There will be some interest in this, especially if you can do any one of a series of particular 'looks' (find some of the gay media and look at the photo shoots for ideas - muscle, suit, scally, sports and etc etc).

Try not to read any of the articles though: you may be expected not to know what various words mean as proof you are really straight!

As your research may have already shown, men get paid less than men in this field. You can forget the stories of women charging thousands unless you are Brad Pitt...

I shouldn't have to say this, but anyone who wants to do this without a condom can be crossed of the list.

I would need to know more about you, really. There is one big site, but they only like escorts who pay them so much per month, and there are probably better places - their fees would take a big chunk out of how much you could expect to get. Can you make this a news item in the gay media?

The other thoughts were that there's a 'straight men wanking' porn niche market and if you are ok with potentially everyone you know seeing it, they also do 'first time' porn. But it's a lot harder to go 'ouch, stop' in that context, so if your bum has been completely 'exit only', it's probably not a good idea.

Thanks to both of you. The blog/news item one is good, but I want to protect my identity, so may not be a good idea, similar porn. Shouldn't be an issue with the client, but I don't want it being a big thing on the internet and some clever internet dudes finding out who I am or whatever.

Why are you doing this?

It's just about the money. I'm not bisexual or looking to get into it. I was thinking of a one time deal. If it would only be about ?200 then not really worth it.

I might look into the blog idea, but have to see what's involved.

Cheers.

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Why are you doing this?

It's just about the money. I'm not bisexual or looking to get into it. I was thinking of a one time deal. If it would only be about ?200 then not really worth it.

Sure you're not bisexual? Or is it a fantasy you have (nothing wrong with that) of being somehow violated by another man? Could a woman satisfy your anal play desires**?

Because, with all due respect, even the most feminine guys/most accepting of their female side guys/willing to explore their sexuality STRAIGHT guys that I know wouldn't dream of receiving bum sex from another man. (Although I do know one guy who is voraciously (500+ women!!) straight, who had an "arrangement" with a gay man, but even he was the giver and not receiver...)

(This is only in my own experience and people *I* know.)

**you wouldn't get paid for this though  

I don't understand the whole thing about taking it up the arse being the worst thing that can happen. For me (no disrespect intended) fucking a guy, oral etc are worse but I suppose everyone's different.

Yeah, I can completely see your point - as far as I know, most straight guys do need to participate in a lot of anti-gay talk (including "oh it's fine for the gays! Yeah, if I were gay, I would totally bum him. Gays are great! But I'm definitely NOT gay, oh no, I'm ALL about boobs! BOOBS, I say! BOOOOBS!!") for the purposes of establishing themselves within same-sex friendship/social groups; they will also usually talk this way around a straight woman if she inquires about his sexuality.

And I think it's often awkward for anyone to talk about intimate details of their most private sexual thoughts and fantasies in a general friendship group so it makes perfect sense in a way and is very common. I do not talk about whether or not I'd do gay-for-pay with the majority of people I know, even if we're having quite a sexually-open conversation already - possibly because I wouldn't want to have an argument about whether or not I'm secretly gay when I'm pretty sure I do know my own sexual orientation!

So talk is talk. I don't think there's a rule out there about not being allowed to contemplate selling your anal virginity as a straight guy - I don't think you necessarily have to therefore have secret gay/bi fantasies at all. This whole situation is probably vaguely similar to me being totally prepared to have full-on lesbian sex if someone seriously offered to pay me ?1000 for a half hour, but for less than that, nope, I am too straight to have any personal interest in it and so just would rather not bother.

(Oh but wait - aren't all women supposed to be secretly bisexual? I'm pretty sure that's in the "Rulez Of Sex" book, as written by Cosmo/Men's Health, too, but I guess I haven't read my copy yet. )

(Sorry Cat - I definitely don't mean any of this as an attack on you or your post! If I sound sarcastic, it's only towards what I think are restrictive gender/sexuality stereotypes, and I'm only writing out my point of view in a general way/in order to support Mr Average's idea because his view resonates with me. I know you said you were only talking from your friends' reported experiences, and he and I are just doing the same based on our personal experience. )

amy, you're right it wouldn't be worth it for a couple of hundred and I couldn't contemplate becoming a full time gay escort when I'm straight. I don't really see the harm in it for one session though. I know enough about how to deal with shit that it won't leave any lasting problems.

I'm looking into it because some people suggested that I could make a decent amount as it was a gay fantasy. Maybe they were full of shit, I dunno. If I could get some decent cash within the month then it would be an answer to be honest, but either there's a market for it or not.