Welcome! It's ok to be nervous and fine to cancel bookings if you are not comfortable. If it helps, remember that you're the one in charge.

An erotic massage is one where you're typically in underwear, topless or naked and includes playing with his penis and other erogenous zones and/or rubbing against him.

A search here will come up with various people's recipes for a booking, but most have some flexibility in everything except getting the money first. You do need to keep track of the time, or you can end up fifty nine minutes into an hour's booking and you're not close to ending it.

I offer a drink first and if they decline it is obvious that they want to go straight to the action.  If they have a drink, watch the speed they are drinking, and so that you do not look like you are stringing the chat out I usually ask after 5mins or so if they wish to take the drink upstairs. Then go with the flow.

I do the same, except after 5 mins of chat and drinking a glass of water (apparently dehydration can make bad breath worse! So my clients all get given a nice little drinky of H2O ) I get up and tell them that I'm just popping into the bathroom to get the shower running for them (cos they don't get a choice about showering, either! Unless I know for sure they've just come from home or a hotel in a taxi) and that they can get the 'financial bit' sorted at the same time. Then I show them into the bedroom to get changed and give them a towel, tell them there's showergel and mouthwash for them to help themselves to (do mention the mouthwash as it drastically improves the odds that they'll actually use it), and leave them for a few minutes to wash themselves while I count and put away the money, (and check it with a fake-note-checker pen).

The actual bedroom stuff is way simpler than all this! Usually starts with kissing, slow mutual undressing, move onto the bed, touching/stroking and more kissing, then things always go naturally towards oral and full sex. If it's a longer booking or the client wants to be quicker so he can go more than once in an hour, then I'll offer a massage between rounds (after a few minutes cuddle, relax & chat) which makes it easy to subsequently initiate round 2.

Pandora's idea to check out some reviews on punter sites is a good one - it's sometimes amazing what happens in the negative reviews (girls scowling and glaring and refusing to talk to clients, etc; how on earth do they stay in business?!) - although try not to get second-hand burnout before you even finish your first job.

...and leave them for a few minutes to wash themselves while I count and put away the money, (and check it with a fake-note-checker pen).

I always count money in front of them
{just like they do in the shops, banks and on the bus}

If I checked at a later point, out of the client's sight,
there would be the question in the client's mind of whether I short-counted the money
or switched some of the notes.

Counting in front of them just removing a potential area of angst.


But you can have some fun!
On one occasion a very nervous customer was shaking as he counted the notes to himself,
prior to handing it over.
I was surreptitiously counting as well and realised he had paid a ?20 note too much.
So when he passed the money over,
I clasped it, waived it up and down, frowned
and said it felt wrong, he had overpaid me by ?20!
I handed it back and he recounted.
His jaw hit the ground and his eyes went wide open in awe!

I love this job!