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Rosamarriott111

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #45 on: 23 October 2014, 07:43:04 pm »
I usually block them instead of saving their numbers under TW1 TW2...but after a while they may figure out they are blocked and try another number. However, with so many WGs out there I rarely get timewasters coming back to me, they usually move on to the next victim once they been rumbled.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #46 on: 23 October 2014, 07:47:56 pm »
As well as the above tips you will very quickly develop an intuition.
This job teaches you these things very quickly.
One thing I tell all new clients nicely is if they can't make it just to drop me a quick text.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #47 on: 31 October 2014, 09:29:43 am »
When they don't read your ad, ask lots of questions and they say they'll call back. They never do. Except one who did earlier this week and was very nice :)
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #48 on: 31 October 2014, 10:09:42 am »
I agree with Helen,

If you ask them to make a booking through AW, you'll find if they are a TW, 9 times out of 10 they won't. I've started doing this now, and it seems to be filtering them out well! x

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #49 on: 31 October 2014, 06:51:10 pm »
hi



hiwhen they ask for a face pic .when thy ask me for pic they usually don't book so i refuse to send anything xx

rose xxx

Red KB

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #50 on: 23 February 2015, 04:12:22 pm »


4.When you give them your post code after a few seconds ask them to read it back to you if they cant they usually hang up straight away.

I just had a guy do this. He said sorry he didn't catch it and I said nevermind and hung up!
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #51 on: 12 May 2015, 08:40:39 pm »
Sometimes I struggle, but how do you tell a "genuine" time waster from simply a guy who is making a genuine enquiry?

Mirror

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #52 on: 12 May 2015, 08:54:24 pm »
Some are more obvious than others.

Genuine clients tend to make contact, are clear about who they are phoning, have a definite time, date, booking length in mind and are able to follow a reasonable booking procedure eg phone at an agreed time to confirm and obtain directions.

TW tend to want to ask a lot of questions without actually committing, or start umming and ahhing.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #53 on: 12 May 2015, 09:04:39 pm »
Asking lots of questions... I particularly notice when they continue to ask questions after I've said I don't do something. "Do you deep throat?" "No, I'm sorry, I don't." "OK. Do you do watersports?"

To my way of thinking, if they're looking for something in particular then they should move on and find a girl who does it. But some guys will keep you on the phone even after it's apparent that you're not what they claim they're looking for.


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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #54 on: 12 May 2015, 09:12:41 pm »
TW: 5-10 minutes of questions...then...'I ring you later'/'Too much money'/ hangs up/cums

Mr Genuine: 10 seconds....then....I'd like an appointment please'

Give them 10 seconds and if you can't work it out say....
'I'll call you back'
or
'Call back in 10 minutes'

Then figure out if they are genuine or wasters over a biscuit.
Too many wanky questions and they are wasters.

You don't have to answer any or all of his questions.
You are the boss.
If you're new and not sure..... take your time with that biscuit. ;)
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Erotic flower

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #55 on: 12 May 2015, 09:15:55 pm »
ask them to call back in 10 as Paris once advised wisely on here (thankyou)  ;)
the genuine ones always do and the timewasters have often moved on or jerked off

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #56 on: 12 May 2015, 11:58:05 pm »
My tips:

- refuses to call you when asked;
- sends thousands mails/texts;
- cannot set exact date/time of the booking;
- asks questions your profile already answers;
- tries make you describe what you're wearing/what you like;

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #57 on: 13 May 2015, 01:12:32 pm »
hmmm??..it's all very intuitive isn't it and you quickly learn to pick up signs.

I had my very first 'no show' this morning, and was rather pissed off as got up early and went to the flat and he didn't arrive, he's now blocked.  Although we spoke a couple of times over the last week, and he booked last week but I had to cancel, and then every time he tried to rebook, I wasn't available.

I did get a slight 'maybe' when he texted 2 days ago and said 'you must be busy, taking too long to reply'???that smacks of tw to me, but he'd been straightforward up to then, and sounded nice.

It's all a bit of a game isn't it, trying to spot them before they waste too much of your time.  (Sadly my daughter was sick at school and I had to pick her up and cancel my other 2 appointments for today, so will just forget about it and say, today was not a money day, tomorrow will probably be better.)

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #58 on: 14 May 2015, 10:58:58 am »
I think the most frustrating ones are the brinkmanship type as I call them.The ones where there are little hitches or vibes but it could be plausible so you give them the benefit of the doubt.
Example:Bloke emailed me politely at the weekend asking to meet Sunday.I wasn't available so politely ask for him to ring during the week to arrange another day.He emailed back and asked if he should ring this weekend or on Monday.First slight red flag as I had made it clear already to ring in the week.
He rang Monday and booked for Tuesday,he asked a couple of daft questions but had explained he was new to seeing escorts..so still plausible.
He didn't confirm Tuesday but did email later to say his relative had been rushed to hospital...plausible maybe and he rearranged for an hour on Saturday at 1pm.
Last night he emailed asking if he could have a 30 min duo instead...red flags raising a little more...emailed back and told no as my duo friends are on hols until Friday night and as its his first time and due to us not actually meeting as yet I didn't feel it was a good idea at this stage.
He rang this morning claiming he hasn't read my reply yet so thought he would just ring..reiterated what I said on the email he then starts on about our 2pm on Sunday...last piece of a timewaster jigsaw the fact he clearly doesn't know what day or time he has rearranged for.Nipped in the bud too many little bugbears for me.Those are the most annoying though because they drag it out playing as I say brinkmanship games.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #59 on: 14 May 2015, 02:24:10 pm »
I recognise that behaviour bibi.

Whilst there are clients who are genuine, potential clients who display obvious TW behaviour there are several who just have bad luck or who are disorganised, and it can be difficult to work out whether they are genuine or not.

One man couldn't organise transport, was always last minute, booked in advance promising this time he'd be there and let me down several times. He did eventually turn up, lovely in person but difficult and lots of hassle to organise bookings. Not a TW as such, but a more trouble that it's worth.