Afternoon Ladies,

I have been escorting for nearly three years now and i have never had  bad experience but lately my luck is running thin... a few days ago i had a guy try to force bareback sex, a guy that said he left a wallet in his car and a few other things... pehaps i am being to laid back  and letting my guard down a bit!i still try and be very selective of who i see.  i have been very lucky some of my escorts friends have been beaten etc

maybe this is sign to give up escorting

I must turn away almost half of all inquiries I get; more if you count the obvious timewasters. Of course sometimes it's just a case of tricky scheduling issues but just as often, it's because a caller or emailer gives me a Bad Feeling.

It goes without saying that anyone who texts gives me that Bad Feeling, unless we've met before and I've explicitly told them they may text if they prefer.

I apologise if this is stuff that goes without saying for you, too, but sometimes I still hear about escorts taking bookings from 'unknowns' via text, or even via AW booking but without a proper confirmation phonecall to suss them out, and it worries me! Texting is usually a great sign of disrespect - you can't get an appointment with any other sort of professional by texting "hi babe r u free 2day" and I literally can't imagine what my dentist/doctor/hairdresser would say if I did try doing it that way! So clear, precise and enforced confirmation procedures are absolutely vital.

Again, sorry if that's all stuff you do extensively already. I'm no expert - I stole all my procedures from members of this very forum who have been around far longer than me and know far more about the industry! But to be honest, things like taking the money up front are rules that should never be allowed to lax even if you've got a regular that's been seeing you every week for 10 years. Also, stuff like getting one of those counterfeit checker pens and making sure to always use it right at the start, too - cos nobody can tell if someone's going to try to rob or con them just from looking at their face! We all have to do the same stuff day-in and day-out and yes, it's a bit boring but we all know that that one little time that we let our guard down will probably be the time that something goes wrong.

Try not to worry! Just up those efforts with screening, confirmations and taking payment and you'll be fine. We can't all be Super Prossie all the time.

It could be that you have just hit a bad patch and been very unlucky. It does happen, there was a week a few months ago where I literally hated every client I saw. It was like the world tosspot championships were beating a path to my door.
Even with the most vigilant screening procedures you will always get a few slipping through the net. Today I saw a guy who sounded perfectly polite on the phone but then during the appointment tried to rub his naked dick against my ladybits . When I made it clear in no uncertain terms what I thought of his behaviour he actually laughed at me!!!!! He has no idea how lucky he is to still be in possession of a working penis!

I personally take AW feedback with a pinch of salt. I have seen guys who have feedback on there saying they are the most charming gent ever born, who in reality have been teeth grindingly horrid. AW isn't designed to help us prossies and I think a lot of ladies are afraid to leave bad feedback (unless the client has done something REALLY dreadful) as we don't want bad feedback in return.

Touring can be tricky, I went somewhere last year (won't say where) and by the end of the 2nd day I had turned my phone off because the clients were so awful. Perfectly polite on the phone yet face to face there wasn't a single one of them I would have seen again.

Sending you positive thoughts for some good clients soon, don't get too down about it, it happens to the best of us

I should also like to add as an afterthought that I do have some nice clients as well! reading that mini rant you could be excused for thinking otherwise