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sarah_bbw

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spot on his c**k
« on: 23 May 2010, 06:21:26 pm »
One of my regular clients emailed me yesterday asking for a sunday meet because he was going on holiday on monday, as a regular client i decided to break my rule about working on sundays and agreed to meet him, when i arrived at his place and we got comfortable i noticed a spot on the side on his c**k about half way down, i only saw him 6 days ago and it was not there then. It looked as though he had picked it this morning as the wound was still open.

he enjoys OWO and straight sex covered but I had to refuse , i explained that i could not go any further due to the risk of infection and although he said he understood i think he was a little put out.

I know him to be a pretty decent client with whom i never have any problems, im just wondering now how i can make sure i dont loose a good client, i know hes returning in 1 weeks time, should i contact him first to ask how his break went or should i wait to see if he contacts me first? 
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EmilyJones

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Re: spot on his c**k
« Reply #1 on: 23 May 2010, 07:58:43 pm »
I wouldn't contact him, I know it's important to make your regulars feel special but he probably (I should hope!) feels embarrassed about the fact that he's been picking at a spot on his penis so that it bleeds before visiting a prostitute.

I'd wait to see if he contacts you first and if not, perhaps replace him with a client more educated about health and hygiene? It's obviously up to you but I think it's perfectly fair to expect all your clients to be aware that spots should be checked out by a doctor/nurse (not picked) and that any sensible escort is going to refuse to do OWO if you're actually bleeding from your penis. Lord alive! The more I type the less understanding and patient I am becoming. :P I mean, you said *he* looked a bit put out? If it had been me, I would have given him a really patronising lecture and told him to piss off. Well, no, I would've told him he can choose either covered oral or the pissing off option. Cos I'm nice. ;D And I'm not a nurse.
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Harlow

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Re: spot on his c**k
« Reply #2 on: 24 May 2010, 04:01:11 am »
Hi,

You did the right thing & you need to stick to your guns! you apologise to him & the power turns, after all it wasn't you that had a open wound on your bits, that you expected him to lick!!!!! aaaaghhh yuk! He is yet to prove if he is genuinely a nice client, because if he comes back you'll know he is. But if he doesn't then I think you can safely know that he was just a punter & to him you were another escort providing a services! But if he does come to see you again I wouldn't mention it again unless he brings it up. Then I would point out that I have proved I am safety conscious, as if I had have done it with him, then I could have done it with others. Wouldn't he rather good clean fun?

Give yourself a *treat *you handled a bad situation well, you & your body is more important then a clients feelings!

Harlow :)
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cindy

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Re: spot on his c**k
« Reply #3 on: 24 May 2010, 05:29:50 am »
I handled a bad situation once. I had a guy intent on rubbing himself on my private parts. He wasted his 30 min booking on attempting to do this while I kept my legs closed like a vice and warned him to quit it! Eventually I reminded him he had gone a half hour over his time just as my next client arrived. By the time id got him to leave id missed my next one. "Oh sorry" he said!
Unreal and generally thoughtless. Then ive read numerous threads written by men that they are concerned that they will "catch" something from a wg!
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Simone

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Re: spot on his c**k
« Reply #4 on: 24 May 2010, 07:29:51 am »
Sarah i totally agree with Emily on this one,you definitely shouldn't contact him or indeed waste another second of your precious time even thinking/worrying/fretting about him.
You describe him as a nice decent guy but frankly the fact that he has happily picked away at a suspicious lesion on his bell end (instead of getting himself straight to the GUM clinic) And then expected you to uncomplainingly wrap your mouth around a bleeding open wound would indicate to me that at worst hes a total prick and at best woefully uneducated as to STIs and their risks.

As to him feeling a 'bit put out' then tough titty to him. He clearly wasn't worried about putting you out by giving you a nice dose of herpes/genital warts etc etc.
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