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Sorcha1969

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Starting out as an escort.
« on: 19 February 2017, 02:46:35 pm »
Hi need a bit of advice please am just starting out and live in n.ireland.i have applied for escort work through a few sites and applied for one sayin they were looking for an escort.sent of my information and have been chatting with a guy.he wants me to meet up at my home to chat about it and see if im up to the job.which is fair enough.the bit i am bit weary about is he said when we have chatted he will pretend to be a client so he can see if im up to the job  is this the norm .can someone tell me please.thksxxxxx
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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #1 on: 19 February 2017, 04:38:38 pm »
Quote from: Sorcha1969 on 19 February 2017, 02:46:35 pm
Hi need a bit of advice please am just starting out and live in n.ireland.i have applied for escort work through a few sites and applied for one sayin they were looking for an escort.sent of my information and have been chatting with a guy.he wants me to meet up at my home to chat about it and see if im up to the job.which is fair enough.the bit i am bit weary about is he said when we have chatted he will pretend to be a client so he can see if im up to the job  is this the norm .can someone tell me please.thksxxxxx

never work for anyone but i think he wants a free fuck
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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #2 on: 19 February 2017, 04:39:32 pm »
Hi Sorcha and welcome to SAAFE.

If it isn't too late, PLEASE don't tell this man where you live or any personal information about yourself - this is not how the legitimate sex industry works and he's just a wannabe pimp who thinks he can take advantage of your naivety and trick you into having sex with him for free.

There is no reason to have anything to do with him or anyone like him; sex workers are self-employed and there's no 'application' involved at all. Please read the main SAAFE site for some start up information and meanwhile we have members here in Ireland who I'm sute can help with more specific stuff :).
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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #3 on: 19 February 2017, 04:43:24 pm »
Quote from: Sorcha1969 on 19 February 2017, 02:46:35 pm
been chatting with a guy.he wants me to meet up at my home to chat about it and see if im up to the job.which is fair enough.

Fair enough? dear lord no this isnt how escorting works
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« Reply #4 on: 19 February 2017, 05:23:54 pm »
Yes, and also - I may be entirely wrong here - but I think you need to be extra careful in NI because of the involvement of some gangs in controlling prostitution.

If you can't work from home or afford a work place or hotels, start off just doing some out calls - perhaps sticking to hotel clients only to begin with?
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Sorcha1969

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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #5 on: 19 February 2017, 05:31:56 pm »
Really oh thank you so much .as i will email him and say sorry but no i didnt give him aby personal information i.e name or address  as i was meant to be meeting him on tues morning.thk you does anyone know of any decent agencies in n.ireland that i cud work for really hard to get started here as i cant work independentley at the moment as i dont have a place  thk you xxx
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« Reply #6 on: 19 February 2017, 06:38:11 pm »
Im so glad you hadn't given him any information.  :)

Honestly, you are way better being indie.  I don't have an incall place either - many ladies don't.  I do outcalls and book hotels when I want to offer incalls.  There are ways around not being able to or wanting to see clients at home.  An agency won't do anything for you that you can't do for yourself, and you'll pay handsomely for it.  Also I believe NI is a whole different ballgame - as others have pointed out due to gangs controlling prostitution, police being more on it, etc. 

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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #7 on: 19 February 2017, 07:20:52 pm »
Quote from: Sorcha1969 on 19 February 2017, 02:46:35 pm
he wants me to meet up at my home to chat about it and see if im up to the job.

Just reading that made me think 'he's after a free fuck' and..

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the bit i am bit weary about is he said when we have chatted he will pretend to be a client so he can see if im up to the job

.. this confirmed it.
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Sorcha1969

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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #8 on: 19 February 2017, 07:54:29 pm »
Just want to say thank you to everyone who replied giving me advice so glad i have found this place .and will just have to try and sort something else out to start working .thankyou to everyonexxxx
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« Reply #9 on: 19 February 2017, 11:05:52 pm »
Don't trust this man and just block him. There are no auditions for this job. You can always work for yourself. If you are afraid or not ready yet just find some reliable normal agency to start with. Perfectly owned by women...please don't trust this man. He just wants to "book" you for free.... take care
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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #10 on: 19 February 2017, 11:42:18 pm »
Quote from: Sorcha1969 on 19 February 2017, 05:31:56 pm
Really oh thank you so much .as i will email him and say sorry but no i didnt give him aby personal information i.e name or address  as i was meant to be meeting him on tues morning.thk you does anyone know of any decent agencies in n.ireland that i cud work for really hard to get started here as i cant work independentley at the moment as i dont have a place  thk you xxx
I wouldn't email him anything at all!Just stop responding to him and block his email address if you can.He'll only email back trying to persuade you or potentially send you abuse if you email anything!
He sounds like a nasty predatory man who is just trying to trick naive women into free sex not someone you need to email back politely!
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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #11 on: 20 February 2017, 12:53:25 am »
I don't think there are agencies over here as such it isn't as open here compared to England. If you can make a profile on adult work then that is you earning keeping it all. Pimps might pounce coming across like agencies to be wary of especially over here because the groups can keep the girls there.

Luckily I have been okay since being here in 2011 as stay in the city centre or mixed areas south Belfast is good except certain areas.  Further out is risky because they control those areas.

Clients put me right at the start and keep hearing all these stories plus watch the news and read the Belfast telegraph.

Ensure you are in a secure place to like this place clients need to be buzzed in two times before reaching my front door. I feel safe here at least with cool neighbors don't give me hassle.

If you want to talk you can always pm me.

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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #12 on: 20 February 2017, 04:41:58 am »
Quote from: SweetAngel on 19 February 2017, 11:05:52 pm
He just wants to "book" you for free.... take care

Yes.

And maybe he's a pimp (a gang member) who will try to force you to work in abusive conditions.

I worked for several agencies in Montreal and London before becoming independent. And none works like this.
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Sorcha1969

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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #13 on: 20 February 2017, 09:22:34 am »
I have blocked his email so hopefully wont hear from him again.thank you everyone for all your advice .can someome please tell me how do i private message someone on here thk youxx
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Re: Starting out as an escort.
« Reply #14 on: 20 February 2017, 10:35:09 am »
Just click on the profile name you want to pm and you should see an option box to pm that person. Well done for having the bravery to ask about that guy on here...you see your Sixth sense is already working  :) x
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