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britanny

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Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« on: 24 July 2014, 11:41:00 pm »
Hi everyone.
I'm an independent and I work only for myself. I've been doing escorting for one year. I have a big problem with one man who used to be my customer but I got into friendship with him!! After few moths he wanted to be with me all of his free time, he started visiting me after work even if I refused to seeing him!! I stopped talking with him I blocked him everywhere, obviously I told him about my decision and explained why. After all he was aggressive to me and he didn't want to leave me alone! it's been 2 moths since I was talking with him. He still trying to contact me, get my address through profile number, and I've got a lot of emails with black mail. If someone could help...in any way!
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« Last Edit: 24 July 2014, 11:45:24 pm by Daisy_ »

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Re: Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« Reply #1 on: 25 July 2014, 12:15:42 am »
Stalking is a criminal offence you are well within your rights to go to the police if this person does not stop.
The police would be very interested in seeing the blackmailing emails.Most idiots back off if they get the police contacting them.
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« Reply #2 on: 25 July 2014, 12:20:33 am »
I'm afraid that they could be also interested in me, if I paid tax etc...and if I would go for help to police he still can send my photos, profile and all details to my family.

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« Reply #3 on: 25 July 2014, 01:12:57 am »
He is very unlikely to do that if he knows the police are interested. It would be saying 'Yes, I am guilty! Jail me!'
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Re: Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« Reply #4 on: 25 July 2014, 02:56:04 am »
How does he know who your family are?The police are not interested in what you do for a living nor are they going to ask you about your taxes.You are reporting a crime not investigating you.
There is nothing stopping him carrying out these threats anyway at the moment I am pretty sure having the police turn up at the door and him potentially getting arrested will cause him alot of bother so I don't think he will want to incriminate himself further.

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Re: Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« Reply #5 on: 25 July 2014, 09:09:32 am »
He knows my Facebook details....so he can find my family without any problem even when he is blocked he could use another Facebook profile. I think reporting this would be the best way to finish everything.  :(

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« Reply #6 on: 25 July 2014, 09:38:50 am »
Do you have face pics on your profile?  Because if not he would just be sending some girls profile to your family.  I dont think he would do it anyway regardless,  people making these threats generally dont carry them out.

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« Reply #7 on: 25 July 2014, 10:57:05 am »
If you don't report him he might well do this - once you've reported him then him carrying out any sort of further harassment(which sending photos to your family would be), then he's literally hung himself.

Please go to the police with this. Initially they'll probably contact him without needing much information from or about you, and that may well be enough to stop him.

I do however have the impression that the police prefer it if you are paying tax if the case goes to court it makes you as a witness, appear more credible and above board. Rather than the defence throwing something to try and discredit you - but this doesn't tend to come up until things have progressed much further - and intervention at this point usually prevents that.

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Re: Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« Reply #8 on: 25 July 2014, 12:55:10 pm »
 :-\ If she stands up in court in a harassment case and admits to being an escort it then appears on court papers and is in the public domain.

Im not saying she should nt take it further but she needs to thing long and hard about it and any future implications.

And yes I agree it shouldn't be this way but it is.

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« Reply #9 on: 25 July 2014, 02:45:17 pm »
First of all set your facebook page to 'friends only' and be careful who you accept friends requests from.Totally block him and then he cannot even see your facebook page.

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Re: Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« Reply #10 on: 25 July 2014, 04:49:32 pm »

First of all set your facebook page to 'friends only' and be careful who you accept friends requests from.Totally block him and then he cannot even see your facebook page.

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Also, I'd be tempted to warn him that if he persists you WILL go to the police. If that doesn't stop him then you definitely should go to them, this needs nipping in the bud before It spirals completely out of control. A word from the police should stop him. He's breaking the law; you're not and I doubt the police would be interested in your tax when you're being stalked. I doubt it would go to court unless he carried on after a couple of police warnings- and hopefully he's not THAT stupid!
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« Reply #11 on: 25 July 2014, 09:13:16 pm »
I've already blocked him everywhere...he can't see my friends list but he still can search my sister there...I have face on my profile on aw. He is still trying to make a bookings on AW I'm keep blocking his new profiles. He doesn't even know that I could see aliases on his profile  :FF

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Re: Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« Reply #12 on: 26 July 2014, 11:51:38 pm »
Ok this is a slightly different scanerio

But i fell out with a friend who was a wg collage as well as a friend. (She hit the drugs heavily) She turned up at my house, threatened to out me to my family (my dad had just had a heart attack and she knew this ans she replied if he dies it's my fault! Thats how nasty she was)

She also threatened to send letters, profile details to all my neighbours outing me!

I told her i was calling the police, she said go ahead! So i did!

They were great, straight away had a pin notice issued against her. I also approached my solicitor and he sent a letter (cost me ?30), telling her that if she contacted me again we be taking her to court and getting an injunction against her and that she would have to pay my legals costs, compensation for the stress caused etc.

Funny enough i never heard from her again!

Ok i know this is different situation but maybe you should contact the police, get legal advice as the twat will prob shit himself and back off as soon as he knows could in trouble with the police/ law.


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Re: Stalking and abusive ex-client [was dangerous customer.]
« Reply #13 on: 27 July 2014, 03:41:28 am »
What? Im shocked...I can't imagine how a girl who is a WG could do like that...this world is full of mad ppl. And To be honest because of this work I started thinking rationally..it's been quite for that time...no emails from this guy, maybe he just left it, he was ignored by me all that time so maybe he finally started thinking like a healthy man (I saw he got a new feedback from a girl yesterday)  ;D