Couldnt agree more ( i think you and i sing from the same song book
) While i dont go to london any more the whole business has changed a lot in two -3 years and not for the better in my opinion for whats it worth
Prices are lower which is ok but there more girls are out there offering bb and other stuff which makes it harder to compete and guys expect and rightly so, a good service for there money, and will often write review or feedback on aw /punternet
if your only doing outcalls then i would say you would have to be prepared to take appointments as and when they come in if you have good childminding in places
if your only relying on adultwork to get you business then you really want to try and stand out amongs the 3000+++ other that are on there for london to get work
im mixed race and notice that any inperfections on darker skin with the exception of scars and keoloid types scars dont notice that much on ebony /mixed race skin ( or maybe im just luckydont know really )
what i mean is on pale skin stretch marks can look like the bodys been wipped they can look like thin bruises and become raised up slightly but on darker skin they dont look like that to me or maybe im looking at the wrong bodies
bio oil is very good for stretch marks
spray tans if they are done properly ( not a 30 second job) hid them pretty well i have spray tans every week even though im mixed race
I can't talk for London as I'm up in Scotland but all I can say is you will find it a very different ball game (pardon the pun) from it was two years ago in the fact that the number of girls has increased MASSIVELY and the number of guys hasn't. Infact their money for spending is either the same or less
I wouldnt worry about your body/boobs etc as I'm sure you are being over critical about yourself.
My first move would be to get a profile up on Adultwork. That will take you longer than before with looking after baby.
I'm sure some single mums and london girls will come online soon and give you some good advice.
TC xx All The Best With Your Return xx