Author Topic: Straight male escorts - the scammer's favourite myth (Read 182801 times)

pandora · « **Reply #105 on:** 01 July 2010, 11:20:57 am »

I had the BEST one yesterday.

Apparently I had a runner/look-see a couple of years ago. He has now emailed me to say how sorry he is and wants to apologise. Now has his life sorted, and guess what, is now a male escort - LOL. Would like to meet up as "it has been a hard couple of years and needs a cuddle".

As I was bored I played along and asked him about his business and how he gets it. Get ready to ROFL.

"I don't have a website, I do it by word of mouth, as I started by talking to the concierges of the top West End hotels and it grew from there".

"They [concierges] just know to call me if guest is interested in hiring a male escort for the evening". Just imagine it, you ring from your room and say I would like some "ROOM SERVICE" nudge nudge, wink wink.

"I charge ?150 an hour and get about 4 jobs a week. The average age of woman is 38-45"

Ladies I suggest we have all been missing a trick. Far from worrying about access to hotels undetected, we should just walk up to the reception and ask the concierge if they have any lonely punters registered. Ha Ha Ha Ha ha.

He says he wants me to end sexy pics and to meet him on Friday but - its a bargain - he won't charge me. I can hardly wait. Anyone want to see the message and his pic please PM - ha ha. Or maybe you want me to arrange room service.

amy · « **Reply #106 on:** 01 July 2010, 12:03:37 pm »

Quote from: Enrique Suarez on 01 July 2010, 11:05:12 am

Lastly I would like to apologise if I have said anything to offend anyone, but do feel free to comment.

Enrique, the members here do not need your permission to comment; you have invited them to do so by posting in the first place. But as you have completely ignored all of the valuable information in this thread (which answers every single one of your points many times over and in different ways), why should they waste their time when it has all been covered already?

Do you know how many times we've heard from men who are convinced that they're going to be the exception to the rule? Doesn't it tell you anything that there's five pages of thread about it? Please read the thread again properly - everything you have asked about is right there in front of you.

EmilyJones · « **Reply #107 on:** 01 July 2010, 12:18:11 pm »

Quote from: Enrique Suarez on 01 July 2010, 11:05:12 am

[...] and that like men no women would admit paying for the services of a male companion [...]

Er, men who use (male & female) escorts admit it all over the place - pop 'Punter' into Google. Some of my clients have told me that they are even semi-open with their close friends about it. Sex for money is being talked about constantly in the media and probably around dinner tables nationwide these days. You don't have zero clients because it's all too "hush hush", cos that is simply not the case. I've heard plenty of women ponder the idea of paying for sex but honestly, better can usually be found for free and you don't even have to look at any 'dramatic silhouette' dick pics.

You've come here to ask for our advice because you're probably sick of being told "Oh, I can make you a superrr succSEXful male excort, lulz, just put ?299 into my paypal account and i'll tell you how" and now want to hear from people who are not scammers. Now that people who are not scammers - just us honest working boys and girls - are not telling you what you want to hear either, you are possibly at a loss for where to turn next. I have no idea, but I'm afraid that if you keep asking here, we're just going to keep telling you that we think you're silly.

Enrique Suarez · « **Reply #108 on:** 01 July 2010, 12:52:36 pm »

Amy, firstly I wasn't giving permission, my statement was clearly a form of politeness

again apologies to anyone offended.

Secondly, I have read through the threads and I understand what most of them are saying (that women don't not pay for companionship) however everyone is entitled to their own opinion to judge the matter. At the end of the day there is no harm in being confident and trying it out isn't there??

Emily okay I might have gone over board with my assumptions and you are right better can be found for free but not everyone may share the same views as you and everyone else in this forum. And yes I was seeking advice and no I am not sick and tired of being told "Oh, I can make you a superrr succSEXful male excort, lulz, just put ?299 into my paypal account and i'll tell you how", I unlike most gullible individuals have more sense than that. And you are probably right I am silly in fact probably stupid if I carry on asking here.

cindy · « **Reply #109 on:** 01 July 2010, 04:26:35 pm »

Well we have done all we can to try to make you see the light. Off you toddle on your "career."
Do let us know if you have earnt ?10 by this time next year. I for one would be gobsmacked!
Im not trying to be rude by the way, was simply trying to prevent you from making an arse of yourself.
I have "male escorts" book and pay me! Not to mention the constant queue of them wanting to "team up" to do double bookings. Are you with a straight face saying that ANY staight male escort if asked for a freebie would say no?!
I think you are having a laugh.

