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General Category => Questions and Answers => Topic started by: Sarahjayne1965 on 06 May 2019, 08:40:06 pm
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Hi Everyone,
I’m just starting out as an Escort at the ripe old age of 54! Needs must 😂. I currently have an ad on Vivastreet, posted it one week ago and have so far done 2 outcalls - I’m very proud of myself!! Just wondered if there were any other mature Escorts who are happy to chat with me?
I am specifically looking for a heads up on the best way to offer in-calls? I don’t want guys coming to my place, I am looking to rent an apartment in or around the Taunton area, have thought about hotels but not really sure how that would work?.
Any advice welcome,
Many thanks
Sarah-Jayne xx
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I started at 52 & thought, "There's no way in hell anyone's going to be interested in someone MY age...".
I was so very wrong! The old guys love us bc we're not 22. The young guys love us bc they get that *air quote* MILF experience.
I am thrilled to report I was wrong lol.👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻
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Hi Sarah Jayne and welcome :)
I can't advise about your location because you're a long way from me, but as a starting point have you read through the main SAAFE site (http://www.saafe.info)? There is a lot of basic information there including plenty about hotel work and also a fair bit on this board if you use the Search box.
If you're doing outcalls and don't yet have a security buddy to check in and out with you can hopefully find one here too :)
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I haven't tried VS yet but make a profile in AW. It's the biggest site in the UK.
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Hi Sarah Jayne and welcome :)
I can't advise about your location because you're a long way from me, but as a starting point have you read through the main SAAFE site (http://www.saafe.info)? There is a lot of basic information there including plenty about hotel work and also a fair bit on this board if you use the Search box.
If you're doing outcalls and don't yet have a security buddy to check in and out with you can hopefully find one here too :)
Yes as Amy says.
I started in my mid/late 30s and now am mid 40s, welcome to the club!
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First, welcome to the club, SJ (and FYI, I am a 43-year-old whore of nearly 4 years).
Secondly, for tips about offering incalls, I will pm (private message) you.
Thirdly, to help yourself stay safe, I recommend the following:
1) Client Eye app. This has been developed by an escort who presents it in "Spamming in the Lion Den". When someone with a warning against their number contacts you, the warning is flagged. The warnings come from WGs (working girls, that is) who have uploaded them. In addition, the app also contains many-to-most of the warnings posted here on SAAFE (which are listed at https://saafe.info/main/warnings-wasters/ (https://saafe.info/main/warnings-wasters/))
2) the Mr Number app
3) the TrueCaller app
4) the National Ugly Mugs website, specifically the phone number checker at https://uknswp.org/um/safety/number-check/ They have an email address checker too.
6) the Hollie Guard app.
7) the Suzy Lamplugh Trust offers many further apps and self-defence tools
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I can't really add much more here, but just want to say WELL DONE and a huge WELCOME ;D
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Welcome from another Mature Escort
My advice is never for any reason tell any real names or where you live to anyone
Clients can be very friendly and gossip not realising they are passing on your real name and information when they should not.
Never put up real face photos if you can help it they will be posted in places you never knew existed
Adult - Work verification photos are copied and posted on some sites even if you tick the box for privacy
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Adult - Work verification photos are copied and posted on some sites even if you tick the box for privacy
This worries me how would I find out if this happened to me.
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Hi SJ
My 2nd time round and now I’m at the mature end of the scale at 45. As mentioned already guys enjoy the experience we bring and the confidence. My advice, as well as looking at all the safety sites ugly mugs etc, read read and read as much as you can here of SAAFE. The information and advice is invaluable, not to mention the support!
Feel free to contact me via DM if you need anything.
Enjoy you new venture
Lx
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Adult - Work verification photos are copied and posted on some sites even if you tick the box for privacy
This worries me how would I find out if this happened to me.
Sending a PM
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Hi SJ, welcome to the forum and the industry. I was 57 when I started five years ago. I first started offering in calls in a hotel two or three days a week but realised the money I was spending out in a hotel would easily pay rent for a flat. After a few months I took the plunge and found my ideal flat.
It means I can be far more flexible and where I was restricted to those particular days in the hotel I can be available much more. Giving me far more freedom.
And at 62 have no plans to give up my flat yet.
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Great vichy :)
Hope it all goes well in your new place x
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Hi SarahJayne! (Awww I'm getting Doctor Who vibes!)
I'm in my late 40s, nowhere near your area so can't advise on hotels. If you haven't already I would suggest setting up a profile on Adultwork. Viva can be good in some areas but has a MASSIVE amount of timewasters. Also consider UKAdultzone, My Local Escorts, Escort Guide, and Friday Ad.
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I am getting PMs about the verification photos being public on some sites.
I only know what I have read here so its best to do a search on the site for more information