As long as you wear a condom during sex (and it doesn't split) and wear one during oral sex, you shouldn't get any problems. I've been escorting 5 years & thankfully have never caught anything, although I do offer owo.

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Thank you very much for giving me some reassurance ladies. I think putting the stuff about skin conditions that can be mistaken for an Std on the profile is a good idea and something I'd like to do.

Thank you XW5. Does anybody have any tips to prevent condoms from splitting, apart from plenty of lube and putting it on without air getting in. It would be much appreciated xxxx

Thank you very much for giving me some reassurance ladies. I think putting the stuff about skin conditions that can be mistaken for an Std on the profile is a good idea and something I'd like to do.

A lot of people might think it's a bit nutso to have that on my profile but a few times I've had to go "Oh, I'm sorry sweetheart. I don't know for sure what that is, and you may tell me it's just such and such, but I think it's best to cancel now. Here's a refund for the time remaining, byyeeeee" and it's so awkward!

Whatever you do will have risks, and everyone has their own position on the risk scale. Some people are happy to do OWO and some are not, for example, and some people are a lot less concerned about the bacterial STIs while others would see catching anything as a disaster.

So the real question is what risks are you happy with?

Once you know that, you can work out what you want to offer and how often you want to have a check-up to see if you have been unlucky.

You're so right, I definitely stress more about viral than bacterial

Practice, I suspect.

Depending on how your acting skills are 'Gasp, yes, pant, yes, aaaAAAaaah... I need to switch positions after I come...' Followed by 'Oh, that condom looks like it needs changing' if you've been going for long enough.

Or have a feel with your fingers, which will show that the condom is at least on the base of his penis. If you have seen it or felt it properly over the head of his penis immediately before it went in, that may be enough for you.

Some people don't do doggy with clients, for example. Others encourage clients to come outside them, for example on their breasts.

Yeah, if u do decide on doggy position, I usually put his dick in myself, so I know the condom is still on. Ive had someone take it off it doggy & hadn't realised til I thought "hmmm, that feel different".

Yeah like XW5 said, change condoms if the sex is lasting a fair while. Also, too much lube can cause a condom to come off inside of you & a lot of pre-cum can cause a condom to slip off inside of u. You do get used to knowing how much lube is enough & how much isn't.

I also dont trust 'Mates' condoms - Ive had loads of them split & I now stick with Pasante. Again like XW5 said, split condoms /falling off condoms scare me so I started asking ppl to cum over my tits instead & I say "I love it when a man cums on my tits" which I do & it makes me far less worried.

I usually keep checking condoms are still on by tickling their balls during sex, then with a finger I discreetly check I can feel the thick/rolled end of the condom.

Abbi xxx

I also dont trust 'Mates' condoms - Ive had loads of them split & I now stick with Pasante.

I think condom brands are really personal preference. I've used Mates for years; I use Skyns now because I'm latex sensitive, but before that I used Mates Natural/XL and so on and never had one split. I have had Durex split on me twice and would never buy them now as a result (although I did try the Real Feel non-latex ones when they were on offer but they tasted vile) but other ladies prefer them and don't have problems.

If a condom is the right size and applied properly it's very unlikely to split but as posted above, sabotage can and does happen and it's important to be vigilant .