Squirting thread

[SW]

I first discovered I had a 'talent' for squirting as a teenager and it really freaked me out at the time! My inexperienced boyfriend had no idea what it was and tried to convince me I had a problem with wetting myself during sex! Idiot 

Fortunately for me I found myself a more experienced partner who loved it and I embraced my squirting in all its messy glory 

For me it always felt like I was peeing whilst having an orgasm (which is probably why I believed him) like I had lost control of all the muscles that control those things whilst my pelvic floor muscles were contracting. I have never actually peed whilst orgasming so you shouldn't have to worry about that when practicing 

I find the best way to squirt is with G-spot stimulation. The more intense the bigger the squirt. And if you really want to get your squirt on, strong pelvic floor muscles are a must for getting some distance on the squirt.

But the best advice I can give is to relax and don't try and force it. Even though I am normally quite a gusher (for want of a better phrase) I find when clients are putting pressure on me to do it and I'm trying to force it, it just wont happen. Also I think my monthly cycle effects how much liquid I produce.

Oh and staying hydrated also helps. 

[DianaMurphy]

Squirting is certainly an experience and one of my USPs, although recently for various reasons I've found it difficult to do which is caused by stress and performance anxiety I believe! You HAVE to be relaxed and ready to feel like you want to wee and once you get past the barrier that it ISN'T urine and that there will be a mess your mind will be in a better place to allow your body to relax and let go, so to speak.

My OH is a self proclaimed 'expert' and has made lots of women who have previously said they can't squirt do it pretty darn easily. Personally I've had women on the verge of squirting but who have rushed to the loo as they simply couldn't relax enough to just go with the sensation. It's mind over matter for a lot of women.

If you want to practice working with the sensation I would suggest you spend some time getting to know your G-Spot, find it, work it and get used to the feeling. Oh and have plenty of clean towels at the ready.

Their are techniques that your partner can use which are very difficult to describe via text format and often it's difficult for a 'new' partner to have the confidence to use appropriately, but if you have somebody who is willing to help ask them to use their middle and ring finger in a hither to movement inside you until you can feel them rubbing your G-Spot. As they're doing this they should feel you G-Spot (which has an almost walnut like texture to it) start to expand.

You can of course try and use the same technique above on yourself but often the angle is the key point, the best angle is with the partner laid at your side so their palm is pressing against your pelvis.

I could go on but I won't! Hopefully that bit of info will help 

[Nameless]

Its really not about learning to squirt, its about whether you have the ability to do so in the first place, if so its more about knowing yourself, what turns you on, and most importantly being able to let go.

Most women do not have the ability to squirt, of those that do have the ability the majority will never squirt in their lifetime.  Many women who can squirt do so infrequently and can never tell if/when they will squirt.

Personally for me the man has little to do with it except in the way that any man who knows what he is doing sexually helps, and men who are inept, hinder that process.  For me being in a relaxed environment and indirect stimulation is the key.  Going straight for the G spot does nothing for me.  Lots of foreplay, kissing, and my personal favourite nipple stimulation.  Then what I do find often helps is playing with a bullet and/or a vibrator downunder, but not internally.

Really in a nutshell its about knowing yourself and being relaxed, I don't need a man to help me squirt just myself and actually the best way to find out is on your own, but don't make it the focus, just think of it as getting to know yourself better.

[missP]

I truley do believe that relaxing and letting go helps. I can squirt/gush at the drop of a hat but the more foreplay the higher the squirt. I really don't get the fascination though as my clitoral orgasms for me are much stronger but unfortunately no-one ever seems bothered about those  they'd rather have me soak my bed or make puddles on the floor 

What is the fascination?

[Nameless]

What is the fascination?

For guys - because its so rare to find an escort that genuinely squirts.  They also love the fact it shows you are genuinely turned on.  They know orgasms can be easily faked, but its impossible for a female to fake ejaculation (except in films of course).

[missP]

Oh and I'm not complaining as it's how I make my money  so long reign men and all their strange fascinations!!!!!  lol

[foxydeelight]

if theres plenty of arousal going on ie fingers and stuff, I can multi squirt for ever, im surprised ive never dehydrated lol!!  I wouldnt know where to start by teaching you as i dont know how i did it my self !!! all I can say it feels like the start of an orgasm then warm and wet good luck with the practise !!!

