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elainegirl

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Spilt condom worried about std
« on: 02 April 2016, 06:19:30 pm »
Hi girls

Just wondering how often does an accident happen?
Recently I met a client and we had doggy style sex, he said he came but there was no cum in condom.

Would appreciate your advice

Thanks
Elaine

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Re: Spilt condom worried about std
« Reply #1 on: 02 April 2016, 06:32:46 pm »
Was it actually broken?

Ejaculation and orgasm are two separate processes - they just usually happen at the same time. But it's quite possible to ejaculate without orgasm (and this is the basis of the 'ruined orgasm' service in some BDSM sessions) or orgasm without ejaculating. The older the client, I suspect the more likely the latter is to occur.
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Re: Spilt condom worried about std
« Reply #2 on: 02 April 2016, 06:37:18 pm »
He was late 30s. condom was 100 percent not broken

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Re: Spilt condom worried about std
« Reply #3 on: 02 April 2016, 07:19:54 pm »
He was late 30s. condom was 100 percent not broken

But your title says Spilt condom worried about std  ???

Maybe he said he came but didnt? Wouldnt be the first time a guy lied! If your 100% certain the condom wasnt broken you shouldnt be worrying yourself sweetie
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Re: Spilt condom worried about std
« Reply #4 on: 03 April 2016, 01:08:09 am »
Some blokes can actually have dry orgasms or has been said he may have had enough so lied about coming.Not sure why you asked about a split condom if you are sure it was intact.I presume you go get your sti checks done regularly if you are at all worried although no need to be if the condom was intact and on him the whole time then go to your clinic.

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Re: Spilt condom worried about std
« Reply #5 on: 03 April 2016, 07:21:18 am »
Some blokes can actually have dry orgasms or has been said he may have had enough so lied about coming.Not sure why you asked about a split condom if you are sure it was intact.I presume you go get your sti checks done regularly if you are at all worried although no need to be if the condom was intact and on him the whole time then go to your clinic.

Yep especially if they are older and have had prostate problems they tend to ejaculate internally.

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Re: Spilt condom worried about std
« Reply #6 on: 03 April 2016, 09:11:01 pm »
I always make sure to help with pulling out so the condom stays in place. I make a peace sign with my 2 fingers and slide them with the rolled edge of the condom. Sometimes if they pull out too quickly the condom will slip of causing a mess. You should know what's going on down there at ALL times to make sure there is a condom between the two of yous. If there was a chance he pulled out quick, pretended to pull off the condom and you are not sure if he ripped it off during, you can always smell yourself in the bathroom when you pee. We all know what it feels and smells like. I have a few clients who don't have anything come  out when they orgasm. I still use protection though because that doesn't mean they can't have an std. Good luck. You should be on a schedule of getting tested regularly. Your doctor can tell you how often you should based on your exposure rates.