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Vichyssoise

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Spanking
« on: 27 January 2015, 09:33:23 pm »
Is there a knack to spanking someone really hard without hurting your own hand? I have a guy coming whom I have seen before for spanking and he wanted it harder, but it left me with a sore hand. He wants the palm and not a paddle.  ::)
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Nia Hope

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #1 on: 27 January 2015, 09:46:18 pm »
Cup your hand, don't use your full palm if that makes sense, it gives a better spank and you won't get as sore x
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Lady_Lust_XXX

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #2 on: 27 January 2015, 10:08:20 pm »
Or use implements like slippers, cane, tawse, hairbrush ..... the list is endless ... but they only work if the client isnt bothered about what he gets spanked with.
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Vichyssoise

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #3 on: 27 January 2015, 10:28:26 pm »
Yes LL he wants the hand. No implements. I have tried cupping but it still hurts. Par for the course I suppose. Don't think I will be doing it too often.
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Nia Hope

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #4 on: 27 January 2015, 10:31:11 pm »
I think with cupping slightly it's less stingy, just enjoy it and give him one from me x
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TheLittleMatchGirl

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #5 on: 27 January 2015, 11:08:49 pm »
Also doing it on the fattest part, lower down/away from sides if that makes sense
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Mistress-Devon

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #6 on: 28 January 2015, 08:40:42 pm »
Leather gloves?

Mine have spikes in them, draws blood  ;D but that's whole other level... GOD I love my job  8)
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Vichyssoise

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #7 on: 29 January 2015, 08:04:07 am »
Mistress-Devon, genius, thank you. Can't wait now.
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Mistress-Devon

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Re: Spanking
« Reply #8 on: 29 January 2015, 04:47:29 pm »
Quote from: Carnal Carmel on 29 January 2015, 08:04:07 am
Mistress-Devon, genius, thank you. Can't wait now.

Well... Yes I am  ;D Enjoy xx
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Re: Spanking
« Reply #9 on: 02 November 2016, 06:50:43 pm »
Didn't want to start a new topic if the info was already out there so was happy to find this and other threads.

My last client was an older guy who really got off on being spanked.  He wasn't a small man and my arms are not long.  We were in mish when he started asking me spank him and then asked for it to be harder, HARDER.  I couldn't find an easy way to get my arm/hand around there and he didn't want to get off of me so that I could give him the proper spanking he was asking for.  I was beginning to feel silly trying to twist to get to his arse and since the whole spanking thing does nothing for me (giving or receiving) I was almost ready to laugh.

If he books again I'm going to use my riding crop.  Can't do much to change the length of my arms or force him to lose 40 lbs so I don't have so much to reach around!  ;D 
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Re: Spanking
« Reply #10 on: 03 November 2016, 07:38:43 pm »
I know it's a bit of an obvious one but you can always change arms too. Left hand or right hand doesn't matter when all you're doing is whacking them on the arse  ;D
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Re: Spanking
« Reply #11 on: 04 November 2016, 07:16:05 pm »
Quote from: MandyVine on 02 November 2016, 06:50:43 pm
Didn't want to start a new topic if the info was already out there so was happy to find this and other threads.

My last client was an older guy who really got off on being spanked.  He wasn't a small man and my arms are not long.  We were in mish when he started asking me spank him and then asked for it to be harder, HARDER.  I couldn't find an easy way to get my arm/hand around there and he didn't want to get off of me so that I could give him the proper spanking he was asking for.  I was beginning to feel silly trying to twist to get to his arse and since the whole spanking thing does nothing for me (giving or receiving) I was almost ready to laugh.

If he books again I'm going to use my riding crop.  Can't do much to change the length of my arms or force him to lose 40 lbs so I don't have so much to reach around!  ;D

You can also use a bamboo cane instead of a riding crop. You can get it from homebase for about a ?1 it does a great job and doesnt break. Or the back or the back of a round hair brush if your hands hurt.
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Re: Spanking
« Reply #12 on: 04 November 2016, 07:25:44 pm »
Start slow and light and build up. better for them in terms of not leaving marks and better for you too.
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