[happyhappyjoyjoy]

So I bought myself my first "luxury sex toy" yesterday. I was shopping for a butt plug as requested by a reg and the palm power personal vibrator caught my eye. I was weighing up the pros and cons about buying it but in the end I decided that it was similar enough to the hitachi wand that all the pornos use but cheaper so likely to use it in my work as well as anything I have seen in porn the chaps will want to do.
Anywho whilst playing around with it I found that on a medium setting I am pretty much guarenteed to squirt! Now I have never full on squirted before. I've got very wet and trickled but not full on squirted! I am thrilled (as is my boyfriend) although as it was unexpected I have a soggy mattress now.

On another note if I have it on the highest setting it makes me do this face  and flay around like a fish on a deck!

Now I'm just wondering if I should advertise this service. It might bring in a few more punters but I think until I know it is 100% likely to happen then it might be wise to keep it on the down low.

[Nameless]

Don't advertise it unless you are sure you can 'squirt on demand' because believe you me, that is what will be expected.  I speak from experience, and if you feel under pressure 'to perform' then you are prettty much guaranteed NOT to squirt.

I would wait a while and see what happens, for all you know it may only happen occasionally and so you will then dissapoint clients who book you just for that reason.

Also conoisseurs of squirting will expect more than a trickle........they will want full on fountains!!

[happyhappyjoyjoy]

yeah I was thinking of just experimenting for a while and see how it goes.

[Daisy Penny]

Don't advertise it unless you are sure you can 'squirt on demand' because believe you me, that is what will be expected.  I speak from experience, and if you feel under pressure 'to perform' then you are prettty much guaranteed NOT to squirt.

I would wait a while and see what happens, for all you know it may only happen occasionally and so you will then dissapoint clients who book you just for that reason.

Also conoisseurs of squirting will expect more than a trickle........they will want full on fountains!!

I have been tempted to advertise this service, I would say i only squirt 60% of the time with the right technique so I am not a squirter on demand but clients who know what they are doing are pleasantly surprised and have mentioned it in a FR so im in a predicament

[Blondiex20]

I've only managed this once and I think it were of my own doing with a vibe. I've tried and tried and never been able to since. Baring in mind I can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation.

[H.Rox]

Hiya,
I was the same as you - thought it was all a bit pissy lol.
However, I then had a couple of guys make it happen with the fingers inside and G spot massage until.... my friend introduced me to the wand with the flicker (I think thats the adapter) and when held against my clit it seems to induce it EVERY time.
I have never been able to achieve it myself, without the use of the wand, so even though I can now do it - it remains a mystery!
Also I tasted it and smelt it (just to check it wasn't pee) and its like an oily texture and VERY salty. Nice!
xx

[happyhappyjoyjoy]

yes H.Rox it seems to be an automatic reaction to the wand! One the one hand great. On the other hand I cannot use it in my personal life too often!

[Ieaio]

Sorry for the descriptive language but if your going to learn we can't be shy XD:

It's not pee no. My boyfriend actually got me into it. Most girls actually cum when they squirt i think and i guess you could call it cumming for me but like, i don't orgasm from it. If you type it into google there is a good video on how to do it (again my boyfriends suggestion haha, men and their porn) It does smell like pee sometimes but A LOT stronger than pee which is strange but again very common and depending on how much water you have drank sometimes smells like nothing much, for some reason it is mixed with the same components (something scientific i'm not to sure how to word it sorry my boyfriend explained it, went right over my head as to why it smells) and of course it's very common to actually pee at the same time as it can feel like a similar build up but no it is not pee and you will know it's not pee so there's no worry that you just peed on the guy instead of squirting. It feels like a release but not orgasmic i guess if i could do both at the same time it would feel brilliant i have yet to master that. Just go to the toilet before you try it to reduce risk of peeing.

It is really tough but the best advice i can give you: You know that feeling building up during sex when you feel like your going to explode / pee.... instead of holding back let go and it will naturally squirt out. Some girls squirt some girls gush but yes it's defiantly very popular. I wouldn't be put off by doing it every session on demand because yes it is like orgasm you can't just que it, it has to come naturally but once you understand the feeling and understand that instead of holding back just go for it then it does become very familiar feeling and easy to do but granted it is hard to learn originally. Some of my non escort girlfriends do it by accident even and are mortified that they just peed on their boyfriends faces only for me to be like WELL ACTUALLY .......

When you are practicing you will feel your g spot bulge up gradually (it literally bulges i'm not talking metaphorically it will go from flat to bumped out ready to flow) and perhaps your natural sloppy noises will get a lot louder, this is the fluid building up, can't say where it actually is made but it will squirt out your vagina not pee hole. Pushing it out does tend to stop the flow in my experience so just relax your muscles and let it happen, good luck