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victoryrose

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Re: Telling Sixth Form that I'm an Escort!?
« Reply #15 on: 14 September 2015, 08:47:55 pm »
Happy Hooker, Did you miss my post or something? I turned 18, virtually the exact same situation, and the sixth form KICKED ME OUT. They can absolutely legally do this under the fact that they are responsible for children. There is no benefit to telling. Different story for uni though provided you're not on an NHS funded course.

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« Reply #16 on: 14 September 2015, 09:41:29 pm »
I don't think there is any benefit to telling any educational establishments you're an escort to be honest.  You are leaving a paper trail that could come back and bite you at any time for one thing, but they don't need to know anyway - it's none of their business.  They just need a job title for their forms.  Say massage/beauty therapist/whatever you put on your tax return/self employed anything.

They are just ticking boxes, saying you are an escort isn't going to do you any good and may well come back and bite you down the line.

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« Reply #17 on: 15 September 2015, 11:01:54 am »
At uni, telling people I'm a sex worker has given me the benefit of some of the best friends and acceptance and total lack of isolation (as opposed to some workers on this forum) and I would absolutely recommend it to those comfortable, though of course only to those who don't mind if their parents find out or something (mine knows) so still a minority. This year I will be announcing in front of uni officials that I am a prostitute in order to attempt to pass a motion that will stop the uni from being able to reprimand us for doing out jobs. If it passes, next year I intend to take it to a national level. I've whole heartedly decided I don't give a shit, but then in my job it is not going to matter as much because I'll be a sex researcher. So.. case by case basis, but never ever at an establishment which predominantly children attend. And re: uni - NOT if you are on an NHS funded course because their rules about sex work and disrepute are much clearer and harder to argue against.

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Re: Telling Sixth Form that I'm an Escort!?
« Reply #18 on: 15 September 2015, 11:10:50 am »
I've been ok disclosing to a uni, however it would have been worse to have concealed it and as I've posted previously it does show up as my occupation on a background check - which is a requirement of the course.

I'm about to start a course at a smaller college in a different subject, and will almost definitely not be disclosing, although I have disclosed on two other courses at the same establishment - both times it was appropriate the right thing to do, and the college do have students under the age of 16, but they aren't on any of my courses and I'm hardly causing a riot. This time however it will be none of their business.
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Curvygal

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Re: Telling Sixth Form that I'm an Escort!?
« Reply #19 on: 15 September 2015, 12:32:17 pm »
College and university is a different thing...you're a bit older for a start with no parental involvement.  I still wouldn't do it but each to their own.

But OP is just 18 and it's her sixth form college.

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Re: Telling Sixth Form that I'm an Escort!?
« Reply #20 on: 15 September 2015, 01:40:36 pm »
College and university is a different thing...you're a bit older for a start with no parental involvement.  I still wouldn't do it but each to their own.

But OP is just 18 and it's her sixth form college.

I was 18 when I came out, the sixth form kicking me out and then me starting uni all happened in the space of the same month a year ago. Typically, first years at uni are only 18. I wouldn't generalise, the issue here isn't her age but the age of her peers.

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« Reply #21 on: 24 September 2015, 08:37:40 pm »
DON'T DO IT-for sooo many reasons but one is that you get some really nosy teachers and if you have younger siblings they might call social services thinking something went wrong at home for you to be doing this and so your siblings might be at risk of harm too.It could even affect what grades you get even though it is completely wrong I know a boy whose grades from a certain teacher (in secondary school) got worse after said teacher found out he had a criminal record so just be super careful.
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