Amanda · « **Reply #110 on:** 01 July 2010, 04:38:23 pm »

Quote from: Enrique Suarez on 01 July 2010, 11:05:12 am

Hey Guys,

Thank you Cindy and Emily for your comments. Firstly I would like to point out that I do have a job and only considering escorting as an extra bit of pocket money on the side (compared to some of the other posts I have seen).

After viewing the threads I do understand that there are a lot of of men which including myself assume that women would pay the services for a companion. But who can blame our simple-minded assumption when they are so called agencies around claiming to be a legitimate business stating the opposite, and viewing testimonials from other independent male companions who are promoting themselves solely.

Out of the thousands of websites claiming to be agencies I am sure there is probably at least one legitimate agency, and out of the thousands of male companions profile, there has to be at least 2 or 3 successful ones. Thousands of men if not more deny paying for the services of a female companion in fear of what people may think. I do however feel that some women (correct me if I am wrong) would feel the same as it is viewed as inappropriate behaviour (which I don't think it is).

Cindy I am aware that there are's various ways a women can make herself feel appreciated, such as handbags, shoes and therapeutic goodies but isn't that more of an everyday or weekend hobby/therapy...??

Anyway the point I am trying to come across is that although its a niche market for women, I feel that there is a gap in the market for males to promote themselves independently but would probably be approached in a discreet
manner, and that like men no women would admit paying for the services of a male companion and therefore being branded as an unsuccessful and non lucrative market to venture in.

Lastly I would like to apologise if I have said anything to offend anyone, but do feel free to comment.

x

I get the feeling you want advice as long as it confirms your beliefs.

Enjoy fiddling with your website, I fully expect it to be the only fiddling you do in this venture. That's not rude or harsh, it's realistic.

Richard · « **Reply #111 on:** 01 July 2010, 05:01:21 pm »

Quote from: Enrique Suarez on 01 July 2010, 12:16:59 am

I therefore have set up a web address advertising my services this afternoon. So far I only had one call which was just an inquiry (no booking). I would appreciate some feedback on my website and the best way to promote my site...

Well, you are already doing better than most men who want to be a SME. That inquiry may be the high point of your career though.

OK, the main picture is the wrong aspect ratio unless you want to look squashed. I think one of the others is too. There are a couple of places where the layout of the text isn't quite right or there are grammar mistakes. TEXT ALL IN CAPITALS IS DIFFICULT TO READ. Picky, yes, but this is the toughest job application you will ever do. There are not many vacancies and tens of thousands of men wanting to do it.

You're being a bit picky about age, why?

Quote from: pandora on 01 July 2010, 11:20:57 am

"I don't have a website, I do it by word of mouth, as I started by talking to the concierges of the top West End hotels and it grew from there".ha.

They need to pay kickbacks, but I do know someone who this does work for, albeit not four times a week.

Enrique Suarez · « **Reply #112 on:** 01 July 2010, 05:16:50 pm »

Quote from: cindy on 01 July 2010, 04:26:35 pm

Are you with a straight face saying that ANY staight male escort if asked for a freebie would say no?!
I think you are having a laugh.

I am not sure about that, haven't asked any yet, but will let you know once I do,

Quote from: Amanda

link=topic=2214.msg28047#msg28047 date=1277998703

[quote author=Enrique Suarez link=topic=2214.msg28016#msg28016 date=1277978712
I get the feeling you want advice as long as it confirms your beliefs.

Enjoy fiddling with your website, I fully expect it to be the only fiddling you do in this venture. That's not rude or harsh, it's realistic.

