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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #105 on: 30 April 2018, 11:50:33 pm »
" I'm looking for a regular lady who I can spend time with on a very regular basis"    *yawns*

 got  a fair few of these.:D :D :D

also, the guy that calls you and wants an overnight, goes on and on ...and on. you work hard to pin him down to a booking. he agrees on time, place. Then texts you asking for a face pic because your pics are blurred.


Never criticize someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, they won't be able to hear you from that far away. Plus, you'll have their shoes.

Dynamite Doll

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #106 on: 01 May 2018, 12:47:51 am »
All that you ladies have mentioned.

To add - Anyone that texts me is a time-waster. Cos the amount of times I reply **CALL TO BOOK X** not one does so I do not bother replying make sure I have zero credit on my phone. Texts are TW big time.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #107 on: 01 May 2018, 08:38:53 am »
All that you ladies have mentioned.

To add - Anyone that texts me is a time-waster. Cos the amount of times I reply **CALL TO BOOK X** not one does so I do not bother replying make sure I have zero credit on my phone. Texts are TW big time.

same here. No one ever replies to me when I ask them to call to book.
« Last Edit: 01 May 2018, 11:47:01 pm by jo-jo »
Never criticize someone until you've walked a mile in their shoes. That way, when you criticize them, they won't be able to hear you from that far away. Plus, you'll have their shoes.

Ellie B

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #108 on: 01 May 2018, 11:11:25 pm »
Oh - another one.
They want to meet you for 4 hours and you have never met them before - always a TW!

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #109 on: 09 May 2018, 10:59:06 am »
Another one- Anyone who says they have plenty of money or money no option.
Just a way to lure you in and put up with their timewastey messages.

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« Reply #110 on: 09 May 2018, 12:57:04 pm »
People that barter more than once. Especially for over nights and long bookings and people that expect a discounted rate for seriously hard work bookings likeparties because they "paid for the ticket".

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #111 on: 27 June 2018, 10:55:21 am »
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shot him some very businesslike questions which he was equipped to answer.

What was asked of him? How did he respond?

Keen to know what to ask to flush these types out, thanks.


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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #112 on: 02 July 2018, 11:35:50 pm »
Some of this timewasters are very skilled at sounding legit. They even go ahead to book you on AW just to assure you that they are genuine only to turn out to be flakes. I have learned to rely on my gut feeling sometimes.

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #113 on: 18 July 2018, 10:57:18 pm »
Had it up to my ears this week with TW’s Incall bookings. Not turning up!
I can only trust lively regs lately to turn up.

Apart from the OBVIOUS of feeling them out on the phone (we’ve alll talked about that a lot).

What UP TO DATE fail safe techniques are you using as an obstacle for a TW to succeed in making a booking and doing just that. Not turning up.

if you can list them so we can all easily share them and maybe pick up a new trick or two would be great. Asking for INCALLS bookings.

I’ve heard of and read about others recently doing some of the following -

DEPOSITS - How?  How much?  How do you word it when stating you require one?

ID - ?

Asking client to SEND GPS LOCATION to show their on the way ?

Anyone? x


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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #114 on: 18 July 2018, 11:49:07 pm »
Merged.

Ellie B

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #115 on: 18 July 2018, 11:54:16 pm »
Oh - another one.
They want to meet you for 4 hours and you have never met them before - always a TW!
Actually not so! An exception to the rule.
One recently that booked for four hours and paid for four hours and had dinner too and a present!
Rare indeed.

Plus one to remember on the TW list (not above client)
Always mention how they are going to want you as a regular booking - that never pans out.
It is up to us really if we want to meet them again and not the other way round!
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #116 on: 19 July 2018, 01:50:00 pm »
Nowadays I tend to just go by how well they go through my booking process. If they don’t follow it and waffle about something other than the booking (that lasts for 30 seconds more than I am happy with) it’s a hard no. I don’t have the time for bullshit, if you are not getting straight to the point when trying to book then I am not interested. I know there are some variations but all in all unless they are happy to present to you everything you have asked of them via your profile requests then they are just wasting your time.
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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #117 on: 19 July 2018, 07:08:39 pm »
Want to come see you in in many months away and bore you to death in emails or texts. They have no intention of visiting or booking you.
It's just Jerk off!!

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« Reply #118 on: 21 July 2018, 06:59:31 pm »
Many of the above, plus:

*"I'm looking for a lady I can see regularly." In the same vein as "money no object."
*"Just one more thing/another quick question..." If uttered multiple times.
* "What do you do in the hour?" Especially if they've found your ad on something like AW that has a likes list.
*"Can you send me some more photos of yourself?" As if I want to help build up his free private porno collection.
*"Great I'll look forward to seeing you then!" Hasn't yet received an area/landmark/ postcode and showed no sign of asking for one. TW rookie error.

Oh yea, and dick pics. But that's pretty transparent.

Ellie B

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Re: Spotting timewasters
« Reply #119 on: 21 July 2018, 09:54:11 pm »
Definitely dick pics - always a TW
I nearly always ignore but couldn't resist sending a brief message to one who had no intention of making a booking-
"That looks just like a penis, but smaller!"