I been meeting this guy for over two years now. Today I went to hotel with him and had a small drink I woke up and the money he paid was half gone and I was a half hour over check in time. This is fucked up cause now I feel I can’t trust absolutely any of them. I never thought a person I knew quite well for ages would do that to me but I guess deep down we need to remember here just paying for a service and most of them are self serving. I’m sad and darkened up a bit did anyone else experience something like this?

I been meeting this guy for over two years now. Today I went to hotel with him and had a small drink I woke up and the money he paid was half gone and I was a half hour over check in time. This is fucked up cause now I feel I can’t trust absolutely any of them. I never thought a person I knew quite well for ages would do that to me but I guess deep down we need to remember here just paying for a service and most of them are self serving. I’m sad and darkened up a bit did anyone else experience something like this?

Firstly, I am so sorry that you have suffered this nasty invasion.

Big time.

I try not to leave the room or accept anything to drink from them, especially if you're seeing non-regulars.

It's a dangerous game and I was robbed recently, you just have to be so on your wits.

I hope that you are ok x

Wow, I’m so sorry this man was so utterly horrible and put you in a dangerous position.

Please report him - do you know any of his personal information as you’ve known him so long?

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Really sorry that happen to you , it is horrible. Please don t drink any bottle open in hotel or private home or even in your place if not open in front of you.
I even refuse Bottle of water not sealed, they have to open it in front of me if they want to share with me.
Hope you are feeling better.

When I started out I would do quite a few outcalls to clients' homes. So many times they disappeared to the kitchen and brought back a drink for me. It never occured to me there was any risk until a more experienced lady told me NO! never accept a drink that way. I stopped immediately and would then take my own bottled water or juice. I poured it myself and didn't take my eyes off it.

We live and learn but for some that's too late. 

Sorry this happened to you.

Yes I learned you can’t trust regs. Some can get comfortable they start to push boundaries etc. but this is an awful situation. I can only Imagine how hurt you must be feelin.

Always have your guard up. Learn from it and put it down to a terrible experience. Hope you have some better nicer experiences x

I'm so sorry that happened. If you're looking for more support, you could always call the Sex Workers Outreach Project at 877-776-2004. They are wonderful. (From outside the US, it's 001 877 776 2004)

I have just cut off one of my regs i have known years. I started to accept payment at the end of the bookings with him. The last visit I noticed he put £10 down, as he was walking out the door I noticed in time,  he made out he picked the wrong pocket. He did pay the correct fee. But I do think he was testing me to see if he could get away with it or not.

He been getting hard work going 20 mins over booked time. Trying on  services I don’t offer. He only books 30 mins. Final cherry on the cake was when he cancelled on me 20 mins before the booking was due. I told him on this occasion I had to be on schedule as had I had a busy day. So I think he cancelled due to letting him know you will only be getting 30 mins today and can’t go over.

He was once a very good client respected boundaries, never overstayed. I shouldn’t have accepted payment at the end but as I known him years I thought I could trust him .  I now have learned if you give them an inch, they run a mile. Shame when at one point they have been such good regulars .  Case of When regulars turn  bad. Now all clients even regs have to pay upfront.