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RR

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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #15 on: 01 March 2017, 08:51:58 pm »
No, some people just don't like distractions. I usually have music on in the background at home, there's some songs I can't listen to any more because it just reminds me of giving a blowjob. The television doesn't really bother me personally, I can zone out most things within reason, and in hotels I do tend to put the TV on. I usually switch it to a music channel though to drown out voices; if someone asks me to put it off, I will. Not sure why anyone would find it unprofessional to have music on, but each to their own!

He just sounds like he's loud.
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Aqua Allegoria

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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #16 on: 01 March 2017, 09:01:11 pm »
Quote from: RR on 01 March 2017, 08:51:58 pm
No, some people just don't like distractions. I usually have music on in the background at home, there's some songs I can't listen to any more because it just reminds me of giving a blowjob. The television doesn't really bother me personally, I can zone out most things within reason, and in hotels I do tend to put the TV on. I usually switch it to a music channel though to drown out voices; if someone asks me to put it off, I will. Not sure why anyone would find it unprofessional to have music on, but each to their own!

He just sounds like he's loud.

He's a screamer :)
Sorry. Couldn't resist :)
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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #17 on: 02 March 2017, 07:48:25 pm »
Only you can answer that Q: was he acting like he wanted to draw attention to the room or do you think the TV could of been a distraction for him?

Just like AA, I have a portable speaker with timed playlists. I even take it with me on outcalls ha! Not only does the music create an ambience, but I personally dont like the sound of heavy breathing or louuuddddd moaning - this aint no porn movie!!

If I was in your shoes I would of either changed the channel or turned it down but I wouldnt of turned it off, but thats just me. I cant work in complete silence, I need to create an atmosphere/ambience with background sounds
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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #18 on: 02 March 2017, 08:55:42 pm »
Quote from: Gracious on 02 March 2017, 07:48:25 pm
If I was in your shoes I would of either changed the channel or turned it down but I wouldnt of turned it off, but thats just me. I cant work in complete silence, I need to create an atmosphere/ambience with background sounds

I had a booking earlier where I forgot to put my playlist on when the customer paid. Something distracted me I think. So I was halfway through the blowjob when I thought "Fucking hell, I don't know where we are in the booking!"

I have a watch, but I rely more on my playlist. it's not just the time though, I feel really awkward when it's just quiet. To make things worse, the guy was one of those silent types. Dude, I'm licking your balls, fucking tell me if you like it or tell me to do something else!
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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #19 on: 02 March 2017, 09:13:40 pm »
Quote from: VoluptuousCurves on 02 March 2017, 08:55:42 pm
it's not just the time though, I feel really awkward when it's just quiet. To make things worse, the guy was one of those silent types. Dude, I'm licking your balls, fucking tell me if you like it or tell me to do something else!

LOL!

Glad to see Im not the only one who finds it awkward to fuck in silence. I dont have a watch or clock because I find myself looking at it all the time so I just solely rely on my playlists - when Erykah Badu starts playing I know theres 15 mins left bahahaha!

Tbh though, I prefer the quiet ones. Im not naturally a moaner and if Im with someone who moans overtly it just feels put on - so silence or just a little moan here and there please! (thats not what I say to them but thats what I think lolz!) What I personally dont like is the indecisive ones - Lick my balls please. > 45 secs later > suck my dick sexy > 2.7 secs later > kiss me baby  :FF

Or the ones who ask me Qs when I sucking!!!! I always find myself stopping, looking up and saying so do you want to me talk or suck? Coz I cant do both at the same time boo  ;D ;D ;D
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Wailing Banshee

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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #20 on: 02 March 2017, 10:12:53 pm »
I don't like it when the TV is on and noone is watching it in any situation and it's the same when seeing clients! I don't even like music because I find it distracting.

I have been to plenty of outcalls when the TV is on and I presume because they think it masks any sex noises, but equally men have turned it off when I have arrived so I guess all people have preferences so it may not have been for any showy offy reasons.

I had to stop myself giggling at 8 out of 10 cats the other night at an outcall- not the sexiest choice of viewing but more entertaining than the client tbh, so maybe there are advantages of something else to listen to!
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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #21 on: 02 March 2017, 11:19:52 pm »
I only have a tv connected to a DVD with porn on. Work from a working flat so no choice. If I'm with someone I enjoy being with prefer it off as I find it distracting but some clients need to watch porn to cum.
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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #22 on: 03 March 2017, 09:33:07 am »
Quote from: Wailing Banshee on 02 March 2017, 10:12:53 pm
I had to stop myself giggling at 8 out of 10 cats the other night at an outcall- not the sexiest choice of viewing but more entertaining than the client tbh, so maybe there are advantages of something else to listen to!

I went to an outcall the other day for an hour in a hotel. The client mainly wanted ass worship (him worshipping me). The TV was on and it was a cooking show, Rick Stein's Long Weekends. I was so engrossed in the food porn that I almost forgot the client was there and was seriously debating with myself "Will the client be offended if I ask him to stop a minute so I can write this recipe down?"  ;D
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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #23 on: 03 March 2017, 09:39:53 am »
It might be that the tv distracts him, I usually play low music, I have even had people ask me turn that off which puts me off balance because Im a very habitual creature
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Re: Wanting to draw attention?
« Reply #24 on: 04 March 2017, 09:53:45 am »
Quote from: Aqua Allegoria on 01 March 2017, 09:01:11 pm
He's a screamer :)
Sorry. Couldn't resist :)

LOL ;D

I also use playlists to count down an hour hahahaha. There are clocks in my room though as I have a thing about shabby chic and some of them are clocks, but I don't bother with them; I'd clearly have to crane my neck to look. But I can tell when an hour is up by a song! Also I can't hear Its All About You by Adina Howard anymore lol.
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