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Author Topic: Has being a sex worker made you a lot more confident about your body or not?  (Read 4258 times)

Lushblossom

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Yes and no.  I think it is good because we get lots of compliments but on the other hand I am very critical of bumps and excess skin e.g. my stomach.  I would also like to increase my boobs although they are big I would still like bigger.  Think it is half yes and half no to be honest!

chocoholicgirl

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Yes and no.  I think it is good because we get lots of compliments but on the other hand I am very critical of bumps and excess skin e.g. my stomach.  I would also like to increase my boobs although they are big I would still like bigger.  Think it is half yes and half no to be honest!

Doing this job definitely makes you a lot more AWARE of your body, perhaps if we had jobs where we didn't get naked we wouldn't pay so much attention. Whether it brings confidence or not is another thing!

JustAnotherHooker

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Doing this job definitely makes you a lot more AWARE of your body, perhaps if we had jobs where we didn't get naked we wouldn't pay so much attention. Whether it brings confidence or not is another thing!


I think I’ll always pay attention to my body as I’m pretty vain and I admit it!! Hehehe xxx

Kaci908

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Hi ladies,

So I've been here a while lurking and wondered are you all body confident?

I'm quite body conscious and wondering how I'll get over this if I start escorting?

I am quite pretty though not to blow my own trumpet so I wonder if that makes a difference?

I'm a size 12-14 bit I've got a bit of a belly. I've got slim legs and arms I've just got a bit of a mum tum.

Do any of you not like your own body? How do you get over this to do escorting?

Gem x

amy

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Merged, since lots of us have already answered :)

Georgie

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Hiya, I’m significantly less concerned by this stuff than ever since starting this job five months ago.

My pics, including my bum (which I used to hate) are up there on my profile and clients know what they’re getting so I don’t worry and have the confidence to streak about the hotel room in front of them with more confidence that I’ve had in my personal life.

Think this job is good for me in many ways including body confidence.
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Amberxxx

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Weirdly, most of the things I disliked about my body - ie I'm very flat chested, somewhat muscular, and not 20-something - are all reasons clients seek out and book me  :D

Men like women of all shapes and sizes, so yeah echoing the other ladies, just be honest with your advertising and you'll attract the right clients  :) x


Rosesugar

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I'm quite unattractive i probably wouldn't even get dates so escorting I get to strip off and hope for the best.
I make an effort for clients as they are paying
I've become fatter so trying to wear sexy lace dresses at the moment so I can just pull breasts out and they love it. I'm attracting big breast lovers so they don't complain and mainly focus on those 36H cups  ;)

jellib33

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Not for me. I always feel uncomfortable when people are staring at me. It feels sexually but this is my own insecurity.
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Notyourgirlfriend

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It's a big mistake to get confidence from outwards sources like clients.

One guy left a review saying am the most beautiful woman he has ever seen. Then some guy on another site said am not even fit and over charge.
Mens opinions and their boners mean nothing to me.

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