Ok

amy · « **Reply #113 on:** 01 July 2010, 05:17:33 pm »

Quote from: Richard on 01 July 2010, 05:01:21 pm

Quote from: Enrique Suarez on 01 July 2010, 12:16:59 am
I therefore have set up a web address advertising my services this afternoon. So far I only had one call which was just an inquiry (no booking). I would appreciate some feedback on my website and the best way to promote my site...

Well, you are already doing better than most men who want to be a SME. That inquiry may be the high point of your career though.

OK, the main picture is the wrong aspect ratio unless you want to look squashed. I think one of the others is too. There are a couple of places where the layout of the text isn't quite right or there are grammar mistakes. TEXT ALL IN CAPITALS IS DIFFICULT TO READ. Picky, yes, but this is the toughest job application you will ever do. There are not many vacancies and tens of thousands of men wanting to do it.

You're being a bit picky about age, why?

I'd be interested to know how the 'inquiry' found him at all, given that I have just typed 'Enrique Suarez Male Escort London' into Google and went through the first ten pages without his site coming up. Most people will get bored long before that.

Enrique, you have made it abundantly clear that you are only interested in the answers which tell you what you want to hear, but everything Richard says is spot on, and I would also add that the diagonal lines on the background are painful to look at after about 3 seconds. Plus virtually every single amateur-looking photograph seems to have you sitting in the pub - hardly creating a good impression (there is the one where you look like Jimmy Carr's Mexican cousin, mind).

Enrique Suarez · « **Reply #114 on:** 01 July 2010, 05:27:37 pm »

hahaha thanks amy, that is the sort of feedback i was looking for.

Cheers

EmilyJones · « **Reply #115 on:** 01 July 2010, 06:12:45 pm »

Quote from: Enrique Suarez on 01 July 2010, 05:27:37 pm

hahaha thanks amy, that is the sort of feedback i was looking for.

Cheers

Really? You needed someone to tell you to do SEO on your site?

Okay, now it's time for today's headdesk!

Enrique Suarez · « **Reply #116 on:** 01 July 2010, 06:15:34 pm »

Quote from: EmilyJones on 01 July 2010, 06:12:45 pm

Quote from: Enrique Suarez on 01 July 2010, 05:27:37 pm
hahaha thanks amy, that is the sort of feedback i was looking for.

Cheers

Really? You needed someone to tell you to do SEO on your site?

Okay, now it's time for today's headdesk!

haha knock yourself out

xw5 · « **Reply #117 on:** 01 July 2010, 06:53:50 pm »

Come on, he started the site yesterday and you want him on the front page of Google already?

Mind you, if you need to know someone's name before finding them, you're not going to be found very often without a serious ad spend or marketing effort elsewhere (see one of the failed attempts to have an agency).

amy · « **Reply #118 on:** 01 July 2010, 07:01:45 pm »

Quote from: xw5 on 01 July 2010, 06:53:50 pm

Mind you, if you need to know someone's name before finding them, you're not going to be found very often without a serious ad spend or marketing effort elsewhere (see one of the failed attempts to have an agency).

That was really what I meant - given that I typed in his full name, his advertised occupation and his location and there was no sign of him in ten pages of Google results (and I have a feeling I could have gone another ten without seeing it if I could be bothered), I doubt many are going to happen across the site by accident, although I'm sure stranger things have happened.

UrbaneAspects · « **Reply #119 on:** 02 July 2010, 08:08:25 am »

Some of the replies here have been a bit harsh. Give Enrique a break...

Women may not pay for sex, but I have witness many attractive, young women to give up their livelihoods for a man (which equates to a silly girl with low self-esteem). I have also seen women indirectly pay for sex: taking care of a man because "the dick is good"

But what Enrique needs is a good, strong woman by his side. Not a punteress to shell out money.

Also...you guys can blame the hit HBO show HUNG for the increase in straight male escorts. I never watched the show, but I seen previews where the man sits in a hotel bed, while having 9 or 10 women in and out dropping their panties and cash and then walking out.

See also the main SAAFE.info site for more Support And Advice For Escorts

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