the doubt, but your post just looks like a joke. Sorry however I do know that there are numerous guys out there who still believe the myth about straight male escorts.

Please be assured there really isn't the market out there. If you are happy to perhaps have 2 or 3 bookings per year you might want to go to the expense and time of creating profiles, perhaps update us on how you get along?

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #170 on: 17 January 2011, 08:32:38 pm »
I was trying to be nice, but yes, I find it very hard to believe that any self-respecting gay man could have written such an incredibly cheesy post. Plus my post was a cut and paste of one I've used oh, several times before (just in case anybody had noticed), so I didn't see the harm of leaving that bit :).

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« Reply #171 on: 22 January 2011, 11:20:44 pm »
 ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) :-[ :-[ :-X :-\ :-\ :'( :'(

So all this daydreaming about making some easy but much-needed money was a waste of time?? I've learned tonight on this site that it's only available for gay guys and obviously girls.  Women don't need to pay for a date or a fuck do they no matter how rich they are or how sexy I am.   

Do u mind clearing these up?

NO legit agencies?

...or at least and cheap ones, with actual prospects and not just invented ones?

does male escorting still exist? is there money in ie/enough work that pays well?

Feeling depressed already :(


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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #172 on: 22 January 2011, 11:37:08 pm »
??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ::) ::) ::) ::) ::) :-[ :-[ :-X :-\ :-\ :'( :'(

So all this daydreaming about making some easy but much-needed money was a waste of time?? I've learned tonight on this site that it's only available for gay guys and obviously girls.  Women don't need to pay for a date or a fuck do they no matter how rich they are or how sexy I am.

Leaving aside that your idea of what constitutes 'sexy' is almost certainly entirely different to that of most adult women (even if it might get you a free shag reasonably easily) your conclusions are entirely correct. The chances of any woman paying you to have sex with her is infinitessimal.

Do u mind clearing these up?

NO legit agencies?

None whatsoever.

...or at least and cheap ones, with actual prospects and not just invented ones?

See above. And 'cheap' or 'not cheap' is irrelevent - anywhere which expects you to hand over money before you have done and been paid for any work is a scam. The ones that want smaller amounts more regularly just tend to get away with it for longer.

does male escorting still exist? is there money in ie/enough work that pays well?

Yes and no. Male escorting is alive and kicking if you are gay or bi (provided you realise that your clients will almost exclusively be men - you might get one woman a year if you're lucky but you'll have to drop the text speak - I cringed as soon as I saw your post and most intelligent women would do likewise). There is no 'still'; straight male escorting has never existed in any significant way and it is singularly unlikely it ever will.

Please read the rest of this thread (it's all the same thing over and over again, so it doesn't really matter where you start and finish) and don't give anybody any money. In a nutshell, yes you can make money as a sex worker, but your clients will be men. So it really depends on how much you want to make money.
« Last Edit: 23 January 2011, 12:07:21 am by amy »

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #173 on: 23 January 2011, 11:06:23 am »
So all this daydreaming about making some easy but much-needed money was a waste of time??

Well there's your problem right there.

There is 1 or 2 male escorts on AW who actuall appear to get work and thats out of the thousands of guys who set up profiles stick a picture of there hairy penis on and sit back and wait for the flood of ladies that will never come.

Im afraid escorting is not easy, it is a job and requires hard work.

Alot of men will be disappointed even if they ever did get booking! Especially when all I would want is a massage and someone to make me a cup of tea! lol  ;D

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #174 on: 23 January 2011, 12:16:10 pm »
Then on the other end of the scale if you had a woman like me book you LOL.. you'd f**k for those bucks.  Believe me, as I know I can get it for free you'd be well and truly put through your paces.. haha.

On AW escort-007 is the only straight male I've seen on the site with consistent escort bookings from women.  The others have a mixture of feedback, mainly booking women with a tiny amount booking them.

You're probably better off doing webcam.
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« Reply #175 on: 23 January 2011, 12:17:24 pm »
If you would like to go away, spend time promoting yourself on AW as well setting up an independent site that hits the front page of google. Then come back to us with the results and we'd be more than happy to hear from you. So far no-one has come back proving us wrong.

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« Reply #176 on: 23 January 2011, 12:58:16 pm »
I've just come across a site that doesn't appear to be making a huge upfront killing for straight males, they do however charge a monthly fee. They do have numerous males advertising on there so I guess are making a lot of money as an advertising site - trading on the hope they will get a booking eventually. I suppose that's fair enough.

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« Reply #177 on: 23 January 2011, 06:36:23 pm »
Non-scam ad sites certainly exist. But I strongly suspect none of them are going to be worth it for any man who won't have male clients.

If you are, there's one obvious one (even if they're just as bad as AW in terms of only being interested in the money) and several not so obvious ones. I see one of the longest lasting of the latter has clearly been naughty with its SEO again - I can only find it on Google if I use its name.
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« Reply #178 on: 23 January 2011, 08:50:24 pm »
With the amount of guys asking this question, as well as the amount on AW I think I could make a few ???s from setting up my own advertising site for this sort of thing. I mean how difficult can it be?I'm sure a lot of men would pay ?10 or ?20 regularly on the hope of just one booking. One guy from AW contacted me saying he'd not had a single booking in all his time on AW. When I looked he'd advertised for twice as long as I have and had only had 10% of the views. He was quite 'fit' in the mainstream sense, youngish, defined body yet in over 5 years hadn't had a single booking. He was asking if there was something wrong with his advert, could he improve his photos in any way?

His profile was absolutely fine, photos showed me what I'd want to see if I was looking for a man. With thousands of males trying to do this on AW, the  number of enquiries we have here and the number of guys who've asked me either by email, phone or in person(one or two clients) I think I could make a tidy profit here!

Only joking, but it's true.

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Re: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth
« Reply #179 on: 23 January 2011, 09:51:19 pm »
I think I could make a few ???s from setting up my own advertising site for this sort of thing. I mean how difficult can it be?

That thought had crossed my mind too, but I decided it wasn't worth it.

In order to get an ad site noticed by the wannabes, you'd need to do a lot of work and the scams can always outspend you because they have the steady stream of suckers victims begging to give them their money.

Doing it half way ethically, by being upfront about the way they will probably never get work this way, wouldn't help either.

Plus why compete with AW? It's findable, free, and f***ing pointless to use if you want to do straight male escorting, but it's there and means they have to deal with the wannabes.