(Sorry Cat - I definitely don't mean any of this as an attack on you or your post! If I sound sarcastic, it's only towards what I think are restrictive gender/sexuality stereotypes, and I'm only writing out my point of view in a general way/in order to support Mr Average's idea because his view resonates with me. I know you said you were only talking from your friends' reported experiences, and he and I are just doing the same based on our personal experience. )

I can only speak for myself, obviously, but whilst I'm certainly not some weird, up-for-it -all-the-time raving nympho (and my ads have never claimed I am), I advertise as heterosexual and catering  to male clients accordingly. I would no more be able to see (and offer a proper service to) people that went against the grain of my orientation than I would jump off a cliff, no matter how much money they were offering me; the thought of rolling about with a woman I don't know and don't fancy make me feel quite ill. Not 'craving the services' we do is hardly the same thing as advertising a bi/homosexual experience when you're not bi or homosexual.

all is well in good if your high bidder isn't a rampaging man stallion, but what if he is? Are you prepared for it to hurt?

Quote from: Cat_BBW on 20 July 2011, 04:08:49 pm

Whilst I consider sexuality to be fluid (moreso in some people than others) and see things from a "prefers-relationships-with-men-but-still-enjoys-a-lesbo-fling" stance (just easier to say "bisexual"!!), I can't see how a straight guy can be happy to have an experience with another man...such an experience that is likely to include kissing, wanking, sucking EACH OTHER (unless the client is happy to pay ?100's or even ?1000's for JUST anal sex - which if so, could go on for much longer than Mr Average is expecting or wanting! (we've all been there!!))....

Well, I see this topic as being about a person who is prepared to go gay-for-pay, rather than a real sexuality thing. Don't straight guys sometimes do gay porn for cash, despite definitely only wanting sex with women in their 'real' lives? It doesn't turn them gay, or make them want to kill themselves for having snogged a man despite being straight! Anyway, I'm not surprised the OP is considering a similar thing if he really, really wants some cash ASAP, especially considering all the misconceptions out there about the sex industry (that you can make ten grand in a week without literally working your fanny/bum off, etc!).

I'll admit it: I'd shag a lady for a grand if for some reason I needed to, but I'd rather not, since I'm completely straight and would rather just not put myself in that situation at all. And when I say "for a grand", it'd have to be a nice lady and I'd have to be quite desperate. But if I was desperate enough, I'd do it no matter what - that's a bit of a sad fact of life, really - this job isn't always about ecstatically happy people doing paid sex stuff that they'd probably do for free anyway. And I think that's more like what the OP was talking about - what he'd be prepared to do for enough cash, not what he is having secret fantasies about.

At the end of the day I agree with Amy, too, though - very often, prostitution is not the answer, especially not when the going rate for something you don't personally enjoy doing might be surprisingly low cos lots of other people do enjoy it!

At least the OP hasn't had the amazingly, fabulously original idea of marketing his amazing self to all those poor hot women out there who simply can't get enough for free, eh?

and he thought he'd come up with the most excellent idea of how to get some sex and pay his debts: to get "sexy young women" (his words!) to pay for his 'services'.

I realise it was a pretty facile thing to say, but responses like this are not acceptable - either keep it civil or don't post. Any more childish petulance and we'll decide that for you.